{"id":4733,"date":"2019-07-14T15:56:06","date_gmt":"2019-07-14T12:56:06","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=4733"},"modified":"2019-07-18T15:58:05","modified_gmt":"2019-07-18T12:58:05","slug":"cocuklariniza-ic-camasiri-kuralini-ogretin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/cocuklariniza-ic-camasiri-kuralini-ogretin\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za i\u00e7 \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131r\u0131 kural\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretin"},"content":{"rendered":"<div dir=\"auto\">\n<p><strong>\u0130\u00e7 \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131r\u0131 kural\u0131<\/strong> Avrupa Konseyi&#8217;nin \u00e7ocuklara kar\u015f\u0131 cinsel \u015fiddeti \u00f6nlemeyi hedefleyen &#8216;Be\u015fte Bir&#8217; kampanyas\u0131n\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131. <strong>Yakla\u015f\u0131k her 5 \u00e7ocuktan biri cinsel \u015fiddete maruz kal\u0131yor<\/strong>; buna cinsel istismar da d\u00e2hil. Anne baba ve bak\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131n, \u00e7ocuklara, v\u00fccutlar\u0131n\u0131n hangi k\u0131s\u0131mlar\u0131na ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n dokunamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, b\u00f6yle bir durumda nas\u0131l davranmalar\u0131 ve kimden yard\u0131m istemeleri gerekti\u011fini a\u00e7\u0131klamalar\u0131nda yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak basit bir kurald\u0131r. Ayn\u0131 zamanda \u00e7ocuklara v\u00fccutlar\u0131n\u0131n kendilerine ait oldu\u011funu, iyi ve kotu s\u0131rlar\u0131n ve iyi ve kotu temas t\u00fcrlerinin oldu\u011funu anlatmaya yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur.<\/p>\n<p><b>V\u00fccudun\u00a0 sana ait<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuza kendi izni olmadan hi\u00e7 kimsenin v\u00fccuduna dokunamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretin. Erken ya\u015fta cinsel organlar\u0131n ve v\u00fccudun di\u011fer k\u0131s\u0131mlar\u0131n\u0131n ger\u00e7ek adlar\u0131n\u0131 kullanarak ileti\u015fim kurarsan\u0131z neye izin vermemeleri gerekti\u011fini daha rahat anlayabilirler. \u00c7ocuklar sevdikleri bir insandan gelse bile bedensel temas\u0131 reddetme hakk\u0131 oldu\u011funu bilmelidir. Ona birini \u00f6pmesini ya da birinin onu \u00f6pmesine izin vermesini s\u00f6ylemeyin! &#8216;Hadi git de amca seni bir \u00f6ps\u00fcn. &#8216;YOK!<\/p>\n<p><b>\u0130yi \u2013 k\u00f6t\u00fc bedensel temas<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar uygun olan ve olmayan bedensel temas\u0131 her zaman ay\u0131rt edemez. Burada i\u00e7 \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131r\u0131 kural\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretmek \u00f6nemlidir. \u00c7ocu\u011funuza v\u00fccudunu i\u00e7 \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131r\u0131 ile kapatan b\u00f6lgelerine (g\u00f6\u011f\u00fcs, bacak aras\u0131, popo) ve dudaklar\u0131na hi\u00e7 kimsenin dokunmamas\u0131 gerekti\u011fini anlat\u0131n. Kendisinin de bir ba\u015fkas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6zel b\u00f6lgelerine dokunmaya ya da bakmaya izni olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretin. B\u00f6yle bir durumla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda HAYIR demesi konusunda tevsik edin.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u0130yi \u2013 k\u00f6t\u00fc s\u0131rlar<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u0130stismarc\u0131 gizlili\u011fi kullan\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011funuza kendini kotu ve rahats\u0131z hissettiren, onu \u00fczen ve endi\u015felendiren t\u00fcm s\u0131rlar\u0131n kotu s\u0131r oldu\u011funu anlat\u0131n. Hemen g\u00fcvenlik \u00e7emberindeki bir yetkiliyle payla\u015fmas\u0131 konusunda destekleyin.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00d6nlemek ve korumak biz\u00a0 yeti\u015fkinlerin sorumlulu\u011fudur<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u0130stismara u\u011frayan \u00e7ocuklar utan\u00e7, korku ve su\u00e7luluk hissediyor. Yeti\u015fkinlerin tabulardan ar\u0131nmas\u0131 ve her konuda \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 dinlemeye ve onlara yard\u0131m etmeye haz\u0131r oldu\u011funu g\u00f6stermesi gerek! Hem toplumsal hem ahlaki hem de yasal d\u00fczlemde ma\u011fdur olan\u0131 korumak yeti\u015fkinlerin sorumlulu\u011fudur! Ma\u011fdurun yard\u0131m talep etmesi i\u00e7in\u00a0yetkilileri\u00a0aramak i\u00e7in topluma ve yasalara g\u00fcvenmesi gerekir!!!