{"id":2345,"date":"2018-06-17T09:00:16","date_gmt":"2018-06-17T06:00:16","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=2345"},"modified":"2018-06-14T14:05:54","modified_gmt":"2018-06-14T11:05:54","slug":"babanin-rolunde-annenin-onemi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/babanin-rolunde-annenin-onemi\/","title":{"rendered":"Baban\u0131n rol\u00fcnde annenin \u00f6nemi"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>En g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc dayana\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, ilk ad\u0131m\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 atarken elinden tuttu\u011fumuz, her zaman g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc hissetti\u011fimiz ki\u015fidir babalar\u0131m\u0131z\u2026 \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n geli\u015fiminde ise bir anne kadar etkilidir. Peki <strong>\u00e7ocuk ile baba ili\u015fkisinde annenin rol\u00fcn\u00fc hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fcz m\u00fc?<\/strong> Annenin \u00e7ocukla ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131 hamileli\u011fi hissetti\u011fi anda ba\u015flar. Baba ise o d\u00f6nemde \u00e7ocuk sahibi olma konusunda heyecan doludur ve anneye destek olmak i\u00e7in elinden geleni yapar.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Baba-\u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisini g\u00fc\u00e7lendiren ya da azaltan annedir.<\/strong> Annenin koruma i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fcs\u00fc bazen o kadar g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcd\u00fcr ki, baban\u0131n \u00e7ocukla ileti\u015fiminde fark\u0131nda olmadan k\u0131s\u0131tlay\u0131c\u0131 fakt\u00f6r olabilir. Bebeklik d\u00f6neminde bebe\u011fe bak\u0131m annenin sorumlulu\u011funda gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de, baban\u0131n bebekle ilgili temizlik ve\u00a0bak\u0131m gibi konularda deste\u011fi sonraki y\u0131llarda ileti\u015fimi g\u00fc\u00e7lendirecektir.<strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Bazen baba, \u201c\u00e7ocuklar anneleri ile g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc bir ileti\u015fim i\u00e7inde\u201d de\u011ferlendirmesi yaparak, \u201c\u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in yapabilece\u011fim bir \u015fey yok\u201d \u00a0diyebiliyorlar.<\/strong> Halbuki baba ile sinemaya gitmek ya da ma\u00e7 seyretmeye gitmek ne g\u00fczeldir. Ortak bir hobi sevgiyi hissettiren alanlard\u0131r. Anneler, babalara bu programlar i\u00e7in f\u0131rsat yaratabilir. <strong>Baba ve anne arkada\u015f de\u011fil, kendi kimlikleri i\u00e7inde \u201cbaba\u201d ve \u201canne\u201d olmal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Disiplini sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in baz\u0131 anneler s\u00fcrekli babay\u0131 \u00f6ne s\u00fcrer.<\/strong> Bu noktada \u00e7ocuk babadan, korkulabilece\u011fini hisseder. \u00d6zellikle k\u0131z \u00e7ocukta bir erkek, korkulacak bir fig\u00fcr olur. Y\u00fcksek sesle konu\u015fan, \u015fiddet e\u011filimli bir baba \u00f6rne\u011fini ya\u015fayan k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu, gelecekte e\u015finden bu tarz davran\u0131\u015flar g\u00f6rd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde \u015fa\u015f\u0131rmayacak, erkeklerin olmas\u0131 gereken do\u011fal davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 olarak kabullenecektir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>3-4 ya\u015flar\u0131nda erkek \u00e7ocuk anneyi, k\u0131z \u00e7ocuk ise babay\u0131 idealize eder.<\/strong> 23 ya\u015f\u0131nda bir gen\u00e7 k\u0131z, babas\u0131na benzeyen bir ki\u015fi ile evlenmek istiyor, evlilikle sonu\u00e7lanmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 takdirde ise ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 uzun y\u0131llar devam edebiliyor. Veya <strong>annesi gibi bir e\u015f arayan bir erkek \u00e7ocukta<\/strong> da ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131l\u0131k yans\u0131malar\u0131 olumsuz sonu\u00e7lar yaratabiliyor. Okul d\u00f6neminde erkek \u00e7ocuk, anne ve baban\u0131n birlikteli\u011fini kabul ediyor, kendisini tamamlayan ba\u015fka alan aray\u0131\u015f\u0131na giriyor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Ergenlik d\u00f6neminde erkek \u00e7ocuk baba onay\u0131na ihtiya\u00e7 duyar.<\/strong> \u201cBaba o\u011ful g\u00fcnleri\u201d payla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 ileti\u015fimin g\u00fc\u00e7lenmesini sa\u011flar. Burada \u00e7ocuk baba ile yak\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 fark ederek, kendisini iyi hisseder. K\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131nda ise baba hayat\u0131ndaki ilk erkek oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in aralar\u0131ndaki ili\u015fki olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nemli. Baba ile olan ili\u015fki kar\u015f\u0131 cinsle kurulacak ili\u015fkinin de \u015feklini belirliyor. Baba \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na \u00f6rnek olaca\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in her t\u00fcr davran\u0131\u015f\u0131na dikkat etmeli, \u00e7ocu\u011funun gelece\u011finde etkin bir rol oynayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 bilmelidir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u201cBir baban\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na yapabilece\u011fi en b\u00fcy\u00fck iyilik onlar\u0131n annelerini sevmektir\u201d<\/strong> s\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc hat\u0131rlat\u0131p, hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n kahramanlar\u0131n\u0131n Babalar G\u00fcn\u00fc\u2019n\u00fc kutlar\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p><strong><\/p>\n<p><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>En g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc dayana\u011f\u0131m\u0131z, ilk ad\u0131m\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 atarken elinden tuttu\u011fumuz, her zaman g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fc hissetti\u011fimiz ki\u015fidir babalar\u0131m\u0131z\u2026 \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n geli\u015fiminde ise bir anne kadar etkilidir. Peki \u00e7ocuk ile baba ili\u015fkisinde annenin rol\u00fcn\u00fc hi\u00e7 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fcn\u00fcz m\u00fc? Annenin \u00e7ocukla ba\u011flant\u0131s\u0131 hamileli\u011fi hissetti\u011fi anda ba\u015flar. Baba ise o d\u00f6nemde \u00e7ocuk sahibi olma konusunda heyecan doludur ve anneye destek olmak i\u00e7in elinden geleni [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":80,"featured_media":2346,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[1846,398,341,1848,1847,590,1399],"class_list":{"0":"post-2345","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aile","8":"tag-anne-baba-iliskisi","9":"tag-anne-baba-olmak","10":"tag-anne-cocuk","11":"tag-baba-cocuk","12":"tag-babalar-gunu","13":"tag-bagirmayan-anne-baba-olmak","14":"tag-iyi-anne-baba-olmak"},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/06\/mutlu-aile.jpg?fit=626%2C417&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2345","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/80"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2345"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2345\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2346"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2345"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2345"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2345"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}