{"id":5298,"date":"2019-10-10T09:35:12","date_gmt":"2019-10-10T06:35:12","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=5298"},"modified":"2019-10-06T00:40:53","modified_gmt":"2019-10-05T21:40:53","slug":"hamile-bir-kadina-asla-soylememeniz-gereken-seyler","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/hamile-bir-kadina-asla-soylememeniz-gereken-seyler\/","title":{"rendered":"Hamile bir kad\u0131na asla s\u00f6ylememeniz gereken \u015feyler"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zda hamile bir kad\u0131n var&#8230;<\/strong> Siz sadece merakl\u0131 oldu\u011funuzu ya da ilginizi g\u00f6sterdi\u011finizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor olabilirsiniz ama, hormonlar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan y\u00f6netilen ve her an patlamaya haz\u0131r olan, al\u0131ngan bir anne aday\u0131na ne s\u00f6ylememeniz gerekti\u011fini merak ediyorsan\u0131z, okumaya devam edin.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Planl\u0131 m\u0131 oldu? Yoksa kaza m\u0131?<br \/>\nNas\u0131l hamile kald\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/strong> ya da zamanlaman\u0131n do\u011fru olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 sizi hi\u00e7 ilgilendirmez. Kaza ya da planl\u0131, kad\u0131nca\u011f\u0131z hamile i\u015fte. Nas\u0131l\u0131n\u0131, nedenini kurcalamay\u0131n ve onun sevincini payla\u015f\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bebe\u011fin ismi hakk\u0131nda olumsuz imalarda bulunmak&#8230;<\/strong><br \/>\nBebek ismi se\u00e7mek bir anne i\u00e7in zor olabilir. \u00d6zellikle ailesinden ve arkada\u015flar\u0131ndan gelen bask\u0131lar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrseniz. Sonu\u00e7 olarak, bebe\u011fi ta\u015f\u0131yan ve do\u011furacak olan o. Direkt olarak sizin fikrinizi sormad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece, be\u011fenmedi\u011finiz isim hakk\u0131nda herhangi bir yorumda bulunmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sana karde\u015fimin do\u011fumunun 36 saat s\u00fcrd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc s\u00f6ylemi\u015f miydim?<\/strong><br \/>\nB\u00fcy\u00fck ihtimalle zaten do\u011fumdan korkuyordur. Birde \u00fcst\u00fcne \u00fcstelik siz korkun\u00e7 do\u011fum hikayeleri anlat\u0131p, moralini daha da bozmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>30 haftal\u0131k m\u0131?<\/strong><br \/>\nKarn\u0131n \u00e7ok fazla b\u00fcy\u00fcmemi\u015f! Siz karn\u0131n\u0131n yeterince b\u00fcy\u00fcmedi\u011fini s\u00f6yledi\u011finizde, onun duydu\u011fu bebe\u011finin yeterince beslenemedi\u011fi ve kendisinin bebe\u011fini \u015fimdiden ihmal etti\u011fi olacakt\u0131r. Bunun tersini de s\u00f6ylemeyin l\u00fctfen. Bu durumda, anne aday\u0131 \u00e7ok fazla ve gereksiz kilo ald\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan (\u00f6yle bile olsa) endi\u015felenecektir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Tekmelemeye ba\u015flad\u0131 m\u0131 diye sorup, karn\u0131na dokunmak&#8230;<\/strong><br \/>\n\u00d6zellikle \u00e7ok samimi olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z biriyse, ellerinizi karn\u0131ndan uzak tutun. Kibarca dokunup dokunamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 sorabilirsiniz tabii ama izin almadan asla dokunmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130kiz bebek mi? T\u00fcp bebek mi yoksa do\u011fal m\u0131?<\/strong><br \/>\nYak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00fcrece, nas\u0131l <strong>hamile<\/strong> kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 sizi hi\u00e7 ilgilendirmez. Bu onun i\u00e7in \u00e7ok hassas bir konu olabilir ve payla\u015fmak istemeyebilir. Ki\u015finin \u00f6zeline sayg\u0131 g\u00f6sterin.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zda hamile bir kad\u0131n var&#8230; Siz sadece merakl\u0131 oldu\u011funuzu ya da ilginizi g\u00f6sterdi\u011finizi d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcyor olabilirsiniz ama, hormonlar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan y\u00f6netilen ve her an patlamaya haz\u0131r olan, al\u0131ngan bir anne aday\u0131na ne s\u00f6ylememeniz gerekti\u011fini merak ediyorsan\u0131z, okumaya devam edin. Planl\u0131 m\u0131 oldu? Yoksa kaza m\u0131? Nas\u0131l hamile kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya da zamanlaman\u0131n do\u011fru olup olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 sizi hi\u00e7 ilgilendirmez. 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