{"id":6657,"date":"2020-04-06T10:31:11","date_gmt":"2020-04-06T07:31:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=6657"},"modified":"2020-05-19T16:26:04","modified_gmt":"2020-05-19T13:26:04","slug":"anne-babalara-korona-virus-engeli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/anne-babalara-korona-virus-engeli\/","title":{"rendered":"Anne babalara korona vir\u00fcs engeli"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-light-blue ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Yaz\u0131 \u0130\u00e7eri\u011fi<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a57ce94afb9b\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a57ce94afb9b\"  aria-label=\"A\u00e7\/Kapat\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/anne-babalara-korona-virus-engeli\/#Once_dua_sonra_alkis\" >\u00d6nce dua sonra alk\u0131\u015f<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/anne-babalara-korona-virus-engeli\/#Okuduklarimizi_tecrube_ettikce_ogreniyoruz\" >Okuduklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 tecr\u00fcbe ettik\u00e7e \u00f6\u011freniyoruz<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/anne-babalara-korona-virus-engeli\/#Ben_bir_uzman_degilim_size_oneriler_sunamayacagim_ama_kendime_notlarim_var_belki_size_de_bir_yardimi_olur\" >Ben bir uzman de\u011filim size \u00f6neriler sunamayaca\u011f\u0131m ama kendime notlar\u0131m var, belki size de bir yard\u0131m\u0131 olur:<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/anne-babalara-korona-virus-engeli\/#Korona_virusu_cocuklara_nasil_anlatmaliyiz\" >Korona vir\u00fcs\u00fc \u00e7ocuklara nas\u0131l anlatmal\u0131y\u0131z?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>Korona vir\u00fcs\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklar \u00fczerindeki etkisine dikkat! <strong>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 korona vir\u00fcsten nas\u0131l koruyabiliriz, nelere dikkat etmeliyiz?<\/strong> <strong>Korona vir\u00fcs\u00fc \u00e7ocuklara nas\u0131l anlatmal\u0131y\u0131z?<\/strong> Anne Bebek Kul\u00fcb\u00fc yazar\u0131 Elif Demirta\u015f bilir yazd\u0131!..<\/p>\n<p>Malum oldu\u011fu \u00fczere bir s\u00fcredir<strong> korona vir\u00fcs \u00f6nlemleri<\/strong> kapsam\u0131nda \u201cEvde Kal\u201d \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131yla bir\u00e7o\u011funuz gibi biz de evden \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131k. \u0130\u015fimiz haber takibi de olunca evde s\u00fcrekli <strong>korona vir\u00fcs haberleri<\/strong> konu\u015fuyoruz, her evde konu\u015fulandan biraz daha fazla. Televizyondan takip halindeyiz dolay\u0131s\u0131yla o\u011flum da yan\u0131m\u0131zda oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in o da \u00f6\u011freniyormu\u015f. \u00d6\u011freniyormu\u015f diyorum \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc fark\u0131nda de\u011fildim oyun oynarken kula\u011f\u0131n\u0131n televizyonda oldu\u011funun. <strong>\u00c7ocuklar ve korona vir\u00fcs<\/strong> \u00fczerine uzmanlar\u0131n a\u00e7\u0131klamalar\u0131n\u0131 okumaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131m, ara\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131m. \u00c7ocuklara bu ger\u00e7e\u011fi anlatmam\u0131z gerekti\u011fini s\u00f6yl\u00fcyor uzmanlar. Tabi ki ben de anlatt\u0131m anlayabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm c\u00fcmleler kurarak. Bazen anlatt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131 yanl\u0131\u015f anlad\u0131 bazen de anlamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm \u015feyleri televizyondan izleyerek anlad\u0131\u011f\u0131n g\u00f6rd\u00fcm.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Once_dua_sonra_alkis\"><\/span><strong>\u00d6nce dua sonra alk\u0131\u015f<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Camilerden korona vir\u00fcs dualar\u0131 yap\u0131l\u0131yor her gece. Biz de anne o\u011ful cam\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131p duam\u0131z\u0131 ediyoruz. Duam\u0131z bitince de ko\u015fa ko\u015fa balkona \u00e7\u0131k\u0131p sa\u011fl\u0131k \u00e7al\u0131\u015fanlar\u0131na alk\u0131\u015flarla moral etkinli\u011fine kat\u0131l\u0131yorduk. Dua ederken bir s\u00fcr\u00fc sorular soruyor ben \u201cAmin\u201d dedik\u00e7e o da \u201cAmin diyor. Ve ilk dua etti\u011fimiz ak\u015fam \u201cAnne neden b\u00f6yle yap\u0131yoruz\u201d dedi. Sonu\u00e7ta \u00e7ocu\u011fum camda ilk defa dua ediyor. \u201cVir\u00fcsler var o\u011flum, o vir\u00fcsler bizi hasta ediyor. Bu vir\u00fcslerin yok olmas\u0131 ve hastal\u0131\u011f\u0131n bitmesi i\u00e7in dua ediyoruz dedim. Ard\u0131ndan yeni bir soru geldi \u201cPeti (peki) anne biz eskiden Arda\u2019ya gitmi\u015ftik, ye zaman (ne zaman) didicez (gidece\u011fiz)\u201d diye sordu. K\u00f6\u015feye s\u0131k\u0131\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131 beni sorular\u0131yla. \u201cAnneci\u011fim \u015fimdi d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kam\u0131yoruz, hastal\u0131k bitince \u00e7\u0131kaca\u011f\u0131z. O zaman Arda\u2019 ya gidebiliriz\u201d dedim. Tabi \u00fczerine bir soru daha geldi: Peti anne ye zaman diticek (bitecek) hastal\u0131k.