{"id":2464,"date":"2018-06-20T10:45:20","date_gmt":"2018-06-20T07:45:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=2464"},"modified":"2018-06-23T23:44:11","modified_gmt":"2018-06-23T20:44:11","slug":"bebeklere-bagirmanin-zararlari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/bebeklere-bagirmanin-zararlari\/","title":{"rendered":"Bebeklere ba\u011f\u0131rman\u0131n zararlar\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Pek \u00e7o\u011funuz <strong>bebe\u011fe\/\u00e7ocu\u011fa ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r m\u0131?<\/strong> diyebilirsiniz. Ama ne yaz\u0131k ki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na ba\u011f\u0131ran hatta \u00e7ocu\u011funa ba\u011f\u0131rmakla kalmay\u0131p k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc kelimeler kullanan <strong>anne-babalar<\/strong> var. Bug\u00fcn bebeklere ve \u00e7ocuklara kar\u015f\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n onlar\u0131 nas\u0131l etkiledi\u011fini anlataca\u011f\u0131m. <strong>Bebeklere ba\u011f\u0131rman\u0131n zararlar\u0131<\/strong> nelerdir? \u00c7ocuklara neden ba\u011f\u0131rmamal\u0131y\u0131z? Gelin birlikte ba\u011f\u0131rman\u0131n zararlar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011ferlendirelim&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Aile i\u00e7inde s\u00fck\u00fbneti sa\u011flayamam\u0131\u015f, kendi i\u00e7inde de de birbirine ba\u011f\u0131ran ebeveynler bunu \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 da devam ettirip bebekleri, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 nas\u0131l etkilenir diye ya d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnm\u00fcyorlar ya da onlar i\u00e7in \u00f6yle normal bir \u015fey ki fark\u0131nda dahi de\u011filler. Ne yaz\u0131k ki <strong>bir kere dahi olsa ba\u011f\u0131rmaya, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc kelimelere maruz kalan bebek ya da \u00e7ocukta onar\u0131lmas\u0131 uzun s\u00fcren izler b\u0131rak\u0131yor.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Bebe\u011fe\/\u00e7ocu\u011fa ba\u011f\u0131rmak onlar\u0131 korkutur.<\/strong> Olaylara verdi\u011finiz tepkiler \u00e7ocuklarda peki\u015ftirme g\u00f6revi g\u00f6r\u00fcr. Yemek yemedi\u011fi i\u00e7in ba\u011f\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funuz, bir sonraki yemek saatinde yine ba\u011f\u0131raca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek ona g\u00f6re gard\u0131n\u0131 al\u0131r. Oyuncaklar\u0131n\u0131 toplamad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in evi da\u011f\u0131tt\u0131 i\u00e7in ba\u011f\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z<strong> \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131z zamanla ba\u011f\u0131rmaya tepki olarak size ba\u011f\u0131rabilir.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c7ok ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131yor, a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 sinirleniyorsan\u0131z sizden korkabilir ve kendini sizinle g\u00fcvende hissetmeyebilir.<\/strong> Ebeveyn olarak \u00e7ocu\u011funuz kendini sizin yan\u0131n\u0131zda g\u00fcvende hissetmiyorsa nerde hissedebilir. Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla hayata kar\u015f\u0131 bir g\u00fcven problemi ya\u015fayabilir. Okul hayat\u0131nda veya arkada\u015f \u00e7evresinde \u00f6zg\u00fcven eksikli\u011fi ya\u015fayabilir. Bildi\u011fi yapabilece\u011fi konularda kendisine ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131laca\u011f\u0131, g\u00fcl\u00fcnece\u011fi kayg\u0131s\u0131 olu\u015fabilir. Sosyal ya\u015fam\u0131ndaki ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131 bu problemlerin kayna\u011f\u0131 ba\u011f\u0131ran anne babaya sahip olmakt\u0131r. Ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131lan \u00e7ocuklarda problemin neticesinde durum ileri boyuttaysa kekemeli\u011fe, konu\u015furken duraksamaya kadar devam eder.<\/p>\n<p>Dolay\u0131s\u0131yla<strong> anne baba<\/strong> olarak problem gibi g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fcz olaylar\u0131 ya\u015farken \u00e7ocu\u011funuza kar\u015f\u0131 yapman\u0131z gerekenler:<br \/>\n1. Sab\u0131rl\u0131 olun ve derin nefes al\u0131n.<br \/>\n2. Problem kayna\u011f\u0131 neyse k\u0131sa bir s\u00fcre uzakla\u015f\u0131n.<br \/>\n3. Anne baba olarak yer de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fi yap\u0131n.<br \/>\n4. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzla sakin anla\u015f\u0131l\u0131r konu\u015fmalar yap\u0131n.<br \/>\n5. \u00c7ocu\u011funuza sar\u0131l\u0131n ve g\u00f6z temas\u0131 kurun.<br \/>\n6. \u0130lk seferde ve tekrarlar da ayn\u0131 s\u00fck\u00fbneti koruyun.<br \/>\n7. Ba\u011f\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z da \u00e7ocu\u011funuzda olu\u015facak hasarlar\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnerek geri ad\u0131m at\u0131n.<br \/>\n8. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzda mekan de\u011fi\u015fikli\u011fi yap\u0131n.<br \/>\n9. Olaylara kar\u015f\u0131 tepkinizi biriktirmeyin.