{"id":8961,"date":"2020-11-22T13:47:03","date_gmt":"2020-11-22T10:47:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=8961"},"modified":"2020-11-22T13:55:20","modified_gmt":"2020-11-22T10:55:20","slug":"bebegini-doven-annelerin-psikolojisi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/bebegini-doven-annelerin-psikolojisi\/","title":{"rendered":"Bebe\u011fini d\u00f6ven annelerin psikolojisi"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-light-blue ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Yaz\u0131 \u0130\u00e7eri\u011fi<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a57badc81f37\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a57badc81f37\"  aria-label=\"A\u00e7\/Kapat\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/bebegini-doven-annelerin-psikolojisi\/#Anne_ve_bebek_iliskisi\" >Anne ve bebek ili\u015fkisi\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/bebegini-doven-annelerin-psikolojisi\/#Annenin_ruh_hali_anne-bebek_iliskisini_nasil_etkiliyor\" >Annenin ruh hali anne-bebek ili\u015fkisini nas\u0131l etkiliyor?\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/bebegini-doven-annelerin-psikolojisi\/#Annenizle_cocuklugunuzda_iliskiniz_nasildi\" >Annenizle \u00e7ocuklu\u011funuzda ili\u015fkiniz nas\u0131ld\u0131?\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/bebegini-doven-annelerin-psikolojisi\/#Iyi_bir_anne_olmak%E2%80%A6_Ama_nasil\" >\u0130yi bir anne olmak&#8230; Ama nas\u0131l?\u00a0<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p class=\"Gvde\">G\u00fcn ge\u00e7miyor ki \u00e7ocu\u011funu d\u00f6ven bir annenin haberi medyaya d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor. Peki \u00e7ocu\u011fa lkar\u015f\u0131 \u015fiddet neden bu kadar artt\u0131? <strong>Anneler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 neden d\u00f6verler?<\/strong> \u00c7ocu\u011funa \u015fiddet g\u00f6steren annelerin psikolojisi nas\u0131ld\u0131r? <strong>Psikolog Arzu Yazar<\/strong>, \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 \u015fiddeti ve bebe\u011fini d\u00f6ven annelerin psikolojisini yazd\u0131!..<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Anne_ve_bebek_iliskisi\"><\/span><strong>Anne ve bebek ili\u015fkisi\u00a0<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><strong>Anne<\/strong>, bir \u00e7ocu\u011fu do\u011furan, bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcstlenen veya kendi do\u011furmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u00e7ocu\u011fu evlat edinen ve bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcstlenen kad\u0131nd\u0131r. Bebek ise bir insan\u0131n en k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck hali olan do\u011fum an\u0131ndan itibaren y\u00fcr\u00fcme d\u00f6nemine kadar olan zaman diliminde ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 isimdir. Yeni do\u011fmu\u015f olan bir bebek her a\u00e7\u0131dan anne ve babas\u0131na muhta\u00e7t\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Anne olmak<\/strong> genel bir tan\u0131md\u0131r. Hamile kalan kad\u0131n\u0131n ge\u00e7irece\u011fi evreler genel olarak ayn\u0131d\u0131r. Bir bebe\u011fin d\u00fcnyaya geli\u015fi ve temel ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131, bak\u0131m verirken yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekenler de genellikle ayn\u0131d\u0131r. Ayn\u0131 olmayan \u015fey anne ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun ayn\u0131 bedende var olmayla ba\u015flayan ili\u015fkisel s\u00fcrecidir. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7 biriciktir ve ayn\u0131 annenin di\u011fer \u00e7ocuk \/ \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcre\u00e7ten farkl\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Anne olmadan kurulan hayaller ve endi\u015feler asl\u0131nda bir\u00e7ok annede ortakt\u0131r:<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">*Bir yolculuk hali annelik ve ilk rehberimiz ge\u00e7mi\u015fimiz..