{"id":12412,"date":"2021-11-12T15:51:24","date_gmt":"2021-11-12T12:51:24","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=12412"},"modified":"2021-11-12T15:52:13","modified_gmt":"2021-11-12T12:52:13","slug":"babalar-hakkinda-her-sey","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/babalar-hakkinda-her-sey\/","title":{"rendered":"Mutlu aile i\u00e7in baba ne demek"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_82_2 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-light-blue ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Yaz\u0131 \u0130\u00e7eri\u011fi<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-69ea54ad5277d\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-69ea54ad5277d\"  aria-label=\"A\u00e7\/Kapat\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/babalar-hakkinda-her-sey\/#Babalar_Hakkinda_Her_Sey\" >Babalar Hakk\u0131nda Her \u015eey<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/babalar-hakkinda-her-sey\/#Biyolojik_olarak_%E2%80%98Baba\" >Biyolojik olarak &#8216;Baba&#8217;<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/babalar-hakkinda-her-sey\/#Es_olarak_%E2%80%98Baba\" >E\u015f olarak &#8216;Baba&#8217;<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/babalar-hakkinda-her-sey\/#Gebelik_Surecinde_Babanin_Sosyal_Destegi\" >Gebelik S\u00fcrecinde Baban\u0131n Sosyal Deste\u011fi<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-5\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/babalar-hakkinda-her-sey\/#Baba_ve_Bebegi_Arasindaki_Bag%E2%80%A6\" >Baba ve Bebe\u011fi Aras\u0131ndaki Ba\u011f&#8230;<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-6\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/babalar-hakkinda-her-sey\/#Saglikli_Bir_Baba_Cocuk_Iliskisi%E2%80%A6\" >Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 Bir Baba \u00c7ocuk \u0130li\u015fkisi\u2026<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>Aile de anne kadar baba da \u00f6nemli yer ta\u015f\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklar b\u00fcy\u00fcrken erkek rol model olarak \u00e7o\u011fu zaman babay\u0131 \u00f6rnek al\u0131r. Ev idaresi ve eve dair t\u00fcm i\u015fleri anneye b\u0131rakmak sonunda annenin de yorgun d\u00fc\u015fmesine sebep olabilir. Peki o halde baban\u0131n ailedeki \u00f6nemi nedir?\u00a0<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Uzman Psikolog Ecem \u00d6ztuna Sar\u0131, Anne Bebek Kul\u00fcb\u00fc<\/strong> okuyucular\u0131 i\u00e7in baban\u0131n ailedeki yeri ve \u00f6nemini yazd\u0131.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Babalar_Hakkinda_Her_Sey\"><\/span><b>Babalar Hakk\u0131nda Her \u015eey<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Biyolojik_olarak_%E2%80%98Baba\"><\/span><b>Biyolojik olarak &#8216;Baba&#8217;<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun d\u00fcnyaya gelmesinde rol alan erke\u011fe baba denir. Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun olu\u015fmas\u0131 i\u00e7in gerekli kromozomlar\u0131n yar\u0131s\u0131 babadan gelir. Ancak, bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun geli\u015fimini desteklemek i\u00e7in sadece biyolojik olarak baba olmak yeterli de\u011fildir. Her erkek istedi\u011fi zaman biyolojik olarak baba olabilir ama &#8216;baba olmak&#8217; ya da &#8216;babal\u0131k yapmak&#8217; i\u00e7i \u00e7ok daha dolu ve \u00f6zel bir kavramd\u0131r.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">T\u00fcrk Dil Kurumu babal\u0131\u011f\u0131 &#8220;baba olma durumu&#8221; bi\u00e7iminde tan\u0131mlasa da psikolojik ve geli\u015fimsel s\u00fcre\u00e7te de\u011ferlendirildi\u011finde babalar\u0131n biyolojik olarak baba olduktan sonra g\u00f6sterdikleri ebeveynlik davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131na &#8216;babal\u0131k yapmak&#8217; kavram\u0131 e\u015flik edebilir.<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Es_olarak_%E2%80%98Baba\"><\/span><b>E\u015f olarak &#8216;Baba&#8217;<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bir erkek, baba olmadan \u00f6nce bir kad\u0131n\u0131n e\u015fidir. E\u015f olmaktan &#8216;baba&#8217; olmaya ge\u00e7en s\u00fcre\u00e7te e\u015flerin birbirlerine olan yakla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131 \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc iyi bir e\u015f olmak \u00e7o\u011fu zaman iyi bir baba olman\u0131n da \u00f6n ko\u015fuludur.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7iftler aras\u0131 sevgi ba\u011f\u0131n\u0131n hamilelik d\u00f6nemi \u00f6ncesinden itibaren g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc olmas\u0131, kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fkinin doyumu her iki bireyin de ebeveynlik s\u00fcrecini olumlu etkileyen en \u00f6nemli kriterlerin ba\u015f\u0131nda gelir. