{"id":3566,"date":"2019-02-25T18:50:42","date_gmt":"2019-02-25T15:50:42","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=3566"},"modified":"2019-02-25T18:50:42","modified_gmt":"2019-02-25T15:50:42","slug":"kendine-guvenen-cocuklar-yetistirmek","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/kendine-guvenen-cocuklar-yetistirmek\/","title":{"rendered":"Kendine g\u00fcvenen \u00e7ocuklar yeti\u015ftirmek"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>G\u00fcven<\/strong>, 0-1 ya\u015fta anne ile ileti\u015fimle olu\u015fan bir duygudur. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te <strong>\u00e7ocuk \u00e7evresine g\u00fcven ve kendine g\u00fcven duygusunu olu\u015fturur<\/strong>. Yeti\u015fkin d\u00f6nemde kendine g\u00fcvensiz olanlar, hatta CEO d\u00fczeyine gelip, i\u015finde ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olan, ama \u00e7ocuk tepkilerini g\u00f6rd\u00fcklerimiz anne ile ileti\u015fimde sorun ya\u015fayanlard\u0131r. <strong>Bebekte g\u00fcven<\/strong> duygusunun olu\u015fmas\u0131na engel olan anne tipi \u201c<strong>kayg\u0131l\u0131 anne<\/strong>\u201d tipidir. Bu t\u00fcr anneler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 kendi varolu\u015f nedeni olarak ortaya koyarak kendilerini rahatlat\u0131r. Ancak \u00e7ocu\u011fa g\u00fcven vermekten uzaklard\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ko\u015fulsuz sevgi veren anne \u00e7ocu\u011fa g\u00fcven verir<\/strong><br \/>\n\u015eartl\u0131 sevgi de\u011fil, ko\u015fulsuz sevgi \u00f6nemlidir. Yaramazl\u0131k yapmazsan, dersini \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rsan, okumay\u0131 en \u00e7abuk \u00f6\u011frenirsen, s\u0131n\u0131f birincisi olursan severim diyen anne, \u00e7ocu\u011fa de\u011fer vermeyen, sevgisi ko\u015fullu olan annedir. Bezini de\u011fi\u015ftirirken, yeme\u011fini yedirirken onunla ba\u015f ba\u015fa olan, anda olan annenin \u00e7ocu\u011funa de\u011ferli hissettirdi\u011fi zaman \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. Kendisi i\u00e7in yap\u0131lanlar\u0131 hisseden \u00e7ocuk <strong>kendine g\u00fcvenen \u00e7ocuk<\/strong> olacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Genelde k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fc\u011fe sevgi, b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011fe sayg\u0131 duyulmas\u0131 \u00f6\u011f\u00fctlenir bizlere. Ancak \u00e7ocu\u011fa duyulan sayg\u0131, te\u015fekk\u00fcr etmek, \u00f6z\u00fcr dilemek kendisine de\u011fer verildi\u011fini hissettirir. \u00c7ocuksun yapamazs\u0131n, \u00e7ocuklar yapamaz gibi s\u00f6zler bilin\u00e7alt\u0131nda olu\u015fturaca\u011f\u0131 kal\u0131plar nedeniyle kabul edilemez. Anne ve baban\u0131n isteyerek d\u00fcnyaya getirdi\u011fi, topluma kazand\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 birey i\u00e7in yap\u0131lmas\u0131 gerekenleri g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde bilmemesi m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fil.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n duygular\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015fmalar\u0131 \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli<\/strong><br \/>\nKuzey Caroline \u00dcniversitesi&#8217;nin yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ara\u015ft\u0131rmaya g\u00f6re \u00e7ocuklar olaylara tepkilerini ebeveynlerinin kendilerine yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131na g\u00f6re ayarl\u0131yor. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n duygular\u0131n\u0131 payla\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamak \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli, bunun i\u00e7in de reaksiyonlara kar\u015f\u0131 duyarl\u0131 olmak gerekiyor. \u00c7ocu\u011fun hi\u00e7bir reaksiyonuna negatif bir d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f yapmamak anne baban\u0131n g\u00f6revidir. \u00d6nemli olan onu anlamakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bir ba\u015fka \u00f6nemli husus ebeveynin kendine olan g\u00fcvenidir. Ya\u015famla bar\u0131\u015f\u0131k olan, kendisine de\u011fer veren, kendine g\u00fcvenen ebeveynin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131, herhangi bir konuda ele\u015ftiri, a\u015fa\u011f\u0131lama olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 taktirde kendine g\u00fcvenen olacakt\u0131r. Kendi \u00e7ocuklu\u011fundaki ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131, ileti\u015fim yetene\u011fi, zeka seviyesi konusunda \u00f6rnekler vererek \u00e7ocu\u011fu geri plana itmek yap\u0131lacak en b\u00fcy\u00fck hatad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>G\u00fcvenli bir gelecek i\u00e7in&#8230;<\/strong><br \/>\n\u00c7ocu\u011fumuzun ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 oldu\u011fu konularda \u00f6vg\u00fc dolu s\u00f6zler g\u00fcven kazand\u0131r\u0131r. G\u00fcven duydu\u011funuza dair s\u00f6zler \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun g\u00fcvenini destekleyecektir. Karde\u015fi, ablas\u0131, abisi, arkada\u015f\u0131 ile kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma ise g\u00fcveni zedeler. Gelece\u011fimizin g\u00fcvenli \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n elinde olmas\u0131 dile\u011fiyle\u2026<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>G\u00fcven, 0-1 ya\u015fta anne ile ileti\u015fimle olu\u015fan bir duygudur. Bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te \u00e7ocuk \u00e7evresine g\u00fcven ve kendine g\u00fcven duygusunu olu\u015fturur. Yeti\u015fkin d\u00f6nemde kendine g\u00fcvensiz olanlar, hatta CEO d\u00fczeyine gelip, i\u015finde ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olan, ama \u00e7ocuk tepkilerini g\u00f6rd\u00fcklerimiz anne ile ileti\u015fimde sorun ya\u015fayanlard\u0131r. Bebekte g\u00fcven duygusunun olu\u015fmas\u0131na engel olan anne tipi \u201ckayg\u0131l\u0131 anne\u201d tipidir. Bu t\u00fcr anneler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":3493,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[2797,540,2795,2796,2798],"class_list":{"0":"post-3566","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-cocuk","8":"tag-bebekte-guven","9":"tag-cocuk-yetistirmek","10":"tag-guven","11":"tag-kaygili-anne","12":"tag-kendine-guvenen-cocuk"},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/01\/bebek-oyun.jpg?fit=626%2C417&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3566","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/17"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3566"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3566\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3493"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3566"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3566"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3566"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}