{"id":3200,"date":"2018-09-27T11:43:38","date_gmt":"2018-09-27T08:43:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=3200"},"modified":"2018-09-27T12:23:14","modified_gmt":"2018-09-27T09:23:14","slug":"okul-doneminde-cocugunuzu-motive-edin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/okul-doneminde-cocugunuzu-motive-edin\/","title":{"rendered":"Okul d\u00f6neminde \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu motive edin"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Okul d\u00f6nemi<\/strong> ba\u015flad\u0131, \u00f6\u011frenciler tatil sonras\u0131 sabah erken kalkmaya, eve gelip ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Peki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z televizyondan, ipadlerinden uzakla\u015fmaya nas\u0131l tepki verdi? Bu tepkide bizim ebeveyn olarak etkimiz var m\u0131?<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00d6\u011frencilik<\/strong> d\u00f6neminde bana \u00f6\u011frencinin sadece ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi, ba\u015far\u0131 ile s\u0131n\u0131f\u0131n\u0131 ge\u00e7me sorumlulu\u011fu oldu\u011fu \u00f6\u011fretildi. Haftada bir sinemaya gitmek en b\u00fcy\u00fck e\u011flenceydi. Benim eve gelir gelmez ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaktan ba\u015fka se\u00e7ene\u011fim yoktu. <strong>Ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak<\/strong> benim sorumlulu\u011fumdu. \u015eimdi ko\u015fullar daha farkl\u0131. <strong>\u00c7ocuklar bilgisayar oyunlar\u0131ndan kopmak istemiyor.<\/strong> Ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmayana, notu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck olana bilgisayar oyunlar\u0131na engel cezas\u0131 veriliyor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u0130lkokul 1. S\u0131n\u0131ftan ba\u015flayarak \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n \u201chedef\u201dini bilmesi \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli.<\/strong> O hedefe ula\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ne olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmeli. Nereye gidiyorum diyen de\u011fil, sonunda ne elde edece\u011fini bilen \u00e7ocuklar olmal\u0131. Bizler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za bu konuda destek olmal\u0131y\u0131z. <strong>Dersini \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan, iyi not alan \u00e7ocuk istedi\u011fi oyunu oynayabilece\u011fi i\u00e7in mutlu olan, ancak hedefine bir ad\u0131m daha yakla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in motive olan olmal\u0131.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><b>Motivasyon \u00f6d\u00fcl m\u00fc olmal\u0131 hedefe ula\u015fmak m\u0131 olmal\u0131?<\/b><\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun haftal\u0131k hedefleri olmal\u0131. Sonra ayl\u0131k, d\u00f6nemlik, orta vadeli, hatta bir \u00f6\u011frenci i\u00e7in olabilecek uzun vadeli hedefler. <strong>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun okul d\u00f6neminde \u00f6nceli\u011fi ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak olmal\u0131.<\/strong> Bazen korkarlar s\u0131navlarda ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olmaktan, ba\u015faramazsam endi\u015fesi \u00e7ocu\u011fa ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015ft\u0131rmaz. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fmad\u0131m olmad\u0131 demek ka\u00e7\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Hedefi olan \u00e7ocuk ka\u00e7maz. Ba\u015far\u0131ya odaklanan, ailesinden her zaman destek alan \u00e7ocuk ba\u015far\u0131 endi\u015fesi ta\u015f\u0131mayand\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><b>K\u0131yaslama yapmay\u0131n\u2026<\/b><\/p>\n<p><strong>Ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma konusunda kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rma yapmay\u0131n.<\/strong> Ablan \u00e7al\u0131\u015fkan, ne g\u00fczel ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor, ona tek kelime s\u00f6ylemiyorum dedi\u011finizde karde\u015f tepki olarak \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmamay\u0131 se\u00e7ebilir. Ablan\u0131n hedefi vard\u0131r, karde\u015finin olmayabilir. Bu da bizim sorumlulu\u011fumuzdad\u0131r. Benim \u00e7ocu\u011fum tembel \u015feklinde tan\u0131mlama yapmak da \u00e7ocu\u011fu etiketlemektir. Bir dan\u0131\u015fan\u0131m\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funun tembel ve yeteneksiz oldu\u011fu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcl\u00fcrken s\u0131n\u0131f ikincisi olmas\u0131 onlar\u0131 \u015fa\u015f\u0131rtm\u0131\u015ft\u0131. Burada da kendini kan\u0131tlamak bir motivasyon kayna\u011f\u0131 olmu\u015ftu. <strong>Okul d\u00f6neminde \u00e7ocu\u011fumuzun istekle \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131 istiyorsak plan yapmas\u0131n\u0131, amac\u0131n\u0131 belirlemesini, hedeflerini bilmesini sa\u011flamal\u0131y\u0131z. Bu \u015fekilde hayat\u0131n\u0131 kendisinin \u015fekillendirmesini sa\u011flam\u0131\u015f olaca\u011f\u0131z. En g\u00fczeli de bu de\u011fil mi?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Okul d\u00f6nemi ba\u015flad\u0131, \u00f6\u011frenciler tatil sonras\u0131 sabah erken kalkmaya, eve gelip ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmaya ba\u015flad\u0131. Peki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z televizyondan, ipadlerinden uzakla\u015fmaya nas\u0131l tepki verdi? Bu tepkide bizim ebeveyn olarak etkimiz var m\u0131? \u00d6\u011frencilik d\u00f6neminde bana \u00f6\u011frencinin sadece ders \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 gerekti\u011fi, ba\u015far\u0131 ile s\u0131n\u0131f\u0131n\u0131 ge\u00e7me sorumlulu\u011fu oldu\u011fu \u00f6\u011fretildi. Haftada bir sinemaya gitmek en b\u00fcy\u00fck e\u011flenceydi. 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