{"id":5316,"date":"2019-10-21T12:49:47","date_gmt":"2019-10-21T09:49:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=5316"},"modified":"2019-10-21T12:49:47","modified_gmt":"2019-10-21T09:49:47","slug":"iyi-baba-olmak-isteyenlere-oneriler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/iyi-baba-olmak-isteyenlere-oneriler\/","title":{"rendered":"\u0130yi baba olmak isteyenlere \u00f6neriler"},"content":{"rendered":"

S\u00fcper baba adaylar\u0131 buraya!<\/strong> Anne nas\u0131l bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 besliyor ve temsil ediyorsa baba da \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyan\u0131n temsilcisidir.
\n\u00c7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmede ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun geli\u015fiminde her ne kadar anne, babaya k\u0131yasla daha fazla \u00f6n planda gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de, ailede \u2018\u2019baba\u2019\u2019<\/strong> kavram\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemi tart\u0131\u015f\u0131lmaz bir ger\u00e7ek. Uzmanlar baba olanlara ve olacaklara bu duyguyu en do\u011fru \u015fekilde ya\u015fayabilmeleri i\u00e7in tavsiyelerde bulunuyor.<\/p>\n

Uzmanlar; aile \u00fc\u00e7geninin iki baca\u011f\u0131ndan biri olan baba, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ya\u015fam\u0131nda etkin olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda bu \u00fc\u00e7gen bozulur ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun g\u00fcven duygusu eksik kal\u0131r. Baba \u00e7ocu\u011funa sevgi verebilmeli, destek olmal\u0131, ho\u015fg\u00f6r\u00fcl\u00fc davranmal\u0131, onun zorland\u0131\u011f\u0131 her durumda yan\u0131nda olabilmeli ve \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla ortak zevkleri payla\u015fmal\u0131 \u015feklinde tavsiyede bulunuyor.<\/p>\n

Unutmay\u0131n ki bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun hayat\u0131nda anne ve baban\u0131n rolleri farkl\u0131d\u0131r ve hi\u00e7biri di\u011ferinin rol\u00fcn\u00fc \u00fcstlenemez. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde korkulan ve ak\u015fam eve geldi\u011finde \u00e7ocu\u011fu azarlayaca\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclen baba modeli yava\u015f yava\u015f yok oluyor.<\/p>\n

\u0130lk aylardan itibaren babalar\u0131n\u0131n yak\u0131n ilgi ve bak\u0131m\u0131yla b\u00fcy\u00fcyen bebeklerin sevgi ile g\u00fcven a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan doyum sa\u011flad\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7evreleriyle ileti\u015fim kurmada daha istekli olduklar\u0131na, ileri ya\u015flarda daha fazla sorumluluk \u00fcstlendiklerine dikkat \u00e7eken uzman psikologlar, \u201cAnne nas\u0131l bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 besliyor ve temsil ediyorsa baba da \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyan\u0131n temsilcisidir. Baban\u0131n toplumsal ya\u015fam i\u00e7indeki duru\u015fu, tav\u0131r al\u0131\u015f\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00f6rnek ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 tutumlard\u0131r\u201d \u015feklinde bilgi veriyorlar.<\/p>\n

\u0130yi baba olman\u0131n yolu sab\u0131r ve tecr\u00fcbeden ge\u00e7iyor<\/strong><\/p>\n

Uzmanlara g\u00f6re bebeklerin ilk ya\u015flar\u0131nda anneye olan ilgi ve ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 ikinci ya\u015ftan itibaren daha \u00e7ok babaya y\u00f6nleniyor. Baba-\u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisinde do\u011fru ileti\u015fimin fiziksel temas ve birlikte verimli vakit ge\u00e7irmek. Hi\u00e7 kimse iyi bir baba olarak do\u011fmaz. \u201cBaba olmak sevgi, tecr\u00fcbe, sab\u0131r ve bilgi edinmeyle ger\u00e7ekle\u015fir.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n

