{"id":3894,"date":"2019-04-25T20:21:16","date_gmt":"2019-04-25T17:21:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=3894"},"modified":"2019-04-25T20:46:32","modified_gmt":"2019-04-25T17:46:32","slug":"aile-kavraminin-anlamini-biliyor-musunuz","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/aile-kavraminin-anlamini-biliyor-musunuz\/","title":{"rendered":"Aile kavram\u0131n\u0131n anlam\u0131n\u0131 biliyor musunuz?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>\u00c7ocuk ve aile<\/strong> bir b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcn ortak bile\u015fenleridir. T\u0131pk\u0131 Legolardan meydana gelen bir oyuncak ev gibi\u2026 Eksik bir Lego nas\u0131l ki evi hep eksik g\u00f6sterirse anne yada baban\u0131n olmay\u0131\u015f\u0131 da \u00e7ocu\u011fun ruhundaki bir par\u00e7ay\u0131 yok eder. Peki bu yokluk anne ve baban\u0131n somut olarak var olmay\u0131\u015f\u0131 m\u0131 yoksa silueti daima yan\u0131nda olan bir olmay\u0131\u015f m\u0131? Hayat\u0131m\u0131zda bir \u00e7ok \u015fey \u00f6\u011freniriz \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc insan\u0131n yarad\u0131l\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki sorgulama arzusu hi\u00e7 t\u00fckenmez. <strong>Peki aile kavram\u0131n\u0131n anlam\u0131n\u0131 biliyor muyuz?<\/strong> T\u00fcm ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n, su\u00e7lar\u0131n ,iyiliklerin, k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fcklerin temelinde yatan s\u00f6zc\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn anlam\u0131n\u0131. <strong>Aile<\/strong> kelimesi Arap\u00e7a k\u00f6kenli olup <b>\u201cdestek ve dayanak\u201d <\/b>anlam\u0131na gelen <b>\u201cayl\u201d<\/b> k\u00f6k\u00fcnden t\u00fcremi\u015ftir. \u0130\u00e7inde birlik, beraberlik, payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131n, iyi niyetin oldu\u011fu bir puzzle\u2019nin par\u00e7alar\u0131 gibidir. Bir de \u015fu vard\u0131r; ayn\u0131 evin i\u00e7inde birbirinden ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z, hi\u00e7bir ortak paydas\u0131 bulunmayan, tatl\u0131 anlarda yahut ac\u0131larda bulu\u015fmayan insan toplulu\u011fu. Her ne kadar kan ba\u011f\u0131 bulunursa bulunsun g\u00f6n\u00fcl ba\u011f\u0131 olmayan hi\u00e7bir ili\u015fki <strong>aile<\/strong> de\u011fildir. Sadece birlikte ya\u015famaya mecbur b\u0131rak\u0131lm\u0131\u015f bireylerdir.<\/p>\n<p><b>Anne baba ve \u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisi\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Her aile \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n mutlulu\u011fu i\u00e7in \u00e7abalar. Fakat tek ba\u015f\u0131na anne yada baba fig\u00fcr\u00fcnden ziyade anne baba aras\u0131ndaki ili\u015fki ve samimiyet \u00e7ocuklara sirayet \u00a0eden bir \u0131\u015f\u0131k gibidir. Evet \u00fc\u00e7\u00fcnc\u00fc bir fig\u00fcr <b>anne ve baban\u0131n ili\u015fkisidir<\/b>. Bir tren d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn sadece \u00fc\u00e7 vagondan olu\u015fuyor. En \u00f6ndeki babay\u0131 temsil eden, sondaki anneyi, ve ortadaki vagon aralar\u0131nda ba\u011f olan \u00e7ocu\u011fu\u2026 Raylarsa hayat\u0131n ola\u011fan ak\u0131\u015f\u0131nda devam eden durumlarda ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan sorunlar. Makinist ise bizim olaylara g\u00f6sterdi\u011fimiz y\u00f6netim mekanizmas\u0131. Elbette ki zaman zaman virajlar ve d\u00f6n\u00fcm noktalar\u0131 olacak. Fakat \u00f6n\u00fcm\u00fcz\u00fc g\u00f6remedi\u011fimiz, hatay\u0131 saptayamad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z veya keskin \u00e7\u0131k\u0131\u015flar yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z bir anda vagonlar birbirinden ayr\u0131lacak ve b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcn yerini ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z, tek ba\u015f\u0131na anlam ifade etmeyen par\u00e7alar alacak. Aile t\u0131pk\u0131 bu \u00f6rnekteki gibidir. \u00a0Birbirleriyle ba\u011f\u0131nt\u0131l\u0131 olmalar\u0131, kararlar\u0131,\u00a0 ve tepkileridir onlar\u0131 aile k\u0131lan unsurlar\u2026<\/p>\n<p><b>Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 nesiller yeti\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in ailenin g\u00f6revleri nelerdir?