{"id":2987,"date":"2018-08-15T11:00:21","date_gmt":"2018-08-15T08:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=2987"},"modified":"2022-01-05T17:02:50","modified_gmt":"2022-01-05T14:02:50","slug":"nasil-kotu-anne-baba-olunur","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/nasil-kotu-anne-baba-olunur\/","title":{"rendered":"Nas\u0131l k\u00f6t\u00fc anne baba olunur?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_82_2 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-light-blue ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Yaz\u0131 \u0130\u00e7eri\u011fi<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-69e3f34e22527\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-69e3f34e22527\"  aria-label=\"A\u00e7\/Kapat\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/nasil-kotu-anne-baba-olunur\/#Kotu_anne_baba_nasil_olunur\" >K\u00f6t\u00fc anne baba nas\u0131l olunur.<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/nasil-kotu-anne-baba-olunur\/#Hissedin_ve_iyi_anne_baba_olmak_sizin_cocuklugunuzda\" >Hissedin ve iyi anne baba olmak sizin \u00e7ocuklu\u011funuzda<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>Ya\u015fanm\u0131\u015fl\u0131klar hayata bir \u015fekilde y\u00f6n verir, karakterinizi olu\u015fturur. \u00c7ocukluktan \u00f6\u011frenilmi\u015f davran\u0131\u015flar vard\u0131r. \u0130\u015fte tam da bu nokta de\u011fi\u015fmeniz gerekti\u011finin ve iyi anne baba olmak i\u00e7in kendinizi geli\u015ftirmeniz gerekti\u011finin vurgusunu farkl\u0131 bir bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131yla <strong>Anne Bebek Kul\u00fcb\u00fc<\/strong> yazar\u0131 <strong>Muazzez Dilek Ya\u015far<\/strong> fark\u0131ndal\u0131k i\u00e7in yazd\u0131.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Kotu_anne_baba_nasil_olunur\"><\/span><strong>K\u00f6t\u00fc anne baba nas\u0131l olunur.<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Hayata dair planlar yapars\u0131n\u0131z ya da plana dahil olmadan do\u011fa\u00e7lama ya\u015fars\u0131n\u0131z. Olmas\u0131 gereken hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131racak d\u00fczenlemeler yapmak ve bu do\u011frultuda\u00a0 plan olu\u015fturmakt\u0131r. Evlenip, \u00e7ocuk sahibi olmakta bir program ister \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuk sahibi olmak belli sa\u011fl\u0131k kontrollerinden ge\u00e7ip, v\u00fccudunuzu ve eksikleri tan\u0131y\u0131p ona g\u00f6re \u00f6nlem al\u0131p doktor kontrol\u00fcnde oldu\u011funda her \u015fey daha g\u00fcvenli olur.<\/p>\n<p>Ola ki hamile kald\u0131n\u0131z ve anne baba olacaks\u0131n\u0131z. \u00d6yleyse iyiyi herkes bilir de bazen ne k\u00f6t\u00fc bilmeyebilir. \u00d6yleyse <strong>\u2018nas\u0131l k\u00f6t\u00fc anne baba olunur&#8217;<\/strong> bilmeniz gerekir.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d6ncelikle hamileyken yedi\u011finize dikkat etmenize gerek yok \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc obez ya da d\u00fc\u015f\u00fck kilolu geli\u015fimi geride bir bebek sahibi olursunuz. Bu sizin ne kadar \u00f6nemli bir d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn isterseniz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bebe\u011finiz d\u00fcnyaya geldi\u011finde b\u0131rak\u0131n uyusun \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc yeni do\u011fan sar\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 olur<\/strong>. Uzun bir tedavi s\u00fcrecinden ge\u00e7er. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fcc\u00fck bedeni da buna direnir de\u011fil mi? Doktorlar size en fazla 2 saatte bir emzirin, uyuyorsa uyand\u0131r\u0131n der. Hangisi do\u011fru olan kar\u015f\u0131la\u015ft\u0131rmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bebe\u011finiz a\u011flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda hemen kuca\u011f\u0131n\u0131za almay\u0131n<\/strong> mesela alt\u0131n\u0131 temizlemek gerekti\u011finde erteleyip bir kahve i\u00e7in \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc pi\u015fik olursa nas\u0131lsa pi\u015fik kremi var s\u00fcrersiniz. Peki siz o halde hi\u00e7 bekleyebilir misiniz?<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sonra ek g\u0131da s\u00fcrecine ba\u015flars\u0131n\u0131z.<\/strong> Hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeden yediklerinizden verebilirsiniz. Tuz ve \u015fekerin zarar\u0131 vard\u0131r ama sizin i\u00e7in \u00f6nemi karar vermelisiniz. Bal alerji yapar ve 1 ya\u015f\u0131na kadar verilmez a siz deneyebilirsiniz. Alerji olursa doktora gider ila\u00e7 takviyesi yapars\u0131n\u0131z. Her ko\u015fulda ila\u00e7 kullanmak sizin i\u00e7in sak\u0131ncal\u0131 olmasa gerekir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bebe\u011finiz emeklemeye ba\u015flad\u0131\u011f\u0131nda yerdeki tozu, pisli\u011fi, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u015feyleri temizlemeyebilirsiniz.