\u201d \u201cDua ediyoruz ya o\u011flum hastal\u0131k biter bitmez gidece\u011fiz\u201d cevab\u0131n\u0131 verdim. Ve dua bitti. \u201cOleyyyyy anne hadi ditti, didelim Arda\u2019ya\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n<p>Ben mi eksik anlatt\u0131m bilemiyorum ama \u00e7ocuk dua bitince gidece\u011fimizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc demek ki dua biter bitmez mutluluktan \u00e7\u0131ld\u0131rmak \u00fczereydi. G\u00fclsem mi a\u011flasam m\u0131 bilemedim.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Neden alk\u0131\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 sordu\u011funda da doktorlar hastal\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z tedavi etti\u011fi i\u00e7in onlar\u0131 alk\u0131\u015fl\u0131yoruz dedim<\/strong> \u00fczerine ba\u015fka soru gelmedi. Daha b\u00fcy\u00fck bir sevin\u00e7le alk\u0131\u015flamaya devam etti.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Okuduklarimizi_tecrube_ettikce_ogreniyoruz\"><\/span><strong>Okuduklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 tecr\u00fcbe ettik\u00e7e \u00f6\u011freniyoruz<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>G\u00fcnlerce konu\u015ftuk, izledik. O\u011flum da anlatt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda gerek konu\u015ftuklar\u0131m\u0131zdan gerekse televizyondan, biz fark etmeden baz\u0131 bilgiler \u00f6\u011frenmi\u015f. Uzmanlar\u0131n \u00f6nerilerini ne kadar okusak ne kadar dinlesek de baz\u0131 \u015feyleri ya\u015fayarak tecr\u00fcbe ediyoruz. Bazen fark\u0131nda olmadan b\u00fcy\u00fck hatalar yapabiliyoruz.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130\u015fte ben de hi\u00e7 beklemedi\u011fim bir anda hi\u00e7 beklemedi\u011fim bir tepkiyle fark\u0131na vard\u0131m yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m hatan\u0131n. O\u011fluma 10 g\u00fcnd\u00fcr o sorduk\u00e7a, neden d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 anlatt\u0131k durduk. Ama ben \u00f6yle bir hata yapt\u0131m ki \u015fim\u015fekler \u00e7akt\u0131 beynimde.<\/p>\n<p>Dedi\u011fim gibi bir s\u00fcredir e\u015fim ve ben evden \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yoruz. \u0130\u015fte gitti\u011fimiz g\u00fcnlerde yani evden \u00e7\u0131kabildi\u011fimiz 15 g\u00fcn \u00f6ncesinde o\u011flum bazen bize k\u0131zd\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u201cHadi i\u015fe didin\u201d deyip tepkisini g\u00f6sterirdi bize. Bazen de i\u015fe gitmemize isyan edip a\u011flard\u0131 i\u015fe gitmeyin diye.<\/p>\n<p>Ge\u00e7ti\u011fimiz ak\u015fam biz \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken o biraz s\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131 hem de \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken bizi rahat b\u0131rakmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in anneannesiyle gitmesinin daha iyi olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fck. Annem alt kat\u0131mda oturuyor ve o\u011flum gitse de, bir s\u00fcre sonra evde oldu\u011fumuzu bildi\u011fi i\u00e7in eve gelmek istiyor. Biz de i\u015fimiz bitene kadar eve gelmemesi i\u00e7in \u201cSen anneanneyle git o\u011flum babanla biz de i\u015fe gidece\u011fiz\u201d dedim. \u201cHay\u0131y (hay\u0131r) anne i\u015f yok, i\u015fe ditmek yok\u201d diye isyana ba\u015flad\u0131 yine. Di\u011fer taraftan babas\u0131 \u201co\u011flum i\u015fe gidip para kazanmam\u0131z laz\u0131m\u201d dedi ama yine itiraz geldi. Derken anneanne devreye girdi \u201cAnne-baba i\u015fe gidip para kazans\u0131n sana oyuncak alacaklar\u201d dedi.<\/p>\n<p>Ve o\u011flumun bir c\u00fcmlesiyle yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m hata beynime kaz\u0131nd\u0131: Anneanne tevelizyonda \u2018Evde kal\u2019 diyorlar ya o y\u00fczden \u00f6yle dedim. Yani i\u015fe gitmemizi istememesinin as\u0131l nedeni buymu\u015f! Ben birka\u00e7 saniye tepki veremedim. \u201cEvet o\u011flum \u00e7ok hakl\u0131s\u0131n, biz unutmu\u015fuz i\u015fe gidemeyiz \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc evde kalmam\u0131z laz\u0131m\u201d diyebildim. \u0130\u015fte bazen konu\u015farak \u00f6\u011fretti\u011fimiz onca \u015feyi bir davran\u0131\u015f\u0131m\u0131zla \u00e7\u00f6pe at\u0131yoruz fark\u0131nda olmadan.