{"id":2857,"date":"2018-08-07T10:32:24","date_gmt":"2018-08-07T07:32:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=2857"},"modified":"2018-08-07T10:32:24","modified_gmt":"2018-08-07T07:32:24","slug":"proje-cocuklar","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/proje-cocuklar\/","title":{"rendered":"Proje \u00e7ocuklar"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Son d\u00f6nemlerde \u00e7ok kullan\u0131lan bir kavram olarak \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za<strong> \u201cproje \u00e7ocuklar\u201d.<\/strong> Ad\u0131ndan da anla\u015f\u0131laca\u011f\u0131 \u00fczere bu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n atacaklar\u0131 her ad\u0131m anne ve babalar taraf\u0131ndan belirleniyor. \u00c7ocuk do\u011fdu\u011fu andan itibaren anne baba nerede e\u011fitim alaca\u011f\u0131na, hangi okulda okuyaca\u011f\u0131na hangi b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc ve mesle\u011fi se\u00e7ece\u011fine kadar her \u015feyi planl\u0131yor. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n 22 y\u0131l sonraki ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 yani kendi istedi\u011fi durumun ger\u00e7ekle\u015fmesini hayal eden anne, \u00e7evresinden takdir alaca\u011f\u0131 g\u00fcnleri d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeye ba\u015fl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">8-9 ya\u015flar\u0131ndan itibaren \u00e7ocuklar s\u0131navlara haz\u0131rlanmaya ba\u015fl\u0131yor. Ayn\u0131 zamanda anne de s\u0131nava haz\u0131rlan\u0131yor gibi bir durum olu\u015fuyor. Anne sosyal hayat\u0131 s\u0131f\u0131rl\u0131yor \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocu\u011funun ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131 annenin ya\u015fam amac\u0131na d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcyor. \u00dcniversite s\u0131nav\u0131na da ailecek haz\u0131rlan\u0131l\u0131yor. Meslek se\u00e7me zaman\u0131 geliyor. Anne bu sefer de gurur duyulacak bir meslek se\u00e7iyor. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocuk s\u0131navda ba\u015faramay\u0131nca anne peri\u015fan oluyor ve ayn\u0131 s\u00fcre\u00e7 yeniden ba\u015fl\u0131yor.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">S\u0131nav d\u00f6neminde \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in yap\u0131lacak en do\u011fru eylem yol g\u00f6sterici olmakt\u0131r, yolu g\u00f6steren de\u011fil. Yolu belirlemenin nas\u0131l yap\u0131laca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6stermektir. \u0130stedi\u011fine ula\u015famayan \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz belki bir sonraki s\u0131navda ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olacak, zirveye \u00e7\u0131kacak bir yola girecektir. Yolu bilmekle yolu y\u00fcr\u00fcmek farkl\u0131d\u0131r. Yolu y\u00fcr\u00fcyecek olan biz de\u011filiz, \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz\u2026<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bu tarz yeti\u015fen \u00e7ocuklar ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olamazsa annesinin onu sevmeyece\u011fini, onaylamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyor ve kendini hep ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmak zorunda hissediyor. Bilgi yar\u0131\u015fmas\u0131na kat\u0131lmas\u0131 i\u00e7in se\u00e7ilen \u00e7ocu\u011fa anne ya ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olursan diye engel koyuyor. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck bir ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131zl\u0131k bile onu y\u0131k\u0131yorsa yeti\u015fkin d\u00f6nemde anne otoritesinin yerini, patronu, e\u015fi alacak. Bir g\u00fcn bir deneyiminde ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131z olunca g\u00f6sterdi\u011fi tepkide bu ki\u015fi ben de\u011filim; \u201cannem\u201d diyecek.\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocu\u011fun yeteneklerini desteklemek, ortaya \u00e7\u0131karmak, mutlu oldu\u011fu \u015feyi yapmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamak ebeveynin g\u00f6revidir. Tan\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131m bir annenin \u00e7ocu\u011fu ile ili\u015fkisinde g\u00f6zlemledi\u011fim g\u00fczel bir sonu\u00e7 tamamen bu do\u011frultuda davran\u0131\u015fla ortaya \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131. Anne \u00e7ocu\u011fu k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015f\u0131ndan itibaren jimnastik, y\u00fczme, tenis, dans gibi ilgisini \u00e7ekece\u011fi aktivitelere g\u00f6t\u00fcrd\u00fc. Her hafta sonu \u00e7ocu\u011fa y\u00f6nelik programlar yap\u0131ld\u0131. \u00c7ocuk keman \u00e7almak istiyorum dedi ve \u015fu an keman d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda piyano ve gitar da \u00e7al\u0131yor. Ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 ve \u00e7ok mutlu. Bu \u00e7ocu\u011fun b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinin hayali keman \u00e7almas\u0131 de\u011fildi. Bug\u00fcn keman \u00e7ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in mutlu olan \u00e7ocukla ilgili hayaller y\u0131k\u0131ld\u0131.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">H\u0131rs yarat\u0131c\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 desteklerse olumlu sonu\u00e7 verir, ancak bizlerin h\u0131rs\u0131 ge\u00e7mi\u015fte ula\u015famad\u0131klar\u0131m\u0131z nedeniyle \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131za yans\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman olumlu d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f olmuyor.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocu\u011fumuzu sahiplenip, onun hayat\u0131n\u0131 \u015fekillendirmek, yol haritas\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturmak yap\u0131lacak hatalardan belki de en b\u00fcy\u00fc\u011f\u00fc. Bir birey olarak \u00e7ocu\u011fumuza de\u011fer verdi\u011fimiz zaman her \u015fey \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcmlenecek. Unutmay\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fumuz bizim kopyam\u0131z de\u011fil.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Son d\u00f6nemlerde \u00e7ok kullan\u0131lan bir kavram olarak \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yor kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u201cproje \u00e7ocuklar\u201d. Ad\u0131ndan da anla\u015f\u0131laca\u011f\u0131 \u00fczere bu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n atacaklar\u0131 her ad\u0131m anne ve babalar taraf\u0131ndan belirleniyor. \u00c7ocuk do\u011fdu\u011fu andan itibaren anne baba nerede e\u011fitim alaca\u011f\u0131na, hangi okulda okuyaca\u011f\u0131na hangi b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fc ve mesle\u011fi se\u00e7ece\u011fine kadar her \u015feyi planl\u0131yor. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n 22 y\u0131l sonraki ba\u015far\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 yani kendi istedi\u011fi durumun [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":17,"featured_media":1645,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[23,540,2290],"class_list":{"0":"post-2857","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-cocuk","8":"tag-cocuk","9":"tag-cocuk-yetistirmek","10":"tag-proje-cocuklar"},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/cocuk-ve-yaraticilik.jpg?fit=625%2C417&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2857","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/17"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2857"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2857\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1645"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2857"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2857"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2857"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}