{"id":4014,"date":"2019-05-14T10:48:18","date_gmt":"2019-05-14T07:48:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=4014"},"modified":"2019-05-14T10:48:18","modified_gmt":"2019-05-14T07:48:18","slug":"bir-ask-bir-kavusma-ve-bir-veda-hikayesi-dokuz-ay-on-gun","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/bir-ask-bir-kavusma-ve-bir-veda-hikayesi-dokuz-ay-on-gun\/","title":{"rendered":"Bir a\u015fk, bir kavu\u015fma ve bir veda hikayesi: Dokuz ay on g\u00fcn"},"content":{"rendered":"

Mona Yay\u0131nlar\u0131\u2019nda \u00e7\u0131kan \u2018Dokuz Ay On G\u00fcn\u2019<\/strong> bir m\u00fccadele, hayat sava\u015f\u0131 ve kazanmakla kaybetmek aras\u0131nda gidip gelen bir kad\u0131n\u0131n, aile olmaktan vazge\u00e7memek ad\u0131na verdi\u011fi sava\u015f\u0131 anlat\u0131yor.\u00a0 Almula Merter Churm<\/strong>, dokuz ay on g\u00fcne denk gelen bu ilahi yolculu\u011funu hayata, insana, var olmaya, a\u015fka ve sevgiye inanan okuyucular\u0131yla payla\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n

Kalbiyle hamile kalan, dualar\u0131yla iki evlada kavu\u015fan, t\u00fcm y\u00fcre\u011fiyle sevdiklerine ve ailesine sahip \u00e7\u0131kan ve maddesel d\u00fcnyan\u0131n ill\u00fczyonuyla g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde g\u00f6z ard\u0131 edilen manevi de\u011ferlerin alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izen kitap, sadece ba\u015fucu kitab\u0131n\u0131z olmayacak. Dilinizin ucunda, g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fcn ucunda ve ruhunuzda yer bulacak\u2026<\/p>\n

\"\"Kitaptan sat\u0131r ba\u015flar\u0131..<\/strong><\/p>\n

-51 ya\u015f\u0131nda \u201cANNE\u201d oluyorum, heyecan\u0131m\u0131 anlatamam. Hem de bir de\u011fil, iki \u00e7ocu\u011fum olacak.<\/em><\/p>\n

-G\u00f6z\u00fcme bakarak, bile bile can\u0131m\u0131 yakacak o c\u00fcmleyi s\u00f6yledi: \u201c\u00c7ocuklar\u0131 evlat edinmek isteyen bir aile daha var, aran\u0131zda karar verece\u011fiz\u201d.<\/em><\/p>\n

-Annelik inan\u0131lmaz bir duyguymu\u015f. Can\u0131m annemi ve babam\u0131 \u015fimdi \u00e7ok iyi anl\u0131yorum, sa\u00e7\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n her bir teline nas\u0131l titrediklerini\u2026 En k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir \u015feyde, \u00f6m\u00fcrlerinden \u00f6m\u00fcr gitti\u011fini. Ge\u00e7 de olsa, kalbimle do\u011furmu\u015f olsam da, bu duyguyu ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m i\u00e7in binlerce kez \u015f\u00fckrediyorum.<\/em><\/p>\n

-Bir insan\u0131n ruh e\u015fini bulmas\u0131; bir \u015fans m\u0131d\u0131r, yoksa kader midir? Bunu ger\u00e7ekten bilmiyorum, ama seninle kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m her g\u00fcn i\u00e7in Tanr\u0131\u2019ya \u015f\u00fckrediyorum.<\/em><\/p>\n

-\u0130lk defa Ankara\u2019da akl\u0131m\u0131 b\u0131rakt\u0131m fazlas\u0131yla. E\u011fer \u00e7ocuklar olmasa d\u00f6nmezdim zaten. Babam iyile\u015fene kadar kal\u0131rd\u0131m. Bu sefer kendimi \u00e7ok \u00e7aresiz hissettim. Kalbim ikiye b\u00f6l\u00fcnm\u00fc\u015f durumda. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n geli\u015fine sevinmekle, ailemin yan\u0131nda olamamaya \u00fcz\u00fclmek.<\/em><\/p>\n

–Bu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n psikolojisi tersten \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor, onlar travmal\u0131 \u00e7ocuklar, unutmay\u0131n.<\/em><\/p>\n

-Bazen ger\u00e7ek annemi, babam\u0131 \u00f6zl\u00fcyorum.Baz\u0131 anne babalar \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na bakamaz, onlar\u0131 b\u0131rak\u0131rm\u0131\u015f.<\/em><\/p>\n

-Bisk\u00fcvileri sakl\u0131yorum, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc a\u00e7 kalmamak i\u00e7in \u00f6nlem al\u0131yorum.<\/em><\/p>\n

-Ya siz de cennete giderseniz? Bize kim bakacak?<\/em><\/p>\n

-\u201cSen her \u015feyi ba\u015far\u0131rs\u0131n,\u201d derdin bana. Evet babac\u0131\u011f\u0131m, bunu da ba\u015faraca\u011f\u0131m; sensiz yoluma devam etmeyi de ba\u015faraca\u011f\u0131m. Sen her zaman kalbimin en derininde ve sol omzumda, mele\u011fim olacaks\u0131n.<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Mona Yay\u0131nlar\u0131\u2019nda \u00e7\u0131kan \u2018Dokuz Ay On G\u00fcn\u2019 bir m\u00fccadele, hayat sava\u015f\u0131 ve kazanmakla kaybetmek aras\u0131nda gidip gelen bir kad\u0131n\u0131n, aile olmaktan vazge\u00e7memek ad\u0131na verdi\u011fi sava\u015f\u0131 anlat\u0131yor.\u00a0 Almula Merter Churm, dokuz ay on g\u00fcne denk gelen bu ilahi yolculu\u011funu hayata, insana, var olmaya, a\u015fka ve sevgiye inanan okuyucular\u0131yla payla\u015f\u0131yor. Kalbiyle hamile kalan, dualar\u0131yla iki evlada kavu\u015fan, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":80,"featured_media":4022,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[199],"tags":[3148,3150,3149,3152,3151],"class_list":{"0":"post-4014","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-kultur-sanat","8":"tag-almula-merter-churm","9":"tag-anne-kitaplari","10":"tag-dokuz-ay-on-gun","11":"tag-gec-yasta-anne-olmak","12":"tag-kitap-tavsiyesi"},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/05\/almula-merter-yeni-kitap-dokuz-ay-on-gun.jpg?fit=599%2C505&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4014","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/80"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=4014"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/4014\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/4022"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=4014"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=4014"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=4014"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}