{"id":8954,"date":"2020-11-15T00:54:10","date_gmt":"2020-11-14T21:54:10","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=8954"},"modified":"2022-05-04T13:58:47","modified_gmt":"2022-05-04T10:58:47","slug":"iyi-anne-olmak-ve-super-anne-sendromu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/iyi-anne-olmak-ve-super-anne-sendromu\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130yi anne olmak ve s\u00fcper anne sendromu"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-light-blue ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Yaz\u0131 \u0130\u00e7eri\u011fi<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a57cbb139bef\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a57cbb139bef\"  aria-label=\"A\u00e7\/Kapat\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/iyi-anne-olmak-ve-super-anne-sendromu\/#Iyi_bir_anne_olmak%E2%80%A6\" >\u0130yi bir anne olmak&#8230;\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/iyi-anne-olmak-ve-super-anne-sendromu\/#Yoksa_toplumu_memnun_etmeye_calisan_bir_anne_misiniz\" >Yoksa toplumu memnun etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bir anne misiniz?\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/iyi-anne-olmak-ve-super-anne-sendromu\/#Super_anne_sendromuna_dikkat\" >S\u00fcper anne sendromuna dikkat!\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/iyi-anne-olmak-ve-super-anne-sendromu\/#Mukemmel_anne_olmaya_calismayin\" >M\u00fckemmel anne olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yeni annelerin en \u00f6nemli tela\u015f\u0131 &#8220;iyi bir anne olmak&#8221; Her anne \u00e7ocu\u011fu i\u00e7in en iyisini yapmak ve ona iyi bir gelecek sunmak istiyor. Peki iyi bir anne nas\u0131l olmal\u0131? <strong>\u00c7ocuk Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve Hastal\u0131klar\u0131 Uzman\u0131 Onur Mert \u00c7elik<\/strong> yeni anneler i\u00e7in yazd\u0131!..<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Iyi_bir_anne_olmak%E2%80%A6\"><\/span><strong>\u0130yi bir anne olmak&#8230;\u00a0<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><strong>\u0130yi anne olmak?<\/strong> Herkes iyi bir anne olabilir mi? Yoksa her anne asl\u0131nda iyi bir anne midir? Kime g\u00f6re ve neye g\u00f6re iyi? Buna kimsenin verebilece\u011fi kesin bir yan\u0131t yoktur.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Genelde anneler \u00e7ocu\u011funun \u00e7ok iyi bir hayat ya\u015famas\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7ok ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmas\u0131n\u0131, \u00e7ok mutlu olmas\u0131n\u0131 ve b\u00fct\u00fcn bunlar olurken yeteneklerini d\u00fcnyay\u0131 daha iyi bir yer haline getirmek i\u00e7in kullanmas\u0131n\u0131 isterler. \u00c7ok eski zamanlardan beri annelik rol\u00fc toplumsal roller i\u00e7erisinde en k\u0131ymetlisidir. \u00d6yle ki antik yunanda tanr\u0131 ve tanr\u0131\u00e7alar\u0131n bile bir annesi vard\u0131. Ba\u015fka k\u00fclt\u00fcrlerde ve dinlerde de anne hep \u00f6zel yerlerde konumland\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r. B\u00f6yle bir bilin\u00e7alt\u0131 ile anneler ve anne adaylar\u0131 hep en iyisi olma \u00e7abas\u0131 i\u00e7erisine giriyorlar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Okumal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z: <a href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/cocuk\/mutlu-cocuk-yetistirmenin-tek-kurali-mutlu-anne-olmaktir\/\">\u0130yi \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmenin tek kural\u0131 mutlu anne olmakt\u0131r!<\/a><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Yoksa_toplumu_memnun_etmeye_calisan_bir_anne_misiniz\"><\/span><strong>Yoksa toplumu memnun etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bir anne misiniz?