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Huzurlu bir ili\u015fki ya\u015fayan, birbirlerini anlayan, sevgilerini g\u00f6sterebilen, a\u00e7\u0131k ileti\u015fimde olan \u00e7iftlerin, \u00e7ocuklar do\u011fduktan sonra \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n sorunlar\u0131na ve ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 da birlikte hareket edebildikleri bilinmektedir. Bu sebeple, bir e\u015f olarak baban\u0131n, gebelik \u00f6ncesi d\u00f6nemde, gebelikte ve do\u011fum sonras\u0131nda da anneye ve \u00e7ocu\u011fa kar\u015f\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 ve duygular\u0131 olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nemlidir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Baba ile anne aras\u0131ndaki ili\u015fkinin yak\u0131nl\u0131k d\u00fczeyi \u00e7ocuklar ile ilgili olan s\u00fcre\u00e7lere do\u011frudan yans\u0131r. Gebelik s\u00fcrecinden itibaren &#8216;baba&#8217; s\u0131cak bir anne \u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisinin olmazsa olmaz\u0131d\u0131r. Bu sebeple, gebelik d\u00f6neminde babay\u0131, gebelik s\u00fcrecinin bir par\u00e7as\u0131 haline getirmek, do\u011fum \u00f6ncesi bebekle ba\u011f kurmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamak hem anne hem de bebek i\u00e7in sonraki y\u0131llarda kurulacak ili\u015fkinin en \u00f6nemli par\u00e7as\u0131d\u0131r. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar, erkeklerin de hamile bir partnerle yak\u0131n temasta olduklar\u0131 s\u00fcre\u00e7te, babal\u0131k i\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fclerini harekete ge\u00e7iren hormonsal de\u011fi\u015fimler ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ortaya koyuyor. Yeni do\u011fum yapan annelerin s\u00fct yapmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olan prolaktin hormonunun babalarda da oldu\u011funu ve do\u011fumdan hemen \u00f6nce babalarda da artt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6ylesek sizi \u015fa\u015f\u0131rtabiliriz belki. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sonu\u00e7 olarak bir baba aday\u0131 ile hamile e\u015finin ne kadar kuvvetli bir ba\u011f\u0131 varsa, baba aday\u0131 da s\u00fcre\u00e7ten biyolojik olarak o kadar \u00e7ok etkilenebilir ve bebe\u011fiyle ayn\u0131 oranda ba\u011f kurmaya ba\u015flayabilir.<\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_12432\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12432\" style=\"width: 800px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-12432\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T151617.290.png?resize=696%2C494&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Gebelikte baban\u0131n deste\u011fi nas\u0131l olmal\u0131d\u0131r?\" width=\"696\" height=\"494\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T151617.290.png?resize=300%2C213&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T151617.290.png?resize=768%2C545&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T151617.290.png?resize=696%2C494&amp;ssl=1 696w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T151617.290.png?w=874&amp;ssl=1 874w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 696px) 100vw, 696px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-12432\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Gebelikte baban\u0131n deste\u011fi nas\u0131l olmal\u0131d\u0131r?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Gebelik_Surecinde_Babanin_Sosyal_Destegi\"><\/span><b>Gebelik S\u00fcrecinde Baban\u0131n Sosyal Deste\u011fi<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Aileye kat\u0131lacak yeni bir bebe\u011fin haberinin akabinde ebeveynlerin ilk hissetti\u011fi duygu mutluluktur. Ancak, bu d\u00f6nemde \u00f6zellikle annelerin duygular\u0131 olduk\u00e7a de\u011fi\u015fkenlik g\u00f6sterir. Karma\u015f\u0131k duygular aras\u0131nda en bask\u0131n duygu &#8216;kayg\u0131&#8217; olarak kar\u015f\u0131m\u0131za \u00e7\u0131kar.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Gebelik s\u00fcreci, annede hem fiziksel hem de duygusal ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n yo\u011fun oldu\u011fu bir d\u00f6nemdir. Yo\u011fun duygularla birlikte ya\u015fanan, fiziksel de\u011fi\u015fimler, s\u0131k\u00e7a a\u011flamalar, yeni ya\u015fama uyum problemleri, bebe\u011fi kabullenmek gibi s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar da bu s\u00fcre\u00e7te ya\u015fanabilir. \u0130\u015fte bu noktada baba adaylar\u0131n\u0131n annelerin temel duygusal deste\u011fi olmas\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Duygusal destek gereksinimi artan anne e\u015finden daha fazla ilgi ve sevgi g\u00f6rmeyi, de\u011ferli hissetmeyi, bebe\u011fe kar\u015f\u0131 heyecan\u0131 ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde ya\u015famay\u0131, e\u015finin kendisiyle empati kurmas\u0131n\u0131, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnce ve duygular\u0131n\u0131n e\u015fi taraf\u0131ndan anla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 bekleyebilir. Ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar, gebelik d\u00f6neminde e\u015fini olumlu duygularla besleyen babalar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla da daha kolay ba\u011fland\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 ortaya koymaktad\u0131r. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Annenin duygu durumunun anla\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 ve annenin ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fu \u00e7evresel deste\u011fin e\u015fi taraf\u0131ndan mutlulukla kar\u015f\u0131lanmas\u0131n\u0131n, anne- bebek aras\u0131ndaki g\u00fcvenli ba\u011flanmay\u0131 olumlu etkiledi\u011fi de bilinmektedir. Anne ne kadar az stresli olursa, bu durum bebe\u011fin de anne karn\u0131nda o kadar huzurlu ve olumlu bir geli\u015fim g\u00f6stermesine katk\u0131 sunacakt\u0131r. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bir baban\u0131n, gebelik s\u00fcrecinde yapabilece\u011fi en \u00f6nemli davran\u0131\u015f, bebe\u011fi i\u00e7in annesinin yan\u0131nda olmakt\u0131r. Yemek yapmak, evi temizlemek, anneye biraz masaj yapmak, yan\u0131nda oldu\u011funu hissettirmek, kayg\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 gidermeye destek oldu\u011funuzu fark ettirmek, hastane randevular\u0131na e\u015flik etmek, anne karn\u0131ndaki bebekle konu\u015fmak ve onu sevdi\u011finizi anlatmak hamile bir anne ve do\u011fmam\u0131\u015f bir bebek i\u00e7in bile olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nemlidir.<\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_12431\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12431\" style=\"width: 800px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-12431\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T151645.888.png?resize=696%2C494&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Baba ve bebe\u011fi aras\u0131ndaki ba\u011f\" width=\"696\" height=\"494\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T151645.888.png?resize=300%2C213&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T151645.888.png?resize=768%2C545&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T151645.888.png?resize=696%2C494&amp;ssl=1 696w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T151645.888.png?w=874&amp;ssl=1 874w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 696px) 100vw, 696px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-12431\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Baba ve bebe\u011fi aras\u0131ndaki ba\u011f<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Baba_ve_Bebegi_Arasindaki_Bag%E2%80%A6\"><\/span><b>Baba ve Bebe\u011fi Aras\u0131ndaki Ba\u011f&#8230;<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Babalar, emzirme d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndaki b\u00fct\u00fcn s\u00fcre\u00e7leri anneler kadar iyi ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirebilirler. Burada da baban\u0131n hissedece\u011fi e\u015f deste\u011fi ve anne te\u015fviki bebek-baba ileti\u015fimi ve sonras\u0131ndaki \u00e7ocuk-baba ileti\u015fiminin en \u00f6nemli ad\u0131m\u0131d\u0131r. Babal\u0131k rol\u00fcn\u00fc benimsemek, bebekle gelen yeni sorumluluklar\u0131 sahiplenmek, bebek ile ileti\u015fime ge\u00e7ebilmek i\u00e7in giri\u015fken olmak ve e\u015fi ile de\u011fi\u015fen ili\u015fkisine uyum sa\u011flamakla do\u011fru orant\u0131l\u0131 bir \u015fekilde ger\u00e7ekle\u015fir ki bu \u00e7aba isteyen bir s\u00fcre\u00e7tir. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Babalar\u0131n bebek ile ileti\u015fimini g\u00fc\u00e7lendirmek i\u00e7in de annelerin babalara f\u0131rsat vermeleri, bebe\u011fin bak\u0131m\u0131 i\u00e7in destek olmalar\u0131, ba\u011flanma s\u00fcrecini destekleyen bebekle temas\u0131 i\u00e7eren oyunlar oynamalar\u0131 ve aktif ileti\u015fimde olmalar\u0131 gerekir. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Annelerin, babalara kar\u015f\u0131 ele\u015ftirel yakla\u015fmamalar\u0131 ve bebek baba ileti\u015fiminin s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 takdir etmeleri ve di\u011fer olumlu yakla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131, babalar\u0131n bebeklerine ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na sevgilerini daha sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 g\u00f6stermesini te\u015fvik etmektedir. Bebe\u011fin bak\u0131m\u0131nda aktif olan babalar\u0131n aktif olmayanlara g\u00f6re \u00e7ocu\u011fuyla daha \u00e7abuk ve k\u00f6kl\u00fc bir ba\u011f kurdu\u011fu ara\u015ft\u0131rmalarla ortaya konmu\u015ftur.