*<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cBebe\u011fime harika bir anne olaca\u011f\u0131m\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cAnnemin bana yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 asla ona yapmayaca\u011f\u0131m\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cBenim m\u00fckemmelim o, kuca\u011f\u0131ma almak i\u00e7in sab\u0131rs\u0131zlan\u0131yorum\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cO kadar zaman bekledik ki ona sahip olabilmek i\u00e7in\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201c\u0130yi bir anne olmak i\u00e7in bir s\u00fcr\u00fc kitap okuyorum\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cBiran \u00f6nce do\u011fsun istiyorum, art\u0131k ona sar\u0131labilmek istiyorum\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Karn\u0131mda bir can daha var. Her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn b\u00fcy\u00fcyor. Bedenim de\u011fi\u015fiyor, duygular\u0131m kontrolden \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor. Kendimi bazen \u00e7ok halsiz hissediyorum, bazen kusmaktan kendime gelemiyorum, bazen korkuyor bazen de hayallerimle mutlu oluyorum..<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Karn\u0131m her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn b\u00fcy\u00fcyor, hareketlerini hissediyorum, bebe\u011fimle konu\u015fuyorum, ona kendimi, hayallerimi anlat\u0131yorum..<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Art\u0131k iyice b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc karn\u0131m, zor hareket ediyorum. Bebe\u011fimin tekmeleri iyice sertle\u015fti, bazen can\u0131m yan\u0131yor. Art\u0131k do\u011fsa da ikimiz de rahatlasak diyorum..<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Nas\u0131l ge\u00e7ecek do\u011fum endi\u015fe ediyorum. Normal mi? Sezaryen m\u0131 olsam ? Bebe\u011fim i\u00e7in en sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131s\u0131 olsun istiyorum ama bir taraftan da \u00e7ok korkuyorum.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do\u011fdu bebe\u011fim, kuca\u011f\u0131ma ald\u0131m ve \u00e7ok mutluyum. Emzirmek ilk ba\u015fta ac\u0131 verdi ama ge\u00e7ti. Karn\u0131 doyunca g\u00fczelce uyuyor. Ben de dinlenmi\u015f oluyorum. Ona ninniler s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor, mutlu mutlu izliyorum onu.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ya da&#8230;<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Do\u011fum \u00e7ok zor ge\u00e7ti. \u00c7ok can\u0131m yand\u0131. Bebe\u011fimi kuca\u011f\u0131ma al\u0131nca \u00e7ok mutlu oldum. Ufac\u0131k ve \u00e7ok tatl\u0131. Emzirmemi istiyorlar ama emmiyor. S\u00fct\u00fcm gelmiyor, \u00e7ok can\u0131m ac\u0131yor. Emzirmek i\u015fkence gibi. Karn\u0131 doysun istiyorum ama olmuyor i\u015fte. Bir de \u00e7ok a\u011fl\u0131yor. \u00d6yle bir sesi var ki tahamm\u00fcl edemiyorum. Biri baks\u0131n az\u0131c\u0131k, ben uyumak istiyorum..<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Annenin_ruh_hali_anne-bebek_iliskisini_nasil_etkiliyor\"><\/span><strong>Annenin ruh hali anne-bebek ili\u015fkisini nas\u0131l etkiliyor?\u00a0<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><strong>Annenin ruh hali<\/strong>, hamileli\u011fin nas\u0131l ge\u00e7ti\u011fi, hamilelik s\u00fcresince i\u00e7inde bulunulan ko\u015fullar, <strong>anne &#8211; baba aras\u0131ndaki ili\u015fki<\/strong>, baban\u0131n bebe\u011fe aktar\u0131m\u0131, do\u011fum s\u00fcreci, bebe\u011fin sa\u011fl\u0131k durumu, emzirme s\u00fcrecinde kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131lan zorluklar, bebe\u011fin mizac\u0131 gibi bir \u00e7ok de\u011fi\u015fken annelik ser\u00fcveninde belirleyici bir etkiye sahiptir.\u00a0 Bu etkiler ile, anne olma halimize ili\u015fkin kurdu\u011fumuz hayaller ger\u00e7ekle\u015febilir ya da yerini hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na b\u0131rakabilir.<\/p>\n<p>Kar\u015f\u0131la\u015f\u0131lan zorluklara verilen anlamlar, ba\u015f etme ( \u201czamanla yoluna girecek\u201d \u201cbaz\u0131 bebekler b\u00f6yle\u201d \u201cemzirememek d\u00fcnyan\u0131n sonu de\u011fil\u201d )\u00a0 ya da edememe ( \u201cba\u015faramad\u0131m\u201d \u201colmuyor yapam\u0131yorum\u201d \u201cgaliba anne olmaya haz\u0131r de\u011fildim\u201d )\u00a0 halleri, ruhsal d\u00fcnyada yank\u0131lanmaya ba\u015flar. Altta yatan yaralar\u0131n ( kendi \u00e7ocukluk deneyimlerimizin) oldu\u011fu fay hatlar\u0131n\u0131 aktive eder. Sars\u0131nt\u0131 ne kadar \u015fiddetliyse, kurulan hayallerin y\u0131k\u0131m\u0131 da o kadar fazla olur.. Art\u0131k olmak istenilen annelikten \u00e7\u0131km\u0131\u015f, y\u0131k\u0131c\u0131 duygular\u0131n etkisi alt\u0131nda kontrol\u00fc kaybetmi\u015f birine d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcl\u00fcr.. D\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fclen o ki\u015fi ise, b\u00fcy\u00fck olas\u0131l\u0131kla size bak\u0131m veren ki\u015fidir; kendi anneniz !