{"id":2815,"date":"2018-07-27T10:24:05","date_gmt":"2018-07-27T07:24:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=2815"},"modified":"2018-07-27T10:24:05","modified_gmt":"2018-07-27T07:24:05","slug":"hayatinizi-yeniden-planlayin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/hayatinizi-yeniden-planlayin\/","title":{"rendered":"Hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 yeniden planlay\u0131n!"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span id=\"ctl00_ctl14_ctl00_lblHeaderText1\">Zaman t\u00fcnelinde s\u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcrken s\u0131ms\u0131k\u0131 tuttuklar\u0131m\u0131z, tutunduklar\u0131m\u0131z&#8230;<\/span> Ya\u015famaya dair teslimiyet\u00e7i, kaderci tutumlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck oranda bir kenara b\u0131rakt\u0131k. Daha organize olmak elbette g\u00fczel. \u00d6zellikle belli konularda&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Yeniden ba\u015flamak i\u00e7in asla ge\u00e7 de\u011fil!..<\/strong><br \/>\nYirmilerin sonunda y\u00fcz\u00fck, otuzlar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda terfi ve ilk bebek, k\u0131rklarda kendi i\u015fini kurmak&#8230; Bir kad\u0131n\u0131n ya\u015fam i\u00e7in eylem plan\u0131 listesi b\u00f6ylece uzay\u0131p gidiyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc beklentilerimiz var. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc mutlu olmak istiyoruz. Ve salt duygusal de\u011fil, ak\u0131lc\u0131 se\u00e7imler yapman\u0131n de\u011ferini de kavram\u0131\u015f durumday\u0131z. Yine de&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Baz\u0131 maddeler \u015fu veya bu sebeple liste d\u0131\u015f\u0131 kalabiliyor. Uzmanlar, hi\u00e7bir \u015feyin y\u00fczde y\u00fcz planlanamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7izerek listede korunmas\u0131 gereken 5 maddeyi \u00f6ne \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131yor. Ve asl\u0131nda bunlar, di\u011fer planlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n seyrinin yap\u0131ta\u015flar\u0131&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong>1. \u0130lkelerinize ve de\u011ferlerinize d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcm at\u0131n.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>\u00d6zellikle a\u015fk hayat\u0131nda yaln\u0131z kalma kayg\u0131s\u0131 ve evlenmeme korkusuyla biriyle, &#8220;o do\u011fru ki\u015fiyle&#8221; tan\u0131\u015fmak i\u00e7in farkl\u0131 se\u00e7enekleri de deniyoruz. Ancak evlenmek u\u011fruna yanl\u0131\u015f ki\u015filerle ba\u011f kurmak, k\u00f6rle\u015fmek tehlikesi ta\u015f\u0131yor. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla \u00f6z benli\u011fimizden sapma riski mevcut bu noktada.<\/p>\n<p><strong>2. Bir \u00e7ocu\u011funuz olsun.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Ya\u015famda hakiki anlamda birka\u00e7 kilometre ta\u015f\u0131 varsa, bir tanesi de \u00e7ocuk sahibi olmak. \u0130mkanlar\u0131n\u0131z dahilindeyse (madden ve sa\u011fl\u0131k ko\u015fullar\u0131) fazla d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmeyin. Ancak bu konuda zamanlamada da a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 dakik, planc\u0131 olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmay\u0131n. Rahat olun.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3. Kariyer merdivenini t\u0131rmanmaya devam&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bir\u00e7ok ki\u015fi \u00e7ocuk sahibi oldu\u011funda veya benzer nedenlerle kariyerinden vazge\u00e7me noktas\u0131na gelebiliyor. Ancak \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcn\u00fc, ritmini benimsemi\u015f biri i\u00e7in bu &#8220;erken emeklilik&#8221; karar\u0131 sonras\u0131nda pek de iyi sonu\u00e7lar do\u011furmaz. Ani kararlar almay\u0131n. Ba\u015fka planlar\u0131n\u0131z varsa ve haz\u0131rl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131z ba\u015flad\u0131ysa bir sorun yok. Ancak sadece bezginlik nedeniyle vazge\u00e7mek yok.<\/p>\n<p><strong>4. Ya\u015fama tutkusunu ke\u015fif&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bu devirde herkes hayat\u0131nda &#8220;anlam&#8221; istiyor. Bunda bir yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131k yok. Sorun \u015fu ki o anlam\u0131 hemen, \u015fimdi istiyorlar! H\u0131zl\u0131ca bulamad\u0131klar\u0131nda da vazge\u00e7ebiliyorlar. \u0130\u015fte bu \u00e7ok yanl\u0131\u015f bir hamle. Kendinize ve hayat\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n do\u011fal ak\u0131\u015f\u0131na bu kadar bask\u0131 yapmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Anlam, bazen sand\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131zda daha yak\u0131n\u0131m\u0131zda seyreder&#8230;<\/p>\n<p><strong> 5. Yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 se\u00e7in, bazen&#8230;<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Bo\u015fanmak, ayr\u0131l\u0131k ya\u015famak, i\u015fsiz kalmak&#8230; Yaln\u0131zl\u0131k d\u00f6nemleri olur insan\u0131n. Ancak uzamas\u0131 k\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 alarm demek. Aksini d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnelim: Ne olursa olsun yaln\u0131z kalamamak, derin bir yaln\u0131zl\u0131k korkusu. \u0130kisi de olmaz. Bir orta yol bulmak laz\u0131m. Yaln\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 konforlu bir se\u00e7enek haline getirmek esas mesele&#8230; \u0130nsan\u0131n &#8216;kendini&#8217; ya\u015famas\u0131 da g\u00fczeldir&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Zaman t\u00fcnelinde s\u00fcz\u00fcl\u00fcrken s\u0131ms\u0131k\u0131 tuttuklar\u0131m\u0131z, tutunduklar\u0131m\u0131z&#8230; Ya\u015famaya dair teslimiyet\u00e7i, kaderci tutumlar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck oranda bir kenara b\u0131rakt\u0131k. Daha organize olmak elbette g\u00fczel. \u00d6zellikle belli konularda&#8230;. Yeniden ba\u015flamak i\u00e7in asla ge\u00e7 de\u011fil!.. Yirmilerin sonunda y\u00fcz\u00fck, otuzlar\u0131n ba\u015f\u0131nda terfi ve ilk bebek, k\u0131rklarda kendi i\u015fini kurmak&#8230; Bir kad\u0131n\u0131n ya\u015fam i\u00e7in eylem plan\u0131 listesi b\u00f6ylece uzay\u0131p gidiyor. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc beklentilerimiz [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":80,"featured_media":1078,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1111],"tags":[2249,2246,2248,2247,2250],"class_list":{"0":"post-2815","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-yasam","8":"tag-gunluk-hayat-planlamasi","9":"tag-hayata-yeniden-baslamak","10":"tag-hayati-planlamak","11":"tag-yeni-hayat","12":"tag-zamani-planlamak"},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/mutlu-ozgur-guzel-kadin.jpg?fit=626%2C428&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2815","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/80"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2815"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2815\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1078"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2815"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2815"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2815"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}