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Ben_bir_uzman_degilim_size_oneriler_sunamayacagim_ama_kendime_notlarim_var_belki_size_de_bir_yardimi_olur\"><\/span><strong>Ben bir uzman de\u011filim size \u00f6neriler sunamayaca\u011f\u0131m ama kendime notlar\u0131m var, belki size de bir yard\u0131m\u0131 olur:<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>1-\u00c7ocu\u011fumu sonuna kadar dinleyip, ne demek istedi\u011fini anlay\u0131p ondan sonra cevap verece\u011fim.<\/p>\n<p>2- O\u011flumun kafas\u0131na ikilem yaratarak anlatt\u0131klar\u0131m ve yapt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131n \u00e7eli\u015fmesiyle soru i\u015faretleri b\u0131rakmamak i\u00e7in \u00e7ok daha fazla dikkat edece\u011fim.<\/p>\n<p>2- Anlatt\u0131klar\u0131m ve yapt\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131n birbiriyle \u00e7eli\u015fmesine neden olup, onun anne-babas\u0131na olan g\u00fcven duygusunu yitirmemesine \u00e7ok daha fazla dikkat edece\u011fim.<\/p>\n<p>3- Durumu kurtarmak i\u00e7in yalan s\u00f6ylemeyece\u011fim.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Korona_virusu_cocuklara_nasil_anlatmaliyiz\"><\/span><strong>Korona vir\u00fcs\u00fc \u00e7ocuklara nas\u0131l anlatmal\u0131y\u0131z?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><strong>6 ya\u015f\u0131nda o\u011flu olan aile hekimi Doktor Punam Krishan:<\/strong> \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun stresini hafifletmek i\u00e7in vir\u00fcs\u00fcn so\u011fuk alg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131na, ishale ve kusmaya benzedi\u011fini s\u00f6ylemeliyiz.<\/p>\n<p>Doktor Krishan, kendi \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla deneyimi sonras\u0131nda ebeveynlerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla &#8220;d\u00fcr\u00fcst, a\u00e7\u0131k ve samimi bir konu\u015fma ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmelerini \u00f6neriyor.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuk psikolo\u011fu Richard Wolfsoon ise,<strong> &#8220;Koronavir\u00fcs gibi sansasyonel haberler hakk\u0131nda \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla nas\u0131l konu\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fun ka\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131nda oldu\u011funa ba\u011fl\u0131&#8221;<\/strong> diyor.<\/p>\n<p>Ne kadar okusam da baz\u0131 \u015feyleri ya\u015fayarak tecr\u00fcbe ediyorum dedi\u011fim gibi.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/saglik\/koronavirus-salgininda-son-durum-nedir-normale-donus-nasil-olacak\/\"><strong>Koronavir\u00fcs salg\u0131n\u0131nda son durum nedir? Normale d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f nas\u0131l olacak?<\/strong><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Korona vir\u00fcs\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklar \u00fczerindeki etkisine dikkat! \u00c7ocuklar\u0131 korona vir\u00fcsten nas\u0131l koruyabiliriz, nelere dikkat etmeliyiz? Korona vir\u00fcs\u00fc \u00e7ocuklara nas\u0131l anlatmal\u0131y\u0131z? Anne Bebek Kul\u00fcb\u00fc yazar\u0131 Elif Demirta\u015f bilir yazd\u0131!.. Malum oldu\u011fu \u00fczere bir s\u00fcredir korona vir\u00fcs \u00f6nlemleri kapsam\u0131nda \u201cEvde Kal\u201d \u00e7a\u011fr\u0131s\u0131yla bir\u00e7o\u011funuz gibi biz de evden \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131k. \u0130\u015fimiz haber takibi de olunca evde s\u00fcrekli korona vir\u00fcs [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":44,"featured_media":6544,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[7021,10849,10850,10848],"class_list":["post-6657","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-cocuk","tag-cocuklarda-koronavirus","tag-koronavirus-bugun","tag-koronavirus-cocuk-hastaliklari","tag-koronavirus-son-durum"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/03\/anne-kiz-cocuk-2.jpg?fit=626%2C417&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6657","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/44"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=6657"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/6657\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/6544"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=6657"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=6657"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=6657"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}