{"id":3473,"date":"2019-01-14T14:45:16","date_gmt":"2019-01-14T11:45:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=3473"},"modified":"2019-01-14T14:45:16","modified_gmt":"2019-01-14T11:45:16","slug":"mutlu-cocuk-yetistirmenin-tek-kurali-mutlu-anne-olmaktir","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/mutlu-cocuk-yetistirmenin-tek-kurali-mutlu-anne-olmaktir\/","title":{"rendered":"Mutlu \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmenin tek kural\u0131 mutlu anne olmakt\u0131r"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z anne karn\u0131nda hissettiklerini, duyduklar\u0131n\u0131 bilin\u00e7alt\u0131nda biriktiriyor, bu birikimlerle d\u00fcnyaya geliyor. \u00c7ocuk hen\u00fcz ileride bu birikimlerin hayat\u0131nda neler yarataca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131nda de\u011fil. Anneler de bilmiyorlar belki ama ayd\u0131nlanma \u00e7a\u011f\u0131nday\u0131z, bilgiye ula\u015fmak \u00e7ok kolay art\u0131k, istedi\u011fimiz bilgiyi internette hemen bulabiliyoruz. <\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 30px;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun mutlulu\u011fu annenin mutlulu\u011funa ba\u011fl\u0131.<strong> Mutlu anne mutlu \u00e7ocuk b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr.<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Mutlu anne:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kendini seven,<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kendine de\u011fer veren,<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Birey oland\u0131r.<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kendisini seven anne, sevgi enerjisi ile doludur, sevgisini verebilir. Annelik kavram\u0131n\u0131 da \u00e7ocu\u011funu da sever. \u00c7ocu\u011funun bezini de\u011fi\u015ftirirken o bez i\u00e7in bile \u015f\u00fckreder. \u00c7ocu\u011funa s\u00fct verirken, yemek yedirirken andad\u0131r, sadece \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla ba\u015f ba\u015fad\u0131r, ona yeme\u011fini yediriyordur. O an\u0131n mutlulu\u011funu hissediyordur. \u00c7ocu\u011funun geli\u015fimini hissetmek onun i\u00e7in en b\u00fcy\u00fck keyiftir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bir birey olarak ya\u015fayan anne \u00e7ocu\u011funun da birey oldu\u011funu, onun da tercihleri oldu\u011funu bilir. Kendi istekleri oldu\u011fu gibi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n da tercihleri olabilece\u011fini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek, ona sayg\u0131 duyar. \u0130ki ya\u015f\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocu\u011funun geceleri uyan\u0131p asi hareketler yapmas\u0131 nedeniyle onu anlayabilmek i\u00e7in kitap arayan, bulan bir annenin tek amac\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011funun huzursuzlu\u011funu \u00e7\u00f6zmektir. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fan bir anne i\u015ften d\u00f6nd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde, yans\u0131tt\u0131\u011f\u0131 pozitif enerjisi ile g\u00fcn\u00fcn stresini atlatmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olan bebe\u011fine te\u015fekk\u00fcr eder. Kendisine \u015fefkat duyan anne \u00e7ocu\u011funa \u015fefkatli davran\u0131r. Koruyucudur, ama bunu \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc k\u0131s\u0131tlama \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcs\u00fcnde yapmaz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuk anneye verilen, yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 hissettiren bir hediyedir. En g\u00fczeli, d\u00fcnyaya getirdi\u011fine her g\u00fcn bilgi, emek, sevgi katarak b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc, geli\u015fti\u011fini g\u00f6rmektir. Bug\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklar \u00e7ok ak\u0131ll\u0131, eskisinden \u00e7ok farkl\u0131 diyoruz, bunun nedeni belki de annelerin anneli\u011fi yapmas\u0131ndaki farkt\u0131r g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm\u00fcz.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Mutlu anne ile bir ya\u015f sonunda \u00e7ocuk g\u00fcven kavram\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturur, \u00e7evresine ve kendisine g\u00fcven duyar. Annesi onunla sadece baz\u0131 ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 gidermek i\u00e7in de\u011fil, ger\u00e7ekten ilgilenmi\u015ftir. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n duyular\u0131 geli\u015fmi\u015ftir. Anne karn\u0131nda bile 5 duyu ile hissediyorlar, sezgileri \u00e7ok geli\u015fmi\u015ftir. Ve en \u00f6nemlisi anne karn\u0131ndaki emniyet, s\u0131cakl\u0131k, g\u00fcvendir. Bu nedenle do\u011fum travmas\u0131 ya\u015fan\u0131r. Ancak hemen anne s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 alan bebek kendini iyi hisseder. \u00d6nemli olan bu hissin devam\u0131d\u0131r. Bu da anne olmay\u0131 bilin\u00e7li olarak se\u00e7en mutlu kad\u0131n\u0131n yarataca\u011f\u0131 duygudur.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocu\u011fumuzu ya\u015fam amac\u0131 haline getirmeden mutlulu\u011fu ya\u015fatmak i\u00e7in \u00f6nce biz mutlu olal\u0131m, mutlu \u00e7ocuklar gelece\u011fin mutlu yeti\u015fkinleri olsun.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> \u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z anne karn\u0131nda hissettiklerini, duyduklar\u0131n\u0131 bilin\u00e7alt\u0131nda biriktiriyor, bu birikimlerle d\u00fcnyaya geliyor. \u00c7ocuk hen\u00fcz ileride bu birikimlerin hayat\u0131nda neler yarataca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n fark\u0131nda de\u011fil. Anneler de bilmiyorlar belki ama ayd\u0131nlanma \u00e7a\u011f\u0131nday\u0131z, bilgiye ula\u015fmak \u00e7ok kolay art\u0131k, istedi\u011fimiz bilgiyi internette hemen bulabiliyoruz. Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun mutlulu\u011fu annenin mutlulu\u011funa ba\u011fl\u0131. Mutlu anne mutlu \u00e7ocuk b\u00fcy\u00fct\u00fcr. Mutlu anne: Kendini seven, Kendine de\u011fer [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":3374,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[448,118,1611],"class_list":["post-3473","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-cocuk","tag-anne-olmak","tag-cocuk-yetistirme","tag-mutlu-cocuk"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/12\/cocuk-oyun-6.jpg?fit=626%2C417&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3473","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/17"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3473"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3473\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3374"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3473"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3473"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3473"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}