{"id":3177,"date":"2018-09-19T12:22:40","date_gmt":"2018-09-19T09:22:40","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=3177"},"modified":"2018-09-19T12:22:40","modified_gmt":"2018-09-19T09:22:40","slug":"cocuklar-okula-baslarken","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/cocuklar-okula-baslarken\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuklar okula ba\u015flarken&#8230;"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n da bizim gibi ya\u015fam e\u011frileri oldu\u011funu biliyoruz. Do\u011fdu\u011fu andan itibaren \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ne zaman b\u00fcy\u00fcyece\u011fini ne zaman okula ba\u015flayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz. Her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn ile birlikte ne zaman bu kadar b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc, neredeyse okula ba\u015flayacak deriz. Ve g\u00fcn gelir \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z okula ba\u015flar. <strong>Okula ba\u015flamak \u00e7ocu\u011fun anne baba evinden, yani korundu\u011fu alandan, g\u00fcvenli alandan uzakla\u015fmas\u0131d\u0131r. \u00a0<\/strong>\u0130lk g\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 aileleri okula g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcyor ve okul bah\u00e7esinden g\u00f6zlem ba\u015fl\u0131yor. \u00c7ocu\u011fun y\u00fcz\u00fc g\u00fcl\u00fcyorsa anne mutlu oluyor. Baz\u0131 anneler okulun kurallar\u0131na ters de\u011filse s\u0131n\u0131fa bile girmek istiyor, \u00e7ocu\u011fa ben yan\u0131nday\u0131m mesaj\u0131n\u0131 vermeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Korku ve endi\u015feleri geride b\u0131rak\u0131n, okula ne\u015feyle ba\u015flay\u0131n<\/strong><br \/>\nAnneler o ilk g\u00fcn ne yapacaklar\u0131n\u0131 \u015fa\u015f\u0131r\u0131r, ya \u00e7ocu\u011fum kendini iyi hissetmezse, korkarsa diye kayg\u0131larla doldurur i\u00e7ini. \u00a0Halbuki ne\u015fe ile ba\u015flamak ne g\u00fczel olur. \u00c7ocu\u011fun kayg\u0131 enerjisi yerine ne\u015fe enerjisini hissetmesi o ilk g\u00fcn\u00fcn \u015f\u00f6len haline gelmesini sa\u011flayacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c7ocuklar okul kurallar\u0131na uymakta zorlanabilir<\/strong><br \/>\nOkul haz\u0131rl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ba\u015flar, k\u0131rtasiye e\u015fyalar\u0131, okul k\u0131yafeti, kitaplar al\u0131n\u0131r. Bir gerginlik vard\u0131r bu al\u0131\u015fveri\u015fte. Annede \u00e7ocu\u011fun okula al\u0131\u015fma s\u00fcrecindeki zorlukla ilgili endi\u015fe vard\u0131r, erken saatte g\u00fcne ba\u015flamak, okul kurallar\u0131na uyum sa\u011flamak zor olacakt\u0131r \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in.<\/p>\n<p>Al\u0131\u015fkanl\u0131klar\u0131 de\u011fi\u015ftiren biz miyiz ya da kitlesel hipnoz alt\u0131nda birileri bir \u015fey yaparken olmas\u0131 gereken bu mu diyoruz? \u00a0\u0130lkokula ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131mda okul eve yak\u0131n oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in ben tek ba\u015f\u0131ma okula gittim. Evimize \u00e7ok yak\u0131n oturan Ayten \u00f6\u011fretmenin s\u0131n\u0131f\u0131nda olaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrken bir ba\u015fka \u00f6\u011fretmenin s\u0131n\u0131f\u0131nda buldum kendimi. En arka s\u0131raya oturdum, okuma yazma bilen oldu\u011fum halde hoca sordu\u011funda biliyorum demedim. \u00d6\u011flen yemek saatinde eve gidip babama \u00f6\u011fretmenin de\u011fi\u015ftirilmesi i\u00e7in bir \u015fey yapmas\u0131n\u0131 rica ettim. Babam kendi i\u015fini kendin hallet, m\u00fcd\u00fcrle konu\u015f dedi ve ben Ayten \u00f6\u011fretmenin s\u0131n\u0131f\u0131na ge\u00e7tim. Bu davran\u0131\u015fla hayat\u0131m\u0131n y\u00f6n\u00fc farkl\u0131 oldu. <strong>Bug\u00fcn her \u015feyi \u00e7\u00f6zebilen biri olmam\u0131 7 ya\u015f\u0131nda sadece baban\u0131n g\u00fcc\u00fcyle yap\u0131labilecek olan\u0131 tek ba\u015f\u0131na yapabildi\u011fime ba\u011fl\u0131yorum.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c7ocu\u011funuza g\u00fcvenin<\/strong><br \/>\n7 ya\u015f\u0131nda bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun neler yapabilece\u011fini g\u00f6r\u00fcn, onlar kendileri i\u00e7in iyi olan\u0131 biliyorlar. G\u00fcven alanlar\u0131 kendilerinin oldu\u011fu alan olsun. Kontrol sizde olmak ko\u015fuluyla elbette\u2026<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n da bizim gibi ya\u015fam e\u011frileri oldu\u011funu biliyoruz. Do\u011fdu\u011fu andan itibaren \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n ne zaman b\u00fcy\u00fcyece\u011fini ne zaman okula ba\u015flayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcr\u00fcz. Her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn ile birlikte ne zaman bu kadar b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc, neredeyse okula ba\u015flayacak deriz. Ve g\u00fcn gelir \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z okula ba\u015flar. Okula ba\u015flamak \u00e7ocu\u011fun anne baba evinden, yani korundu\u011fu alandan, g\u00fcvenli alandan uzakla\u015fmas\u0131d\u0131r. \u00a0\u0130lk g\u00fcn \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":2624,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1093],"tags":[2523,2469,2522,2524],"class_list":["post-3177","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-egitim","tag-okula-baslama-yasi","tag-okula-baslamak","tag-okula-baslayan-cocuklar","tag-okula-gitmeyi-istemeyen-cocuklar"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/07\/sikilan-ogrenci.jpg?fit=626%2C417&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3177","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/17"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=3177"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3177\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2624"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=3177"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=3177"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=3177"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}