\u00a0<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocu\u011fumuz i\u00e7in en iyi anne olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken, toplumu memnun etmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bir anne modelini de\u011fil, \u00e7ocu\u011fumuza iyi gelen bir modeli benimsemeliyiz. Ebeveynlik uzmanlar\u0131; uyku, yemek yeme, ba\u011flanma, disiplin gibi \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftiricili\u011finin bu y\u00f6nlerine odaklan\u0131r. Ancak bunlar\u0131n yan\u0131nda \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzla bir yeti\u015fkin gibi konu\u015fma, g\u00fcven duygusu, yard\u0131mla\u015fma duygusu, ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131k, nezaket, kendi ayaklar\u0131 \u00fczerinde durma, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n haklar\u0131na sayg\u0131 duyma gibi de\u011ferleri \u00f6\u011fretmek \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. Bu davran\u0131\u015flarda \u00e7ocu\u011fumuza rol model olmal\u0131, sevgi ile nitelikli ge\u00e7irilen zamanlarda bu de\u011ferleri ona \u00f6\u011fretmeliyiz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Okumal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z: <a href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/hamilelik\/30undan-sonra-anne-olmak-isteyenler\/\">30&#8217;undan sonra anne olmak isteyenler dikkat!<\/a><\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Super_anne_sendromuna_dikkat\"><\/span><strong>S\u00fcper anne sendromuna dikkat!\u00a0<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Ne yaz\u0131k ki, g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde iyi anne olmak isterken, \u00e7ocukla ge\u00e7irece\u011fimiz nitelikli zamanlar yeterli olacakken, daha \u00e7ok otuz ya\u015f \u00fcst\u00fc annelerde g\u00f6r\u00fclen s\u00fcper anne sendromuna rastlamaktay\u0131z. S\u00fcper anne sendromu olarak adland\u0131r\u0131lsa da asl\u0131nda zorlanm\u0131\u015f anne sendromudur. Hem ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 bir i\u015f kad\u0131n\u0131, hem de harika bir anne ve e\u015f olma \u00e7abas\u0131 i\u00e7erisinde her \u015feye yeti\u015fmeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken bir kaosun i\u00e7ine d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor. Bunun sonucunda, kendinde oldu\u011fu kadar \u00e7ocu\u011funda da psikolojik sorunlar yarat\u0131yor. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde her zaman bir sebebe ba\u011flayamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z rahats\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131n (ba\u015f a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131, kronik yorgunluk, kas-eklem a\u011fr\u0131lar\u0131, dikkat eksikli\u011fi gibi) temelinde belki de bu psikoloji var.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Okumal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z: <a href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/bebek\/cok-cocuklu-anne-olmak\/\">\u00c7ok \u00e7ocuklu anne olmak<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mukemmel_anne_olmaya_calismayin\"><\/span><strong>M\u00fckemmel anne olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Stresli bir anne \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla huzurlu vakit ge\u00e7iremez. M\u00fckemmel anne olmak isterken kendinizi farkl\u0131 kayg\u0131lar\u0131n i\u00e7ine s\u00fcr\u00fcklerseniz ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olamazs\u0131n\u0131z. Her kad\u0131n zaten iyi bir anne olabilir. \u0130yi anne modeli; \u00e7ocu\u011funuza ay\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z nitelikli zamanlar, sevgi ile \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmledi\u011finiz anlardan fazlas\u0131 de\u011fil.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kopar\u0131lmas\u0131 m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmayan tek ba\u011f, anne ile evlat aras\u0131ndaki ba\u011fd\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011funuz sizden m\u00fckemmel anne olman\u0131z\u0131 istemiyor, aran\u0131zdaki ba\u011f\u0131 birbirinize hat\u0131rlatman\u0131z\u0131 bekliyor. Geride b\u0131rakaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z tek \u015fey g\u00fczel an\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z olacak.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Yeni annelerin en \u00f6nemli tela\u015f\u0131 &#8220;iyi bir anne olmak&#8221; Her anne \u00e7ocu\u011fu i\u00e7in en iyisini yapmak ve ona iyi bir gelecek sunmak istiyor. Peki iyi bir anne nas\u0131l olmal\u0131? \u00c7ocuk Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve Hastal\u0131klar\u0131 Uzman\u0131 Onur Mert \u00c7elik yeni anneler i\u00e7in yazd\u0131!.. \u0130yi bir anne olmak&#8230;\u00a0 \u0130yi anne olmak? Herkes iyi bir anne olabilir mi? 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