<br \/>\n10. Kar\u015f\u0131n\u0131zda \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun oldu\u011funu ve ya\u015f\u0131na g\u00f6re davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 unutmay\u0131n.<br \/>\n11. Sizi k\u0131zd\u0131ran ba\u011f\u0131rmaya sevk eden ne ise o an ders vermeye kalkmay\u0131n.<br \/>\n12. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzla empati kurun.<br \/>\n13. Ailenize sayg\u0131l\u0131 ve sesiniz al\u00e7ak tonda ayarlayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131za s\u00f6z verin<br \/>\n14. Bir daha ba\u011f\u0131rmayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131za ve s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fcz\u00fc tutaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131za dair s\u00f6z verin.<br \/>\n15. G\u00fcvenini kazan\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>Ses tonunun y\u00fckselmedi\u011fi, sakinli\u011fin ve s\u00fck\u00fbnetin hakim oldu\u011fu evlerde mevcuttur. Hayal gibi gelmesin. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ya\u015f\u0131na g\u00f6re neler yapabilece\u011fi ve neyi ne kadar alg\u0131lad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmelisiniz. <strong>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzla empati kurdu\u011funuzda onu daha iyi anlayabilir olaylara kar\u015f\u0131 tepkinizi minimuma indirebilirsiniz.<\/strong> G\u00fcndelik hayat\u0131n s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011funuza yans\u0131tmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Sabr\u0131n\u0131z\u0131n t\u00fcketti\u011fini hissetti\u011finiz anda e\u015finizden yard\u0131m istemelisiniz k\u0131sa bir mola vermelisiniz.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c7ocu\u011funuza ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131rken kendinizi onun g\u00f6z\u00fcnden hayal etmeyi deneyin<\/strong>. \u00c7ocu\u011funuzdan hem fiziken hem de ya\u015f olarak b\u00fcy\u00fck ebeveynisiniz, hayata g\u00f6zlerini a\u00e7t\u0131\u011f\u0131 ilk andan beri yan\u0131nda olan koruyucu meleklerisiniz. Sizin \u00e7ocu\u011funuza ba\u011f\u0131rman\u0131z en ba\u015fta g\u00fcven problemi yapacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c7ocu\u011funuza sar\u0131l\u0131n, sevin.<\/strong> O sizin g\u00fcndelik hayatta ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z problemlerden bir haber ve keyifsiz oldu\u011funuzu anlamayacak kadar k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckler ve hi\u00e7 bir \u015fey i\u00e7in ge\u00e7 de\u011fil. \u00c7ocuklar sand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131zdan daha b\u00fcy\u00fck y\u00fcre\u011fe sahiptir ve size hatalar\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 d\u00fczeltmek i\u00e7in \u015fans verir.<\/p>\n<p>Sab\u0131rl\u0131 ve sevgi dolu bir bi\u00e7imde yumu\u015fak ses tonuyla \u00e7ocu\u011funuza k\u0131sa ve net c\u00fcmleler kullanarak ya\u015f\u0131na g\u00f6re olan her \u015feyi anlatabilirsiniz. <strong>Sevgi dolu ve \u00f6zg\u00fcvenli \u00e7ocuklar yeti\u015ftirmeniz dile\u011fiyle&#8230;.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Pek \u00e7o\u011funuz bebe\u011fe\/\u00e7ocu\u011fa ba\u011f\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r m\u0131? diyebilirsiniz. Ama ne yaz\u0131k ki \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na ba\u011f\u0131ran hatta \u00e7ocu\u011funa ba\u011f\u0131rmakla kalmay\u0131p k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr\u00fcc\u00fc kelimeler kullanan anne-babalar var. Bug\u00fcn bebeklere ve \u00e7ocuklara kar\u015f\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n onlar\u0131 nas\u0131l etkiledi\u011fini anlataca\u011f\u0131m. Bebeklere ba\u011f\u0131rman\u0131n zararlar\u0131 nelerdir? \u00c7ocuklara neden ba\u011f\u0131rmamal\u0131y\u0131z? Gelin birlikte ba\u011f\u0131rman\u0131n zararlar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011ferlendirelim&#8230; Aile i\u00e7inde s\u00fck\u00fbneti sa\u011flayamam\u0131\u015f, kendi i\u00e7inde de de birbirine ba\u011f\u0131ran ebeveynler [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":1657,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[1898,139,305,1894,1897,1895,1896,342],"class_list":{"0":"post-2464","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-bebek","8":"tag-anne-baba","9":"tag-anne-bebek","10":"tag-anne-ve-bebek","11":"tag-bebege-bagirmanin-zararlari","12":"tag-bebegime-bagirmak-istemiyorum","13":"tag-bebeklere-bagirmanin-zararlari","14":"tag-cocuklara-bagirmanin-zararlari","15":"tag-ofke-kontrolu"},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/bosanma-karari.jpg?fit=626%2C412&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2464","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2464"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2464\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1657"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2464"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2464"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2464"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}