<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_9063\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-9063\" style=\"width: 672px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-9063\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cocugunu-doven-anne-psikolojisi.jpg?resize=672%2C447&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\u00c7ocu\u011funu d\u00f6ven anne psikolojisi\" width=\"672\" height=\"447\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cocugunu-doven-anne-psikolojisi.jpg?w=626&amp;ssl=1 626w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/cocugunu-doven-anne-psikolojisi.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 672px) 100vw, 672px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-9063\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">\u00c7ocu\u011funu d\u00f6ven anne psikolojisi<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Annenizle_cocuklugunuzda_iliskiniz_nasildi\"><\/span><strong>Annenizle \u00e7ocuklu\u011funuzda ili\u015fkiniz nas\u0131ld\u0131?\u00a0<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u00c7ocukken maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z, annenizin \/ bak\u0131m veren ki\u015finin problem \u00e7\u00f6zme y\u00f6ntemleri bir kullan\u0131m k\u0131lavuzu gibi \u00e7\u0131kar kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131za. E\u011fer daha iyisini yapma potansiyeliniz veya yeni deneyimler i\u00e7in ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011funuz destek yok ise, anneli\u011fe dair bilin\u00e7d\u0131\u015f\u0131 sistem devreye girer. Hangi durumda nas\u0131l tepki verece\u011finiz konusunda,\u00a0 ge\u00e7mi\u015ften getirdi\u011finiz deneyimler s\u00f6z sahibi olur. Anneniz size k\u0131zd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131yorsa, k\u0131zd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda ba\u011f\u0131rabilirsiniz. E\u011fer cezaland\u0131rmak, istemedi\u011fi davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 durdurmak i\u00e7in vuruyorsa, siz de istemsizce vurabilirsiniz. \u00dcstelik bunlardan \u015fikayet\u00e7i oldu\u011funuzu, size kendinizi \u00e7ok k\u00f6t\u00fc hissettirdi\u011fini bile bile, istemeden \/ kontrol\u00fc kaybederek yapars\u0131n\u0131z bunu.<\/p>\n<p>Bebek a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ne yaparsa yaps\u0131n onu susturamayan, kendini yetersiz ve \u00e7aresiz hisseden anne ya bebekten uzakla\u015fmak isteyecek ya da maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 duygularla ba\u015f edemeyip \u00f6fkelenecektir.\u00a0 Bebek duygusal yokluk ya da agresif tepki riskli ile kar\u015f\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131yad\u0131r art\u0131k. Annenin huzursuzlu\u011fu, gerginli\u011fi bebek taraf\u0131ndan hissedilir, bebek daha huzursuz ve gergin olur ve bu \u00e7ift tarafl\u0131 negatif etkile\u015fim iki tarafa da zarar verir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00dcstelik daha yeni ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131 yolculuk. Daha gidilecek \u00e7ok yol, durulacak duraklar vard\u0131.<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cNeden uyumuyorsun ki?\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201c Bir kerede yesen pi\u015firdi\u011fim yeme\u011fi.\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cOnu alma demedim mi ka\u00e7 kere?\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong><em>\u201cOfff yine mi alt\u0131na yapt\u0131n?\u201d<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bekledi\u011finiz \/ istedi\u011finiz gibi olmayan her durum, annelikte kendinizi ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z ve yetersiz hissedi\u015fleriniz, etrafa rezil olu\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 \u00f6fkeye \u00e7evirir, hedefiniz ise sizi bu hale getiren\u00a0 nesnedir; bebe\u011finiz.<\/p>\n<p>Kendinizi ona delice ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131rken, eline, poposuna vururken bulabilirsiniz. G\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz kararm\u0131\u015f, a\u011fz\u0131n\u0131zdan ate\u015fler sa\u00e7arken,\u00a0 bedeniniz ele ge\u00e7irilmi\u015f gibiyken, i\u00e7inizde bir yerlerde olmak istedi\u011finiz annelik seslenir \u201c ne yap\u0131yorum ben ?