M\u00fckemmel olmak i\u00e7in kendinizi zorlamay\u0131n!<\/strong><\/p>\n

Uzmanlar babalara ve baba olacaklara \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla do\u011fru ve etkin ileti\u015fim kurabilmeleri i\u00e7in \u00f6nerilerini \u015fu \u015fekilde s\u0131ral\u0131yorlar:<\/p>\n

– Babalar kendilerini \u201cm\u00fckemmel olaca\u011f\u0131m\u201d diye zorlamamal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00d6zellikle ilk defa bebek sahibi olan babalar\u0131n duygular\u0131ndaki de\u011fi\u015fimleri korkmadan ya\u015famas\u0131 gerekir.<\/p>\n

– Baba aday\u0131 do\u011fum \u00f6ncesi kontrollerde doktora e\u015fiyle birlikte gitmelidir. Bu sayede e\u015fi ile bebe\u011finin sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve geli\u015fimini yak\u0131ndan takip etme olana\u011f\u0131 bulabilir.<\/p>\n

– Ailedeki di\u011fer babalarla konu\u015farak ve neler ya\u015fad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 dinleyerek kendilerini babal\u0131\u011fa al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rabilirler.<\/p>\n

Baba-\u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisinde bunlara dikkat!<\/p>\n

<\/strong>Uzman psikologlar annenin \u00e7ocu\u011fa \u2018\u2019baba\u2019\u2019 kavram\u0131n\u0131 do\u011fru bir \u015fekilde tan\u0131mlamas\u0131, davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131nda da \u00e7eli\u015fkiye d\u00fc\u015fmemesinin \u00e7ocu\u011fun ruhsal sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in son derece \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funa dikkat \u00e7ekerek babalar i\u00e7in \u015fu tavsiyelerde bulunuyorlar:<\/p>\n

– Baba, \u00e7ocu\u011fa sevgi, ilgi g\u00f6stermeli ve zaman ay\u0131rmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

– Bebe\u011fin sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131, beslenmesi, temizli\u011fi gibi ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131lamas\u0131 \u00f6nemlidir. Bu davran\u0131\u015flar, gelecekteki sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fkinin \u00f6nemli bir par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

– \u00c7ocu\u011fu oldu\u011fu gibi kabul etmeli, ba\u015fkalar\u0131yla k\u0131yaslamamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

– \u00c7ocu\u011fun \u00e7abalar\u0131n\u0131, olumlu davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 desteklemeli, ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131klar\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131nda sab\u0131rl\u0131, sakin ve yap\u0131c\u0131 olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n

– T\u00fcm davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131yla \u00e7ocu\u011fa iyi bir model olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

S\u00fcper baba adaylar\u0131 buraya! Anne nas\u0131l bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun i\u00e7 d\u00fcnyas\u0131n\u0131 besliyor ve temsil ediyorsa baba da \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in d\u0131\u015f d\u00fcnyan\u0131n temsilcisidir. \u00c7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmede ve \u00e7ocu\u011fun geli\u015fiminde her ne kadar anne, babaya k\u0131yasla daha fazla \u00f6n planda gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de, ailede \u2018\u2019baba\u2019\u2019 kavram\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemi tart\u0131\u015f\u0131lmaz bir ger\u00e7ek. Uzmanlar baba olanlara ve olacaklara bu duyguyu en do\u011fru […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":80,"featured_media":5393,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[589,3807,3804,3806,3805,588],"class_list":{"0":"post-5316","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aile","8":"tag-baba-olmak","9":"tag-baba-olmak-istiyorum","10":"tag-baba-olmak-yazilari","11":"tag-baba-olmak-zordur","12":"tag-ilk-kez-baba-olmak-sozleri","13":"tag-iyi-baba-olmak"},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/10\/iyi-baba-olmak-6.jpg?fit=626%2C417&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5316","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/80"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=5316"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5316\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5393"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=5316"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=5316"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=5316"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}