<\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_12434\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12434\" style=\"width: 800px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-12434\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T151535.456.png?resize=696%2C494&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 baba \u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisi nas\u0131l olmal\u0131d\u0131r?\" width=\"696\" height=\"494\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T151535.456.png?resize=300%2C213&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T151535.456.png?resize=768%2C545&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T151535.456.png?resize=696%2C494&amp;ssl=1 696w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T151535.456.png?w=874&amp;ssl=1 874w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 696px) 100vw, 696px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-12434\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 baba \u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisi nas\u0131l olmal\u0131d\u0131r?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Saglikli_Bir_Baba_Cocuk_Iliskisi%E2%80%A6\"><\/span><b>Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 Bir Baba \u00c7ocuk \u0130li\u015fkisi\u2026<\/b><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Babalar\u0131n \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fki kurmalar\u0131 \u00f6ncelikle e\u015fi ile ili\u015fkisinden etkilenir. Ancak, bir baban\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fu ile kurdu\u011fu ili\u015fki asl\u0131nda kendi babas\u0131yla kurduklar\u0131 ili\u015fki ile ba\u011flant\u0131l\u0131d\u0131r. Bir baba, kendi babas\u0131yla olan ili\u015fkisinden \u00f6\u011frendi\u011fi babal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ya da tersini yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r&#8230; <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc babal\u0131k \u00f6\u011frenilebilen bir davran\u0131\u015ft\u0131r ve kendi \u00e7ocuklu\u011funuzda baban\u0131z\u0131n size \u00e7izdi\u011fi rol modelden etkilenir. Bu sebeple, her baba \u00f6nce kendi babas\u0131yla olan ili\u015fkisinin olumlu ve olumsuz yanlar\u0131n\u0131 de\u011ferlendirerek bebe\u011fiyle nas\u0131l bir ili\u015fki kurmak istedi\u011fini belirleyebilir. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Eski nesilden al\u0131\u015f\u0131k olunan otoriter, mesafeli, sevgisini gizli ya\u015fayan, g\u00f6stermeyen, k\u0131zg\u0131n baba karakteri g\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde sevgisini saklamayan, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n s\u00fcre\u00e7lerine d\u00e2hil olmaktan keyif alan baba profiline yerini b\u0131rakmaya ba\u015flam\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. B\u00f6ylece, \u00e7ocu\u011funun b\u00fct\u00fcn geli\u015fim s\u00fcre\u00e7lerine h\u00e2kim olan ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 duygular\u0131 anlayabilen babalar\u0131n say\u0131s\u0131 her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn artmaktad\u0131r. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bir baba-\u00e7ocuk aras\u0131ndaki en sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fki en g\u00fczel a\u00e7\u0131k ileti\u015fimle geli\u015fir. K\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck ya\u015flardan itibaren babas\u0131yla bir bireymi\u015f gibi de\u011ferli hissettirilerek ileti\u015fime ge\u00e7mesine izin verilen \u00e7ocuklar, en f\u0131rt\u0131nal\u0131 ergenlik d\u00f6nemlerinde dahi a\u00e7\u0131k ileti\u015fimi koruyarak ileti\u015fimi s\u00fcrd\u00fcr\u00fcr. San\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n aksine sevgiyi g\u00f6stermenin, dokunman\u0131n sar\u0131lman\u0131n ve \u00f6pmenin g\u00fcc\u00fcn\u00fcn bir baba-\u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisinde en etkili y\u00f6ntem oldu\u011funu unutmamak gerekir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu sevmek ve bunu fiziksel olarak ona hissettirmek, \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendisini onaylanm\u0131\u015f ve kabul g\u00f6rm\u00fc\u015f hissetmesine ve kendisine olan g\u00fcveninin artmas\u0131na yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. Bu durum, sosyal ili\u015fkilerine de olumlu olarak yans\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011funuza \u00f6\u011fretmek istedi\u011finiz davran\u0131\u015flar i\u00e7in \u00f6rnek olmak ve baz\u0131 davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 birlikte ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirmek \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n tercihlerini belirler. