{"id":3316,"date":"2018-11-17T09:00:22","date_gmt":"2018-11-17T06:00:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=3316"},"modified":"2018-11-16T23:13:39","modified_gmt":"2018-11-16T20:13:39","slug":"mutlu-ebeveyn-mutlu-cocuk","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/mutlu-ebeveyn-mutlu-cocuk\/","title":{"rendered":"Mutlu ebeveyn mutlu \u00e7ocuk"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130\u00e7ten d\u0131\u015fa de\u011fi\u015fim konusunda g\u00fcn ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e bilin\u00e7 sahibi olan ebeveynler mutlu olman\u0131n yolunu ar\u0131yorlar. <strong>Mutluluk<\/strong> bir se\u00e7imdir. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her an\u0131, anda kalarak ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda mutlulu\u011fu hissederiz. Temel ko\u015ful kalbimizin temizlenmesidir. Mevlana <strong>\u201cd\u0131\u015far\u0131ya bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n pencere temiz de\u011filse sana uzatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m g\u00fclleri \u00e7amur g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u201d<\/strong> der.<\/p>\n<p><b>\u00c7ocuk sahibi olmaya karar vermek mi, \u00e7ocuk sahibi olmak m\u0131? Ebeveyn olarak haz\u0131r m\u0131y\u0131z d\u00fcnyaya bir birey haz\u0131rlamaya? <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Bebek i\u00e7in anne karn\u0131ndaki konfor alan\u0131ndan d\u00fcnyaya gelmek bir travma iken onu yeni konfor alan\u0131na adapte etmek mutlu ebeveyn i\u00e7in kolay olacakt\u0131r. Bazen s\u00fcrekli a\u011flayan bebekler i\u00e7in ne yapabiliriz, niye a\u011fl\u0131yor diye d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr dururuz. Bebek anne ve babas\u0131n\u0131n mutsuzlu\u011funu hissediyorsa mutsuz olur. Bebektir anlamaz, \u00e7ocuk ne bilsin deriz asl\u0131nda onlar her \u015feyi biliyor ve anl\u0131yorlar. Anne karn\u0131nda kay\u0131tlar\u0131 ba\u015fl\u0131yor bilin\u00e7alt\u0131na\u2026 0-6 ya\u015fta mutluluk, g\u00fcven, huzur kavram\u0131n\u0131 ebeveynlerinden al\u0131yorlar. Anne onlar i\u00e7in \u015fefkat, baba ise g\u00fc\u00e7.<\/p>\n<p>Bug\u00fcn yeti\u015fkinlere kendinize \u015fefkat g\u00f6sterin, hatta \u015fefkat hep yan\u0131n\u0131zda i\u00e7inizde olsun diyoruz. Kendine \u015fefkat g\u00f6steren ba\u015fkalar\u0131na da \u015fefkati yans\u0131tand\u0131r. Bu durumda anne \u00e7ocu\u011funa g\u00f6rev olarak, gerekti\u011fi i\u00e7in sorumlulu\u011fu oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in de\u011fil, kendisinin i\u00e7inde oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in sevgi ve \u015fefkat g\u00f6steriyor. \u00c7ocuk anne ile bu tarz ileti\u015fimi istiyor. Baba g\u00fc\u00e7 ifade ediyor \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in. E\u015fler aras\u0131nda eril \u2013 di\u015fil enerji dengesi yoksa, annenin eril enerjisi y\u00fcksekse, evde g\u00fc\u00e7 sava\u015f\u0131 varsa, \u00e7ocuk g\u00fcc\u00fc kimden alacak?<\/p>\n<p><b>Mutlu \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmek i\u00e7in\u2026 <\/b><\/p>\n<p>Mutlulu\u011fu hisseden anne ve baba mutlulu\u011funu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na yans\u0131tacak, \u00e7ocuk ebeveynini modelleyecek, yeti\u015fkin halinde mutlu ya\u015fayacakt\u0131r<b>. Ya\u015fam amac\u0131m \u00e7ocu\u011fum diyen bir anne mutlulu\u011funu, ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fa odaklam\u0131\u015f, kendisini s\u0131f\u0131rlam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. <\/b>Ebeveynler birey olarak kendilerini seviyor, de\u011ferli hissediyor, denge i\u00e7inde hayatlar\u0131n\u0131 s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcyor, odaklar\u0131 kendileri ise \u00e7ocuk kendini bulacak, de\u011ferlerini olu\u015fturacakt\u0131r. Proje \u00e7ocuk d\u00f6nemi bitsin art\u0131k. D\u00fcnyaya gelene, getirdi\u011fimize sahip oldu\u011fumuz de\u011fil, biyolojik ba\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00e7ok \u00f6tesinde bir sorumlulu\u011fumuzun oldu\u011fu bilinci ile davranmam\u0131z onun gelece\u011fi i\u00e7in \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n<p>Yar\u0131n\u0131n yeti\u015fkinlerinin mutlu olmas\u0131 bizim elimizde\u2026 Aile i\u00e7i ileti\u015fime \u00f6zen g\u00f6stermek, sevgi ve sayg\u0131n\u0131n eksilmedi\u011fi, kelimelerin zarafetle se\u00e7ildi\u011fi bir ortam\u0131 sa\u011flamak, mutlulu\u011fu hisseden bireyler olmak amac\u0131m\u0131z olsun\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u0130\u00e7ten d\u0131\u015fa de\u011fi\u015fim konusunda g\u00fcn ge\u00e7tik\u00e7e bilin\u00e7 sahibi olan ebeveynler mutlu olman\u0131n yolunu ar\u0131yorlar. Mutluluk bir se\u00e7imdir. Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her an\u0131, anda kalarak ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda mutlulu\u011fu hissederiz. Temel ko\u015ful kalbimizin temizlenmesidir. Mevlana \u201cd\u0131\u015far\u0131ya bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n pencere temiz de\u011filse sana uzatt\u0131\u011f\u0131m g\u00fclleri \u00e7amur g\u00f6r\u00fcrs\u00fcn\u201d der. \u00c7ocuk sahibi olmaya karar vermek mi, \u00e7ocuk sahibi olmak m\u0131? Ebeveyn olarak haz\u0131r m\u0131y\u0131z [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":3318,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[399,1611,2662,2663,24],"class_list":{"0":"post-3316","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aile","8":"tag-aile-olmak","9":"tag-mutlu-cocuk","10":"tag-mutlu-cocuk-yetistirmek","11":"tag-mutlu-ebeveyn","12":"tag-mutluluk"},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/11\/mutlu-cocuk-yetistirmek1.jpg?fit=626%2C626&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3316","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/17"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3316"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3316\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/3318"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3316"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3316"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3316"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}