{"id":1587,"date":"2018-04-25T14:00:14","date_gmt":"2018-04-25T11:00:14","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=1587"},"modified":"2018-04-24T23:52:35","modified_gmt":"2018-04-24T20:52:35","slug":"evliligi-yurutebilmek-icin-5-altin-kural","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/evliligi-yurutebilmek-icin-5-altin-kural\/","title":{"rendered":"Evlili\u011fi y\u00fcr\u00fctebilmek i\u00e7in 5 alt\u0131n kural!"},"content":{"rendered":"
Evli \u00e7iftelerde e\u015fin ailesi ve arkada\u015flar\u0131yla kurulacak sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ba\u011flar ili\u015fkinin gelece\u011fini belirler. Fl\u00f6rt eden \u00e7iftlerde aileler ili\u015fkiye m\u00fcdahil olmad\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in arkada\u015f \u00e7evrelerine bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131 ili\u015fkinin anahtar\u0131d\u0131r. Peki evlili\u011fi devam ettirebilmek<\/strong> i\u00e7in nelere dikkat etmeniz gerekir?<\/p>\n

\u200b<\/span>1-Olumlu bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 \u00f6nemlidir<\/p>\n

<\/strong>\u00c7iftler kar\u015f\u0131la\u015facaklar\u0131 sorunlar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zme y\u00f6n\u00fcnde e\u011filim g\u00f6sterirlerse ili\u015fkileri kolayca zenginle\u015fip geli\u015fir. Oysa bir taraf\u0131n olumsuz, sorun odakl\u0131 yakla\u015f\u0131m\u0131 hem di\u011fer taraf\u0131 zorlayacak hem \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcms\u00fczl\u00fckle sonu\u00e7lanacakt\u0131r. Bu nedenle hayata bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6zden ge\u00e7irmemiz ve ili\u015fkimizde olumlu bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131na sahip olmam\u0131z elzemdir.<\/p>\n

\u200b<\/span>2-\u015eeffaf olun
\n<\/strong>
\nTeknoloji \u00e7a\u011f\u0131nda bireysel s\u0131rlar\u0131n kolayca if\u015fa oldu\u011fu ger\u00e7e\u011finden hareketle ili\u015fki ile ilgili a\u00e7\u0131k olmak, \u015feffafl\u0131k, s\u0131r saklamamak \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. \u201dNas\u0131l olsa \u00f6nemsemez, haberi olmasa da olur,\u201d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi ile saklanan s\u0131rlar a\u00e7\u0131\u011fa \u00e7\u0131kt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ili\u015fkiyi bitirebilirler.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Kendimiz i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli olan bir konunun partnerimiz i\u00e7in \u00f6nemsiz oldu\u011fu yan\u0131lg\u0131s\u0131 kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 olarak s\u0131r saklamay\u0131, ger\u00e7e\u011fi gizlemeyi beraberinde getirir. Bu nedenle her konuda \u015feffaf olmak \u00f6nemlidir.<\/p>\n

\u200b<\/span>3-Sosyal \u00e7evreye sayg\u0131 duymak \u00f6nemlidir
\n<\/strong>
\n\u00d6zellikle evli \u00e7iftlerde e\u015flerin ailelerinin olumsuz tutumu bo\u015fanmayla sonu\u00e7lanacak etkiler yaratabilir. E\u015fin yan\u0131nda olmak, ailesine kar\u015f\u0131 kendilerinin de bir aile kurdu\u011funu ifade etmek tepkiye yol a\u00e7sa da bir s\u00fcre sonra kabullenme ile sonu\u00e7lanacakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

