{"id":2377,"date":"2018-06-17T12:37:22","date_gmt":"2018-06-17T09:37:22","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=2377"},"modified":"2018-06-17T12:37:22","modified_gmt":"2018-06-17T09:37:22","slug":"cocugunuza-vakit-ayirin","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/cocugunuza-vakit-ayirin\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocu\u011funuza vakit ay\u0131r\u0131n"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-family: Verdana; font-size: small;\">Uzmanlar, ebeveynlerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ile ge\u00e7irdi\u011fi vaktin, onun \u00f6zg\u00fcven geli\u015fimi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funa dikkat \u00e7ekerken, bilin\u00e7 d\u0131\u015f\u0131na, &#8216;Ben sana de\u011fer veriyorum, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc vakit ay\u0131r\u0131yorum&#8217; mesaj\u0131 verildi\u011fini belirtiyor. Varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile yoklu\u011fu hesaba kat\u0131lmayan \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendine olan g\u00fcveninin negatif etkilendi\u011fini vurgulayan uzmanlar, \u00f6zellikle kalabal\u0131k ailelerde, her \u00e7ocu\u011fa e\u015fit \u015fekilde vakit ayr\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funun alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7iziyor. \u0130\u015fte <strong>\u00e7ocu\u011fa vakit ay\u0131rman\u0131n \u00f6nemi<\/strong> ve tavsiyelerimiz:<\/p>\n<p>Uzmanlar, \u00e7ocuk ile ge\u00e7irilen zaman\u0131n uzunlu\u011fu de\u011fil, kalitesinin \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funu vurgulayarak, <strong>&#8220;G\u00fcnl\u00fck hayat ak\u0131\u015f\u0131 i\u00e7erisinde kendinize bir program yap\u0131p, yemek yemeye, TV izlemeye, internette vakit ge\u00e7irmeye, uyumaya ve buna benzer bir \u00e7ok yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z g\u00fcnl\u00fck i\u015fler yan\u0131nda \u00e7ocu\u011funuza vakit ay\u0131rmay\u0131 unutmay\u0131n\u0131z. Her ya\u015f grubuna g\u00f6re hem anne hem baba olarak ay\u0131raca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z vakit, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun mutlulu\u011funu sa\u011flayacak ve onun normal psikolojik geli\u015fimine katk\u0131da bulunacakt\u0131r. Aksi takdirde \u00e7ocu\u011funuz, sizden davran\u0131\u015f problemleri ile vakit isteyecek ve onunla zoraki ilgilenmek zorunda kalacaks\u0131n\u0131z&#8221;<\/strong> uyar\u0131s\u0131nda bulunuyor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun ger\u00e7ek anlamda yan\u0131nda olun<\/strong><br \/>\nEbeveynlerin,<strong> &#8216;\u00e7ocuk yan\u0131m\u0131zda iken vakit ay\u0131rm\u0131\u015f oluyoruz&#8217;<\/strong> \u015feklindeki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerinin yanl\u0131\u015fl\u0131\u011f\u0131na da temas eden uzmanlar, &#8220;Vakit ay\u0131rmak derken, &#8216;sadece&#8217; \u00e7ocu\u011funuz i\u00e7in ay\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z vakittir. TV izlerken veya kendi i\u015finizi yaparken \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun yan\u0131n\u0131zda bulunmas\u0131, elbette ki tamamen yaln\u0131z kalmas\u0131ndan iyi olmakla birlikte yeterli de\u011fildir&#8221; diyorlar.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen tam tersi olarak, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n, anne babalar\u0131n\u0131n kendilerine \u00e7ok vakit ay\u0131rmalar\u0131 sebebiyle bunald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ebeveynlerine daha kolay kar\u015f\u0131 geldi\u011fine dikkat \u00e7eken uzmanlar, &#8220;Bu konuyu \u00e7ok abart\u0131p hayat\u0131n ve ailenin &#8216;tek g\u00fcndemini&#8217; \u00e7ocuk veya \u00e7ocuklar yapmamak \u00f6nemlidir. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n kendi ba\u015f\u0131na da ge\u00e7irdikleri zaman\u0131n onlar\u0131n geli\u015fiminde \u00f6nemli katk\u0131lar\u0131 vard\u0131r. Bu konuda denge \u00f6nemlidir&#8221; g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fc savunuyorlar.<\/p>\n<p>Uzmanlar ayr\u0131ca, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n, onlara sa\u011flanan maddi imkanlar ile ge\u00e7ici mutluluklar sa\u011flayabileceklerini, as\u0131l mutlulu\u011fun ise, \u00e7ocuk i\u00e7in onu sevenler ile belli zaman dilimlerinde bir arada bulunmak oldu\u011funu hat\u0131rlat\u0131yor.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Uzmanlar, ebeveynlerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 ile ge\u00e7irdi\u011fi vaktin, onun \u00f6zg\u00fcven geli\u015fimi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funa dikkat \u00e7ekerken, bilin\u00e7 d\u0131\u015f\u0131na, &#8216;Ben sana de\u011fer veriyorum, \u00e7\u00fcnk\u00fc vakit ay\u0131r\u0131yorum&#8217; mesaj\u0131 verildi\u011fini belirtiyor. Varl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile yoklu\u011fu hesaba kat\u0131lmayan \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendine olan g\u00fcveninin negatif etkilendi\u011fini vurgulayan uzmanlar, \u00f6zellikle kalabal\u0131k ailelerde, her \u00e7ocu\u011fa e\u015fit \u015fekilde vakit ayr\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6nemli oldu\u011funun alt\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7iziyor. \u0130\u015fte \u00e7ocu\u011fa [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":80,"featured_media":799,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[1859,1860,540,1861],"class_list":{"0":"post-2377","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-cocuk","8":"tag-cocuga-vakit-ayirmak","9":"tag-cocuga-vakit-ayirmanin-onemi","10":"tag-cocuk-yetistirmek","11":"tag-cocukla-zaman-gecirmek"},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/anne-ve-kiz-cocuk.jpg?fit=626%2C417&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2377","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/80"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2377"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2377\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/799"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2377"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2377"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2377"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}