\u201d\u2026\u00a0\u00a0 Kendinize geldi\u011finizde korkmu\u015f ve a\u011flayan bir bebek g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u00fcz, \u00c7ok ge\u00e7meden pi\u015fmanl\u0131k, su\u00e7luluk duygusu ve kendinize k\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131k i\u015fgal eder i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyan\u0131z\u0131.. Sonra yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 telafi etmek i\u00e7in, bebe\u011finizi sevdi\u011finizi g\u00f6stermek i\u00e7in olumlu davran\u0131\u015flar sergiler \/ sevgi ifadelerinde bulunursunuz. \u201cBir daha yapmayaca\u011f\u0131m \/ B\u00f6yle ba\u011f\u0131rmayaca\u011f\u0131m \/ asla vurmayaca\u011f\u0131m\u201d diyerek kendinize s\u00f6z verirsiniz. S\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc de tutars\u0131n\u0131z, tekrar kontrol\u00fc kaybedene dek..<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c7ocu\u011funa duygusal \/ s\u00f6zel ya da fiziksel zarar veren anne, \u00e7ocuklu\u011funda duygusal \/ s\u00f6zel \/ fiziksel \u015fiddete maruz kalan bir \u00e7ocuktur asl\u0131nda<\/strong>. \u0130yi bir anne olmak ister, hatta m\u00fckemmel bir anne olup kendi yaralar\u0131n\u0131 da sarmak ister. Bunu yapamad\u0131k\u00e7a, \u201ciyi\u201d olmas\u0131na izin vermeyen, bu hayali y\u0131kan \u201cbebe\u011fe\u201d \u00f6fkelenir. Sonras\u0131nda hem bebe\u011fi hem kendisi yeniden yaralan\u0131r.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_9036\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-9036\" style=\"width: 671px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-9036\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/iyi-bir-anne-olmak.jpg?resize=671%2C447&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\u0130yi bir anne olmak\" width=\"671\" height=\"447\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/iyi-bir-anne-olmak.jpg?w=626&amp;ssl=1 626w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/iyi-bir-anne-olmak.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 671px) 100vw, 671px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-9036\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">\u0130yi bir anne olmak<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Iyi_bir_anne_olmak%E2%80%A6_Ama_nasil\"><\/span><strong>\u0130yi bir anne olmak&#8230; Ama nas\u0131l?\u00a0<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><strong>\u201ciyi bir anne olmak\u201d<\/strong>, \u00e7ocuk sahibi olmak isteyen her kad\u0131n\u0131n hayalidir. <strong>\u201cYeterince iyi bir anne olmak\u201d<\/strong> i\u00e7in ise, yaralar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n iyile\u015fmi\u015f olmas\u0131, fark\u0131ndal\u0131k kazanm\u0131\u015f ve kontrol\u00fc ele alm\u0131\u015f olman\u0131z gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131 yaralar kendi ba\u015f\u0131na iyile\u015fmeyecek kadar derindir. Bebe\u011finizle ve kendinizle olan ili\u015fkiniz yaraland\u0131 ise, bu gibi durumlarda psikolojik destek almak kendiniz i\u00e7in yapabilece\u011finiz en iyi \u015feydir.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>G\u00fcn ge\u00e7miyor ki \u00e7ocu\u011funu d\u00f6ven bir annenin haberi medyaya d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor. Peki \u00e7ocu\u011fa lkar\u015f\u0131 \u015fiddet neden bu kadar artt\u0131? Anneler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 neden d\u00f6verler? \u00c7ocu\u011funa \u015fiddet g\u00f6steren annelerin psikolojisi nas\u0131ld\u0131r? Psikolog Arzu Yazar, \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 \u015fiddeti ve bebe\u011fini d\u00f6ven annelerin psikolojisini yazd\u0131!.. Anne ve bebek ili\u015fkisi\u00a0 Anne, bir \u00e7ocu\u011fu do\u011furan, bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 \u00fcstlenen veya kendi do\u011furmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bir \u00e7ocu\u011fu [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":80,"featured_media":9035,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[11444,11441,11445],"class_list":["post-8961","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-bebek","tag-bebegini-doven-anne","tag-bebegini-doven-annelerin-psikolojisi","tag-bebegini-doven-kadin"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/11\/bebegini-doven-annelerin-psikolojisi.jpg?fit=626%2C417&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8961","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/80"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=8961"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8961\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/9035"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=8961"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=8961"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=8961"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}