E\u015flerin ailelerinin s\u0131n\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 bilmesi, m\u00fcdahalelerinde bir yanl\u0131\u015f varsa \u00e7ift olarak ayn\u0131 g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fte ve kararl\u0131l\u0131kla tutum belirlenmesi hem ili\u015fkiyi g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir hem de d\u0131\u015far\u0131dan gelecek olumsuz enerjiyi bertaraf eder.
\n<\/strong>
\n\u200b<\/span>4-Sorumluluklar\u0131 payla\u015f\u0131n
\n<\/strong>
\nE\u015flerin m\u00fcmk\u00fcn oldu\u011funca dengeli bir bi\u00e7imde sorumluluklar\u0131 payla\u015fmas\u0131; bunu yaparken haz ald\u0131klar\u0131 i\u015fleri se\u00e7meleri ili\u015fkilerin sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. Bir taraf s\u00fcrekli sorumluluk al\u0131yor, di\u011fer taraf bundan ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131yorsa bir s\u00fcre sonra sorunlar ba\u015f g\u00f6sterecektir. \u201cHer \u015feyi ben yapay\u0131m\u201d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi de \u201dhi\u00e7bir \u015feye elimi s\u00fcrmeyeyim,\u201d d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncesi de sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n

Konu\u015farak, uzla\u015farak sorumluluklar\u0131n payla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131; ara s\u0131ra g\u00f6rev de\u011fi\u015fimi yap\u0131lmas\u0131 olumlu sonu\u00e7lar do\u011furur. A\u015f\u0131r\u0131 sorumluluk alan birey bir s\u00fcre sonra b\u0131kk\u0131nl\u0131k ve yorgunluk hissedece\u011finden depresyona girmesi ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r. Yerine getirilmeyen sorumluluklar da ili\u015fkinin bitmesine neden olur.<\/p>\n

\u200b<\/span>5-Sadakat olmazsa olmaz<\/p>\n

<\/strong>Sad\u0131k olman\u0131n ilk ko\u015fulu yalan s\u00f6ylememektir. Aldatman\u0131n her t\u00fcr\u00fc ili\u015fkiyi kopma noktas\u0131na getirebilir.
\nEkonomik ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131zl\u0131\u011f\u0131 olmayan e\u015f zorunluluk nedeniyle aldat\u0131lmay\u0131 kabullenmi\u015f gibi g\u00f6r\u00fcnse de e\u015fine kar\u015f\u0131 sayg\u0131 ve sevgisi zamanla azalacak hatta yok olacakt\u0131r.<\/strong> Aldatan e\u015f ise durumu gizlemeye \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken daha \u00e7ok yalana ba\u015fvuracak partnerinin g\u00fcvenini kaybedecektir.<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Evli \u00e7iftelerde e\u015fin ailesi ve arkada\u015flar\u0131yla kurulacak sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ba\u011flar ili\u015fkinin gelece\u011fini belirler. Fl\u00f6rt eden \u00e7iftlerde aileler ili\u015fkiye m\u00fcdahil olmad\u0131klar\u0131 i\u00e7in arkada\u015f \u00e7evrelerine bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131 ili\u015fkinin anahtar\u0131d\u0131r. Peki evlili\u011fi devam ettirebilmek i\u00e7in nelere dikkat etmeniz gerekir? \u200b1-Olumlu bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131 \u00f6nemlidir \u00c7iftler kar\u015f\u0131la\u015facaklar\u0131 sorunlar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zme y\u00f6n\u00fcnde e\u011filim g\u00f6sterirlerse ili\u015fkileri kolayca zenginle\u015fip geli\u015fir. Oysa bir taraf\u0131n olumsuz, sorun […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":80,"featured_media":1516,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[48],"tags":[1036,1037,1030,1031,1032,1033,1035,1034,1038],"class_list":{"0":"post-1587","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-ask-ve-cinsellik","8":"tag-aldatan-es","9":"tag-aldatilma","10":"tag-evliligi-devam-ettirebilmek","11":"tag-evlilik-aldatma","12":"tag-evlilik-sirlari","13":"tag-evlilikte-aldatma","14":"tag-evlilikte-sadakat","15":"tag-evlilikte-yalan","16":"tag-mutlu-evliligin-sirlari"},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/04\/romantik-evlilik.jpg?fit=626%2C417&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1587","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/80"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1587"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1587\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1516"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1587"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1587"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1587"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}