{"id":1388,"date":"2018-04-18T10:02:39","date_gmt":"2018-04-18T07:02:39","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=1388"},"modified":"2018-04-18T10:02:39","modified_gmt":"2018-04-18T07:02:39","slug":"cocugunuza-kardes-mi-geliyor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/cocugunuza-kardes-mi-geliyor\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocu\u011funuza karde\u015f mi geliyor?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Karde\u015f \u015fart diyenlerdenseniz ve planlar\u0131n\u0131 tuttuysa, mutlusunuzdur. Her \u015fey yolunda. \u015eimdi s\u0131ra geldi b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011funuza bir karde\u015fi olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlatmaya. Peki \u00e7ocu\u011funuza karde\u015fi olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l anlatman\u0131z gerekiyor? \u00c7ocuk ve karde\u015f<\/strong> konusunda ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011funuz konular\u0131 derledik.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Bir karde\u015fi olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlayaca\u011f\u0131 bir dille anlat\u0131n. Karn\u0131n\u0131z b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e ellemesine izin verin. G\u00f6zleriyle g\u00f6rmedi\u011fi s\u00fcrece bebek onun i\u00e7in bir tehdit olu\u015fturmad\u0131\u011f\u0131ndan, bebek fikrine al\u0131\u015facakt\u0131r.<\/p>\n

\u2022 \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun hayat\u0131nda yapaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z de\u011fi\u015fiklikleri, al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131 i\u00e7in karde\u015fi gelmeden \u00f6nce yap\u0131n. Odas\u0131n\u0131n de\u011fi\u015fmesi, okula ba\u015flamas\u0131 gibi\u2026<\/p>\n

\u2022 Doktor kontrollerine birlikte gidebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Kendini g\u00fcvende hissetmesi i\u00e7in do\u011fum zaman\u0131 gelince hastanede ne kadar kalaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131, onunla kimin ilgilenece\u011fini \u00f6nceden anlat\u0131n.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Karde\u015fi geldi\u011finde haz\u0131rl\u0131kl\u0131 olmas\u0131 i\u00e7in bebe\u011fe nas\u0131l bakaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 anlat\u0131n. Bebeklerin \u00e7ok k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ve bak\u0131ma muhta\u00e7 olduklar\u0131n\u0131, devaml\u0131 kucakta ta\u015f\u0131nmak istediklerini, meme emdiklerini, bol bol a\u011flad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 anlatabilirsiniz. Oyuncak bir bebek alarak bez ba\u011flayabilir, mama verebilir, kucakta ta\u015f\u0131yabilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Onu da bebek haz\u0131rl\u0131klar\u0131na kat\u0131n. Mesela bebe\u011fin yatak odas\u0131 rengi gibi konularda se\u00e7im yapmas\u0131n\u0131 destekleyin.<\/p>\n

\u2022 E\u011fer yak\u0131n\u0131n\u0131zda yeni do\u011fum yapm\u0131\u015f biri varsa, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla birlikte ziyaret edebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

\u2022 \u00c7ocu\u011funuza her zaman bebe\u011fin ne kadar harika bir ablas\u0131\/a\u011fabeyi olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ve ona olan sevginizin hi\u00e7 eksilmeyece\u011fini anlat\u0131n.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Onun do\u011fumu ve bebekli\u011fiyle ilgili foto\u011fraflara, video kay\u0131tlar\u0131na bak\u0131n. Nas\u0131l do\u011fdu\u011funu, ona nas\u0131l bakt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 anlat\u0131n.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Do\u011fumun ard\u0131ndan b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011funuza da bebek bak\u0131m\u0131na katmaya \u00f6zen g\u00f6sterin.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Eve gelecek ziyaret\u00e7ilere \u00f6nce b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu sevmeleri konusunda haber verin. Hediye getirmek isteyenler bebek yerine b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011funuza hediye getirebilirler.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Bebekle ilgili duygular\u0131n\u0131 dile getirmesini te\u015fvik edin.<\/p>\n

\u2022 G\u00fcn i\u00e7inde onunla bire bir zaman ge\u00e7irece\u011finiz f\u0131rsatlar yarat\u0131n.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Bebe\u011finiz b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun oyuncaklar\u0131na, kitaplar\u0131na zarar verebilir, bu da \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu k\u0131zd\u0131rabilir. K\u0131zg\u0131nl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile ba\u015fa \u00e7\u0131kmay\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretebilirsiniz. Bebe\u011fin neden b\u00f6yle davrand\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlat\u0131p, ki\u015fisel e\u015fyalar\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l koruyaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6sterebilirsiniz.<\/p>\n

\u2022 Dikkat etmeniz gereken bir konuda, 3 ya\u015f\u0131ndan k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu bebek ile yaln\u0131z b\u0131rakmamak.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

Karde\u015f \u015fart diyenlerdenseniz ve planlar\u0131n\u0131 tuttuysa, mutlusunuzdur. Her \u015fey yolunda. \u015eimdi s\u0131ra geldi b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00e7ocu\u011funuza bir karde\u015fi olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlatmaya. Peki \u00e7ocu\u011funuza karde\u015fi olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l anlatman\u0131z gerekiyor? \u00c7ocuk ve karde\u015f konusunda ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011funuz konular\u0131 derledik. \u2022 Bir karde\u015fi olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 anlayaca\u011f\u0131 bir dille anlat\u0131n. Karn\u0131n\u0131z b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fck\u00e7e ellemesine izin verin. G\u00f6zleriyle g\u00f6rmedi\u011fi s\u00fcrece bebek onun i\u00e7in bir tehdit […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":80,"featured_media":213,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[6],"tags":[23,862,861,406],"class_list":{"0":"post-1388","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-bebek","8":"tag-cocuk","9":"tag-iki-cocuklu-hayat","10":"tag-kardes","11":"tag-kardes-kiskancligi"},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/hamile-anne-bebek-cocuk.jpg?fit=640%2C425&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1388","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/80"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1388"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1388\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/213"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1388"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1388"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1388"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}