{"id":1925,"date":"2018-05-16T12:19:20","date_gmt":"2018-05-16T09:19:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=1925"},"modified":"2018-05-16T12:20:30","modified_gmt":"2018-05-16T09:20:30","slug":"anne-baba-olmak","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/anne-baba-olmak\/","title":{"rendered":"Anne baba olmak"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kart\u0131n. Hissedin. Meydana getirdi\u011finiz eserinizin, mucizenizin b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne geli\u015fti\u011fine tan\u0131k olun. O gelece\u011fini in\u015fa ederken kol kanat germenin, rol model olman\u0131n, \u00f6nderlik yapman\u0131n hakl\u0131 gururunu ya\u015fay\u0131n.
\nUnutmay\u0131n hangi makama gelirseniz gelin, hangi \u015firketin ba\u015f\u0131na ge\u00e7erseniz ge\u00e7in hepsi gelip ge\u00e7icidir. Hi\u00e7bir \u015feye de\u011fi\u015filmeyecek en b\u00fcy\u00fck zenginli\u011finiz aileniz, en \u00f6nemli etiketiniz ise anne baba olmakt\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kula\u011f\u0131n\u0131za k\u00fcpe olsun\u00a0<\/strong>
\nEvliliklerde i\u015fler her zaman yolunda gitmeyebiliyor. Bo\u015fanma<\/strong> \u00e7ok sevimsiz olsa da hayat\u0131n bir ger\u00e7e\u011fidir. \u0130\u015fler bu noktaya umar\u0131m gelmez ama gelirse de unutmay\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun babas\u0131ndan yada annesinden bo\u015fanabilirsiniz ama \u00e7ocu\u011funuza kar\u015f\u0131 olan sorumluluklar\u0131n\u0131zdan ve g\u00f6revlerinizden istifa edemezsiniz. Hem annenin hem de baban\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla aralar\u0131nda kan ba\u011f\u0131ndan do\u011fan aile hayat\u0131 vard\u0131r ve hayat boyu devam eder. Her ne sebeple bo\u015fan\u0131rsan\u0131z bo\u015fan\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu eski e\u015finize do\u011frultulmu\u015f bir silah gibi kullanmamal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z. Kullan\u0131rsan\u0131z bu \u00e7ocuk istismar\u0131d\u0131r ve insanl\u0131k su\u00e7udur.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Medeniyeti ve insanl\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretti\u011finiz d\u00fcnyadan medeniyet \u00f6\u011frenecek hale mi geldik?<\/strong>
\nNe ara bu duruma geldik inan\u0131n bilmiyorum ama bence durumun \u00f6zeti bu ve ben bu durumdan hicap duyuyorum.\u00a0 2012 y\u0131l\u0131nda fiilen 2014 te hukuken bo\u015fanm\u0131\u015f ve 6 y\u0131ld\u0131r y\u00fcr\u00fcyerek 10 dakikal\u0131k mesafede ya\u015fayan evlad\u0131n\u0131 icra marifetiyle g\u00f6rebilen, t\u00fcrl\u00fc iftiralara maruz kalm\u0131\u015f bir baba olarak s\u00f6yl\u00fcyorum bunu.
\nBo\u015fanma sonras\u0131 s\u00fcre\u00e7te yaln\u0131z olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fcp bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n sessiz \u00e7\u0131\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 duyurabilmek onlar\u0131n haklar\u0131n\u0131 savunmak i\u00e7in Babas\u0131z B\u0131rak\u0131lan \u00c7ocuklar \u00c7ocuksuz Babalar Derne\u011fi’ni<\/strong> kurduk. \u0130sminin mask\u00fclen oldu\u011funa bakmay\u0131n derne\u011fimiz i\u00e7erisinde ma\u011fduriyet ya\u015fayan annelerimiz ve hakl\u0131 davaya destek olan kad\u0131nlar\u0131m\u0131z da var. Avukat tutacak durumu olmayan ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6remeyen annelere de verdi\u011fimiz destekle \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kavu\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011fl\u0131yoruz. Bizim i\u00e7in as\u0131l olan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n bu \u00fclkenin gelece\u011finin \u00fcst\u00fcn yarar\u0131d\u0131r.
\n\u00dclkemizde hayvanlar\u0131 koruma kanunu nedeniyle evcil hayvanlar\u0131n haczedilemedi\u011fini, \u0130htiyaca binaen bulunan ev e\u015fyalar\u0131n\u0131n haczedilmedi\u011fini ancak ebeveynlerin kendi \u00f6z evlatlar\u0131n\u0131 haczetmek zorunda kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 biliyor musunuz?<\/p>\n

Devam\u0131 gelecek yaz\u0131mda…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Tad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kart\u0131n. Hissedin. Meydana getirdi\u011finiz eserinizin, mucizenizin b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne geli\u015fti\u011fine tan\u0131k olun. O gelece\u011fini in\u015fa ederken kol kanat germenin, rol model olman\u0131n, \u00f6nderlik yapman\u0131n hakl\u0131 gururunu ya\u015fay\u0131n. Unutmay\u0131n hangi makama gelirseniz gelin, hangi \u015firketin ba\u015f\u0131na ge\u00e7erseniz ge\u00e7in hepsi gelip ge\u00e7icidir. Hi\u00e7bir \u015feye de\u011fi\u015filmeyecek en b\u00fcy\u00fck zenginli\u011finiz aileniz, en \u00f6nemli etiketiniz ise anne baba olmakt\u0131r. Kula\u011f\u0131n\u0131za k\u00fcpe […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":10,"featured_media":1035,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[398,1397,1395,1394,1398,1396],"class_list":{"0":"post-1925","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aile","8":"tag-anne-baba-olmak","9":"tag-anne-baba-ve-cocuk-arasinda","10":"tag-babasiz-birakilan-cocuklar","11":"tag-bosanmis-anne-baba","12":"tag-bosanmis-anne-babanin-cocugu-olmak","13":"tag-cocuksuz-babalar"},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/aile-anne-baba-cocuk.jpg?fit=626%2C461&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1925","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/10"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1925"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1925\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1035"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1925"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1925"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1925"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}