{"id":993,"date":"2018-03-28T13:28:52","date_gmt":"2018-03-28T10:28:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=993"},"modified":"2018-03-28T13:30:41","modified_gmt":"2018-03-28T10:30:41","slug":"anneler-erkek-cocuk-yetistirirken-hangi-hatalari-yapiyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/anneler-erkek-cocuk-yetistirirken-hangi-hatalari-yapiyor\/","title":{"rendered":"Anneler erkek \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirirken hangi hatalar\u0131 yap\u0131yor?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ataeerkil bir toplumda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in <strong>erkek \u00e7ocuk<\/strong>,\u00a0\u00a0bebeklikten ergenlik \u00e7a\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6re k\u0131zlara nazaran fazla ilgi g\u00f6r\u00fcyor. Bu nedenle <span style=\"color: #6a6a6a;\">anne<\/span> o\u011flunu, aile hayat\u0131nda ailenin merkezine ve e\u015finin yerine koymamal\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011funun \u00fczerine olmas\u0131 gerekenden daha fazla sorumluluk y\u00fcklememelidir.<b><\/b><\/p>\n<p><strong>Erkek \u00e7ocuk annesi olmak<\/strong><br \/>\nB\u00fct\u00fcn erkek \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 i\u00e7in anne kuca\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ok de\u011ferli ve \u00f6nemlidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc erke\u011fin annesiyle k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flarda kurdu\u011fu ili\u015fki, onun ileriki y\u0131llarda \u00f6zg\u00fcvenini, sosyal ili\u015fkilerini, hatta ne tip kad\u0131nlardan ho\u015flanaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 etkiliyor. Erkek \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n hayatlar\u0131ndaki ilk kad\u0131n ve \u00f6\u011fretici ki\u015fi anneleridir. Anneyle o\u011flu aras\u0131ndaki ili\u015fkiyi bu denli \u00f6zel yapan etken de bu.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c7ocuk annesinden hayat\u0131 sevmeyi \u00f6\u011frenir<\/strong><br \/>\nAnnenin \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla b\u00fcy\u00fck bir ilgiyle bir \u015feyler yapmas\u0131, payla\u015fmas\u0131, ona hikayeler okumas\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 geli\u015fimi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131nda olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nemlidir. Bu \u015fekilde anne o\u011fluna ya\u015fama sevincini a\u015f\u0131lar. S\u0131radan gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnen g\u00fczel anlar\u0131n payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun hayat\u0131 boyunca s\u00fcrecek olan sevgiyi b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr. Bu sevgi, sadece \u00e7ocu\u011fun mutlu bir birey olarak yeti\u015fmesini sa\u011flam\u0131yor. Ayn\u0131 zamanda kendine ve ba\u015fkalar\u0131na g\u00fcvenmeyi de \u00f6\u011fretiyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc erkek \u00e7ocu\u011funun annesiyle kurdu\u011fu ili\u015fki, di\u011fer ili\u015fkileri i\u00e7in de bir model olu\u015fturuyor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kar\u015f\u0131 cinsle sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir ili\u015fki kurabilmesi anneye ba\u011fl\u0131<\/strong><br \/>\nErke\u011fin hayat\u0131ndaki ilk kad\u0131n olan annenin, o\u011flunun gelecekteki ili\u015fkilerinde belirleyici bir rol\u00fc vard\u0131r. \u00d6rne\u011fin annesiyle aras\u0131nda bir mesafe olan \u00e7ocuk, ileriki y\u0131llarda beraber olaca\u011f\u0131 kad\u0131na da mesafeli davran\u0131r. Tersine, annesiyle \u00e7ok yak\u0131n ili\u015fkide olan erkek \u00e7ocu\u011fun, beraber oldu\u011fu kad\u0131na da yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 artar. Bu nedenle annenin nas\u0131l d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fc ve duygular\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l ifade etti\u011fi b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131r.<br \/>\nBunun d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda, anneyle baba aras\u0131ndaki ili\u015fki de, \u00e7ocu\u011fun psikolojik geli\u015fimi \u00fczerinde etkili. Birbirine sevgi ve sayg\u0131yla yakla\u015fan bir \u00e7ift, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcnde b\u00f6yle bir ili\u015fki modeli olu\u015fturur.<\/p>\n<p><b>Bir erke\u011fin hayat\u0131na ilk giren kad\u0131n annesidir, ona do\u011fru rol model olun <\/b><br \/>\nErkek \u00e7ocu\u011fu annesinin d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6rerek, kad\u0131nlar\u0131n d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 daha yak\u0131ndan tan\u0131ma f\u0131rsat\u0131 buluyor. Kar\u015f\u0131t cinse ait d\u00fcnyan\u0131n tan\u0131nmas\u0131 da, \u00e7ocu\u011fun bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n geni\u015flemesini sa\u011fl\u0131yor. Bir erkek i\u00e7in kad\u0131nlar\u0131n d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 anlamak, \u00e7ok geni\u015f bir pencereden bakabilmek anlam\u0131na geliyor.<br \/>\nBir erke\u011fin hayat\u0131na giren ilk kad\u0131n olarak anne, \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in tam bir g\u00f6zlem konusu. Erkek, annesine bakarak kad\u0131nlar hakk\u0131nda bilgi edinir ve onlar\u0131 anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r. Bu \u015fekilde anne fark\u0131nda olmadan kendi ki\u015fili\u011finde bar\u0131nd\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 kad\u0131nlara \u00f6zg\u00fc davran\u0131\u015flar sergileyerek, o\u011flunun g\u00f6zlemlerine m\u00fcthi\u015f bir malzeme verir.<br \/>\nBunun d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda annenin derin duygusall\u0131\u011f\u0131 da erkek \u00e7ocu\u011fu i\u00e7in ke\u015ffedilmeyi bekleyen bir hazine. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n ya\u015flar\u0131 ilerleyip, annelerini anlamaya ba\u015flad\u0131klar\u0131nda, kad\u0131nlara \u00f6zg\u00fc duygular\u0131 ay\u0131rt etme yetenekleri artar.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ataeerkil bir toplumda ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z i\u00e7in erkek \u00e7ocuk,\u00a0\u00a0bebeklikten ergenlik \u00e7a\u011f\u0131na g\u00f6re k\u0131zlara nazaran fazla ilgi g\u00f6r\u00fcyor. Bu nedenle anne o\u011flunu, aile hayat\u0131nda ailenin merkezine ve e\u015finin yerine koymamal\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011funun \u00fczerine olmas\u0131 gerekenden daha fazla sorumluluk y\u00fcklememelidir. Erkek \u00e7ocuk annesi olmak B\u00fct\u00fcn erkek \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 i\u00e7in anne kuca\u011f\u0131 \u00e7ok de\u011ferli ve \u00f6nemlidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc erke\u011fin annesiyle k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flarda kurdu\u011fu [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":80,"featured_media":791,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[540,539,538],"class_list":{"0":"post-993","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aile","8":"tag-cocuk-yetistirmek","9":"tag-erkek-bebek","10":"tag-erkek-cocuk"},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/anne-ogul-oyun.jpg?fit=626%2C417&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/993","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/80"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=993"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/993\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/791"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=993"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=993"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=993"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}