<\/p>\n<p><b>G\u00fcvenlik \u00e7emberi olu\u015fturma<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzla birlikte g\u00fcvenebilece\u011fi ve ona yard\u0131m edebilecek ki\u015filerden olu\u015fan bir g\u00fcvenlik \u00e7emberi olu\u015fturmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Bu \u00e7emberde aile bireylerinden biri, g\u00fcvenebilece\u011fi aile d\u0131\u015f\u0131 bir yeti\u015fkin, \u00f6\u011fretmeni, doktoru, polis g\u00f6revlilerinin oldu\u011funu netle\u015ftirmelisiniz. \u00c7ocu\u011funuza yukar\u0131da sayd\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z durumlardan biriyle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda zaman kaybetmeden g\u00fcvenlik \u00e7emberindeki ki\u015filerden birine bunu anlatmas\u0131 konusunda destek olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><b>E\u011fer \u00f6\u011fretmez ve desteklemezsek \u00e7ocuk susar<\/b><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<ul>\n<li>Ne \u00e7ocuk sussun ne de yeti\u015fkin!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>\u0130\u00e7 \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131r\u0131 kural\u0131yla ilgili bilgileri verdikten sonra \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla birlikte<strong> &#8220;Kiko ve El&#8221;<\/strong> hik\u00e2yesini okuyabilir ve konu\u015ftuklar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 peki\u015ftirebilirsiniz. D\u00fczenlenmi\u015f metin haline internet \u00fczerinden ula\u015fabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n<p>Kiko ve El hik\u00e2yesiyle \u00e7ocuklara g\u00fcvendi\u011fi, onun bak\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayan ki\u015filerin bile i\u00e7 \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131r\u0131 b\u00f6lgesine dokunmas\u0131na izin vermeme hakki oldu\u011funu ve hay\u0131r diyebilmenin \u00f6nemini g\u00f6steriyoruz.<\/p>\n<p><b>Kiko ve El<\/b>&#8216;i okuduktan sonra \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za &#8216;Biri senin i\u00e7 \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131r\u0131 b\u00f6lgene dokunmak isterse ne yapars\u0131n?&#8217; diye sorun ve var g\u00fcc\u00fcyle <b>HAYIR<\/b> demesi i\u00e7in destekleyin.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130\u00e7 \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131r\u0131 kural\u0131 Avrupa Konseyi&#8217;nin \u00e7ocuklara kar\u015f\u0131 cinsel \u015fiddeti \u00f6nlemeyi hedefleyen &#8216;Be\u015fte Bir&#8217; kampanyas\u0131n\u0131n bir par\u00e7as\u0131. Yakla\u015f\u0131k her 5 \u00e7ocuktan biri cinsel \u015fiddete maruz kal\u0131yor; buna cinsel istismar da d\u00e2hil. Anne baba ve bak\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131n, \u00e7ocuklara, v\u00fccutlar\u0131n\u0131n hangi k\u0131s\u0131mlar\u0131na ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n dokunamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131, b\u00f6yle bir durumda nas\u0131l davranmalar\u0131 ve kimden yard\u0131m istemeleri gerekti\u011fini a\u00e7\u0131klamalar\u0131nda yard\u0131mc\u0131 olacak basit bir [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":80,"featured_media":4034,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[3434,3433,3431,3432,3430,3049],"class_list":{"0":"post-4733","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-cocuk","8":"tag-cinsel-istismar","9":"tag-cinsel-siddet","10":"tag-hayir-demek","11":"tag-ic-camasiri-kurali","12":"tag-kiko-ve-el","13":"tag-mahremiyet-egitimi"},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/havale-geciren-cocuk.jpg?fit=626%2C417&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4733","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/80"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4733"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4733\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4034"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4733"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4733"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4733"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}