{"id":4310,"date":"2019-09-20T12:06:52","date_gmt":"2019-09-20T09:06:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=4310"},"modified":"2019-09-20T12:06:52","modified_gmt":"2019-09-20T09:06:52","slug":"askinizi-guclendirmenin-yollari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/askinizi-guclendirmenin-yollari\/","title":{"rendered":"A\u015fk\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7lendirmenin yollar\u0131!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Basit ama \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131, e\u011flenceli ve ak\u0131lc\u0131 yollarla a\u015fk\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 koruyun, b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcn ve doyas\u0131ya ya\u015fay\u0131n!<\/p>\n<p><strong> Asla d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131n yan\u0131nda olmay\u0131n!<\/strong><br \/>\nBaz\u0131 zamanlar vard\u0131r ki, birinin deste\u011fini arkan\u0131zda hissetmeden kendinizi toparlayamazs\u0131n\u0131z. \u00c7iftler i\u00e7in bu durum birbirlerine y\u00f6neliktir. Durum her ne kadar partnerinizden kaynaklan\u0131yor olsa da ona\u00a0 duymak istediklerini s\u00f6yleyin. \u00d6rne\u011fin, i\u015ften \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131laca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendi\u011finizde \u2018belki de elinden gelenin en iyisini yapmam\u0131\u015fs\u0131nd\u0131r\u2019 demek yerine \u2018ne kadar \u00fcz\u00fcld\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc anlayabiliyorum\u2019 demeniz ona daha iyi gelecektir. Mutlu \u00e7iftler ne zaman dillerini tutmalar\u0131 gerekti\u011fini bilen \u00e7iftlerdir.<\/p>\n<p><strong> \u00c7ok rahat olmay\u0131n&#8230;<\/strong><br \/>\nG\u00fcven, g\u00fcvenlik ve sadakat her ili\u015fkide anahtar kelimelerdir. Ama ili\u015fkinizde bunlar\u0131 bar\u0131nd\u0131r\u0131yor olman\u0131z postu yere serip rehavete kap\u0131lman\u0131za neden olamaz. \u0130li\u015fkilerin k\u0131r\u0131lgan bir ekosistemi vard\u0131r. Tam da bu nedenle bo\u015fanma oranlar\u0131 g\u00fcn ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e art\u0131yor. Mutlu \u00e7iftler bulu\u015fmalar\u0131na devam ederler, birbirlerine ne kadar ho\u015f olduklar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylemekten geri kalmazlar ve birlikte bir \u015feyler yapmaktan vazge\u00e7mezler.<\/p>\n<p><strong> \u0130leti\u015fim rit\u00fcelleriniz olsun&#8230;<\/strong><br \/>\nYaln\u0131zca gece d\u0131\u015far\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kmaktan bahsetmiyoruz, mutlu \u00e7iftler s\u0131radan \u015feyleri birlikte yapmaya hevesli g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcrler. Birlikte ne yapacaklar\u0131na karar verme gibi k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131 vard\u0131r. B\u00fct\u00fcn ay yapt\u0131klar\u0131 harcamalar\u0131 hesaplamak i\u00e7in birlikte \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar ya da \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131rlar\u0131 beraber y\u0131karlar. Bu vas\u0131tayla kirli \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131rlardan olu\u015fan da\u011flar bile size olduk\u00e7a \u00fcstesinden gelinebilir g\u00f6r\u00fcnecektir.<\/p>\n<p><strong> Partnerinizin ilgisini nas\u0131l \u00e7ekece\u011finizi bilin&#8230;<\/strong><br \/>\nMutlu \u00e7iftler, partnerinin ilgisini nelerin \u00e7ekece\u011fi konusunda duyarl\u0131d\u0131r. A\u015fk Laboratuar\u0131 adl\u0131 bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmada yap\u0131lan g\u00f6zlemler, 6 y\u0131ldan uzun s\u00fcredir evli olan \u00e7iftlerin birlikte ge\u00e7irdikleri zaman\u0131n %86\u2019s\u0131nda bu konuda duyarl\u0131l\u0131k g\u00f6sterdiklerini ortaya koyuyor. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u015feyleri fark etmek i\u00e7in alg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k tutun. \u00d6rne\u011fin manav al\u0131\u015fveri\u015finizde partnerinizin \u00e7ok uzun zamand\u0131r yemedi\u011fini bildi\u011finiz bir meyveye rastlarsan\u0131z onun i\u00e7in al\u0131n ve asl\u0131nda onu ne kadar \u00f6nemsedi\u011finizi g\u00f6sterin.<\/p>\n<p><strong> K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u015feyler yap\u0131n&#8230;<\/strong><br \/>\n\u0130li\u015fkiden duydu\u011funuz tatmine s\u0131ra geldi\u011finde yaln\u0131zca \u2018Alkolik de\u011fil, beni aldatm\u0131yor, beni h\u0131rpalam\u0131yor, tatillerimizi yurtd\u0131\u015f\u0131nda ge\u00e7iriyoruz\u2019 gibi b\u00fcy\u00fck \u015feyler \u00fczerinden d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmezsiniz. \u00a0Bunlar g\u00fcndelik ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131zda ciddi yer kaplamazlar. G\u00fcnl\u00fck ya\u015famda \u00f6nemli olan partnerinizin kanatlar\u0131n\u0131z alt\u0131nda olmaya ya da ona sar\u0131lman\u0131za ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fu anlarda yan\u0131nda olman\u0131zd\u0131r. Onun i\u00e7in en sevdi\u011fi yeme\u011fi yapabilirsiniz. \u00d6nemli olan, ona her zaman a\u015f\u0131k oldu\u011funuzu hissetmesidir. Evlilik, g\u00fcven ve ba\u011fl\u0131l\u0131k ile birbirini tan\u0131makt\u0131r. A\u015fk budur.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Basit ama \u015fa\u015f\u0131rt\u0131c\u0131, e\u011flenceli ve ak\u0131lc\u0131 yollarla a\u015fk\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 koruyun, b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcn ve doyas\u0131ya ya\u015fay\u0131n! Asla d\u00fc\u015fman\u0131n yan\u0131nda olmay\u0131n! Baz\u0131 zamanlar vard\u0131r ki, birinin deste\u011fini arkan\u0131zda hissetmeden kendinizi toparlayamazs\u0131n\u0131z. \u00c7iftler i\u00e7in bu durum birbirlerine y\u00f6neliktir. Durum her ne kadar partnerinizden kaynaklan\u0131yor olsa da ona\u00a0 duymak istediklerini s\u00f6yleyin. \u00d6rne\u011fin, i\u015ften \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131laca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 \u00f6\u011frendi\u011finizde \u2018belki de elinden gelenin en iyisini [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":80,"featured_media":5229,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[48],"tags":[3618,3616,3617,3619],"class_list":{"0":"post-4310","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-ask-ve-cinsellik","8":"tag-aski-guclendiren-sozler","9":"tag-aski-guclendirmenin-yollari","10":"tag-iliskiyi-guclendirmenin-yollari","11":"tag-tutkulu-ask-guclendirmesi"},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/asik-mutlu-cift.jpg?fit=625%2C409&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4310","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/80"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4310"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4310\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/5229"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4310"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4310"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4310"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}