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>Bir i\u015fe ba\u015flamadan evvel dirsek \u00e7\u00fcr\u00fct\u00fcp y\u0131llar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131, mesle\u011fimizi en iyi \u015fekilde icra edebilmek i\u00e7in harcar\u0131z deyim yerindeyse. G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde ne yaz\u0131k ki aileye verdi\u011fimiz \u00f6nem ve destek mesle\u011fimize verdi\u011fimiz \u00f6nemden kat be kat az. Oysaki iyi yeti\u015ftirilmi\u015f bir dahi, sevgisizlik ve yaln\u0131zl\u0131kla b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f bir \u00e7ocuk taciri, nefretle b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f bir katil. Yada insan sevgisiyle b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fclm\u00fc\u015f ya\u015famaya, ya\u015fatmaya hayat\u0131n\u0131 adayan bir doktor\u2026 T\u00fcm bunlar ailenin \u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc. Evet tertemiz nesillere imza atmakta, k\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fckle beslenen bireyler yeti\u015ftirmekte bizim elimizde. Evimizin \u00fcyelerine kar\u015f\u0131 sergiledi\u011fimiz \u00a0iyi ve k\u00f6t\u00fc her davran\u0131\u015f \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n haf\u0131zalar\u0131nda yer eder ve bunun sonucunda insani de\u011ferleri baz almak yerine. K\u00f6t\u00fcl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc baz alan kitleler yeti\u015fir sadece. Anne ve baba olarak \u00f6rnek davran\u0131\u015flarla onlar\u0131 iyili\u011fe, d\u00fcr\u00fcstl\u00fc\u011fe, te\u015fvik etmeliyiz. Keza unutmayal\u0131m ki bizim s\u00f6yledi\u011fimiz do\u011frular \u00f6ncelikle bizim davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zda vuku bulmazsa \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n g\u00f6z\u00fcnde inand\u0131r\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 kalmayacakt\u0131r. \u00a0\u0130nsan olmak sadece bir k\u00f6\u015fede kimseye zarar\u0131 olmadan oturmak de\u011fil elimizden geldi\u011fince topluma fayda sa\u011flamak g\u00fczel bir d\u00fcnya i\u00e7in \u00e7abalamakt\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za daha iyi bir d\u00fcnya b\u0131rakmak ailede ba\u015flar ve en \u00f6nemlisi ailenin \u00f6nemini ger\u00e7ekten idrak edebilmekle m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olur. G\u00fczel ailelere ve nesillere imza atabilmek dile\u011fiyle\u2026<strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocuk ve aile bir b\u00fct\u00fcn\u00fcn ortak bile\u015fenleridir. T\u0131pk\u0131 Legolardan meydana gelen bir oyuncak ev gibi\u2026 Eksik bir Lego nas\u0131l ki evi hep eksik g\u00f6sterirse anne yada baban\u0131n olmay\u0131\u015f\u0131 da \u00e7ocu\u011fun ruhundaki bir par\u00e7ay\u0131 yok eder. Peki bu yokluk anne ve baban\u0131n somut olarak var olmay\u0131\u015f\u0131 m\u0131 yoksa silueti daima yan\u0131nda olan bir olmay\u0131\u015f m\u0131? Hayat\u0131m\u0131zda [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":41,"featured_media":3807,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[3054,3057,3055,3058,3056],"class_list":{"0":"post-3894","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aile","8":"tag-aile-nedir","9":"tag-aile-nedir-turleri","10":"tag-aile-olmak-nedir","11":"tag-aile-ve-kavrami-tanimi","12":"tag-genis-aile-nedir"},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/04\/anne-bebek-baba-aile.jpg?fit=626%2C417&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3894","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/41"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3894"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3894\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3807"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3894"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3894"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3894"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}