<\/strong> Bo\u011faz\u0131na ka\u00e7arsa nefes problemi ya\u015far ve ilk yard\u0131m bilginizde yoksa o panikle olmad\u0131k hatalar yapabilirsiniz<\/p>\n<p><strong>Yava\u015f yava\u015f \u00e7ocu\u011funuz y\u00fcr\u00fcmeye ba\u015flar ve \u00e7ekmece, dolap ve sivri k\u00f6\u015feleri kontrol alt\u0131na alman\u0131za gerek yok \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuk d\u00fc\u015fe kalka b\u00fcy\u00fcr de\u011fil mi?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Her \u00e7ocuk gibi yaramazl\u0131klar yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda hemen k\u0131z ba\u011f\u0131r ve tehdit et belki sonra yapmaz. Tabi anne babas\u0131n\u0131 sevmek yerine korkar ve \u00fcrkek bir \u00e7ocuk olarak \u00f6zg\u00fcven problemi ya\u015far. Sizin i\u00e7in hi\u00e7 sorun de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Lakaplar takabilirsiniz. Size de lakap takanlar vard\u0131r ve sizin de ho\u015funuza gidiyordur.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Al\u0131\u015fveri\u015fe \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda ve \u00e7ocu\u011funuz i\u00e7in bir \u015feyler ald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zda onun fikrini alman\u0131za da gerek yok \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc sizin kararlar\u0131n\u0131z daha \u00f6nemli \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc sizin yerinize de anneniz baban\u0131z karar veriyor olsa ne g\u00fczel olurdu de\u011fil mi? <strong>\u00c7ocu\u011funuz kendi karar\u0131n\u0131 verse istedi\u011fi \u015feyi s\u00f6ylese \u00f6z g\u00fcveni geli\u015fecek, kendini de\u011ferli hissedecek olmas\u0131 o kadar da \u00f6nemli de\u011fil, de\u011fil mi?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>K\u00f6t\u00fc anne baba olma ad\u0131na her \u015fey yapt\u0131n\u0131z de\u011fil mi? Peki \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun son durumu nedir?<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Hissedin_ve_iyi_anne_baba_olmak_sizin_cocuklugunuzda\"><\/span><strong>Hissedin ve iyi anne baba olmak sizin \u00e7ocuklu\u011funuzda<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Yazarken bile i\u00e7im c\u0131z etti! L\u00fctfen \u00e7ocuk sahibi olmak istedi\u011finizde \u00f6nce d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce de bunu ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirin ve kendinizi hayal edin. En ba\u015ftan planlamalar, ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar yap\u0131n. <strong>\u00c7ocuk sahibi olmak \u00f6zen ister, sab\u0131r ister, sevgi ister. Size emanet olan o minik mucizeyi koruyun ve gelecekte iyi bir insan olmas\u0131 y\u00f6n\u00fcnde yeti\u015ftirin.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Yaz\u0131n\u0131n sonuna gelirken k\u00f6t\u00fc anne baba olmaktan bahsetmi\u015fken m\u00fckemmel anne baba olmak ad\u0131na da yap\u0131lan hatalara d\u00fc\u015fmeyin.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Y\u00fcre\u011finiz sevgi ve merhamet dolu olsun. \u00c7ocuklar sevildik\u00e7e \u015fenlenir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>\u0130yi anne ve baba olmak i\u00e7in sizler neler yapt\u0131n\u0131z?<\/strong> Dilerseniz forum sayfam\u0131zda tecr\u00fcbeli annelerimizden destek alabilirsiniz! Siz de akl\u0131n\u0131za tak\u0131lanlar\u0131, merak ettiklerinizi veya \u00f6\u011frenmek istediklerinizi bize <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/forum.annebebekkulubu.com\/\">Forum Anne Bebek Kul\u00fcb\u00fc<\/a><\/strong> \u00fczerinden yazabilirsiniz. <strong>Kad\u0131nlar olarak birlikte g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcy\u00fcz!<\/strong>\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nas\u0131l k\u00f6t\u00fc anne baba olunur? \u0130yi anne baba olmak nelere dikkat etmek gerekir? Anne baba olmak ne demektir? \u00c7ocuklara nas\u0131l davranmal\u0131y\u0131z? Anne baba olarak \u00c7ocuklara nas\u0131l davranmal\u0131y\u0131z?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":816,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[1898,1846,398,2372,1399,2371,2370],"class_list":{"0":"post-2987","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aile","8":"tag-anne-baba","9":"tag-anne-baba-iliskisi","10":"tag-anne-baba-olmak","11":"tag-anne-baba-sevgisi","12":"tag-iyi-anne-baba-olmak","13":"tag-kotu-anne-baba-davranislari","14":"tag-kotu-anne-baba-olmak"},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/cocuk-aile-oyun.jpg?fit=626%2C417&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2987","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2987"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2987\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/816"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2987"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2987"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2987"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}