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00d6rne\u011fin, sizin annesine olan davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131z, hem kendisinin annesine olan sevgi ve sayg\u0131s\u0131n\u0131 hem de kad\u0131nlara bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6\u011freticisi olacakt\u0131r. K\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ise erkekler hakk\u0131ndaki d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnceleri babas\u0131 ile birlikte \u015fekillenecektir. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Babalar\u0131n, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla birlikte ge\u00e7irecekleri kaliteli zamanlar \u00e7ocu\u011fun sosyal hayat\u0131ndan gelecek ili\u015fkilerindeki se\u00e7imlerine kadar etki edecek \u00e7ok hayati s\u00fcre\u00e7leri etkiler. Yap\u0131lacak i\u015fleri k\u0131sa bir s\u00fcre erteleyip g\u00fcnde 10-15 dakika her ya\u015ftan \u00e7ocukla sohbet etmek, resim yapmak, kitap okumak, oyun oynamak, y\u00fcr\u00fcy\u00fc\u015fe \u00e7\u0131kmak gibi basit g\u00f6r\u00fcnen ama asl\u0131nda \u00e7ok etkili aktiviteler daha sonra kar\u015f\u0131la\u015faca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z sorunlar\u0131 azaltacakt\u0131r.<\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_12435\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12435\" style=\"width: 800px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-12435\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T152338.213.png?resize=696%2C494&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Baba ve \u00e7ocuk aras\u0131ndaki sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fim\" width=\"696\" height=\"494\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T152338.213.png?resize=300%2C213&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T152338.213.png?resize=768%2C545&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T152338.213.png?resize=696%2C494&amp;ssl=1 696w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T152338.213.png?w=874&amp;ssl=1 874w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 696px) 100vw, 696px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-12435\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Baba ve \u00e7ocuk aras\u0131ndaki sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fim<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Babalar\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fun bak\u0131m\u0131yla yak\u0131ndan ilgili olmas\u0131 \u00f6zellikle erkek \u00e7ocuklarda ilerleyen d\u00f6nemlerde kar\u015f\u0131 cinse bak\u0131\u015f a\u00e7\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 olumlu y\u00f6nde etkiler. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Yap\u0131lan ara\u015ft\u0131rmalar, erkek \u00e7ocuklar babalar\u0131 ile kaliteli zaman ge\u00e7irerek b\u00fcy\u00fcd\u00fcklerinde kar\u015f\u0131 cinse \u015fiddet uygulama e\u011filiminin d\u00fc\u015ft\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc g\u00f6stermektedir. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">K\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla yak\u0131n ili\u015fkide olan babalar\u0131n ise k\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n e\u015f tercihlerinde \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u00f6ylenebilir. K\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n babalar\u0131ndan ald\u0131klar\u0131 g\u00fcven ve ba\u011flanma duygular\u0131 ile e\u015f se\u00e7imi yapt\u0131klar\u0131 ve babas\u0131 ile ili\u015fkisinde bu duygular\u0131n eksik olmas\u0131 halinde bu duygular\u0131 besleyecek tercihlere y\u00f6neldikleri bilinmektedir. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bo\u015fanma sebebiyle ayn\u0131 evde ya\u015fayamayan baba ve \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in de d\u00fczenli g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme, s\u0131k arama, aramalarda konu\u015fulan konular\u0131n niteli\u011fi ve \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 g\u00f6rme s\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fczenlili\u011fi ve bu g\u00fcnlerde yap\u0131lan aktivitelerin \u00e7ocuklarla ileti\u015fimi artt\u0131rmaya y\u00f6nelik olmas\u0131 bu ili\u015fkinin olumlu devam etmesine yard\u0131mc\u0131 olur. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Baba k\u0131z ve erkek \u00e7ocu\u011funun cinsel geli\u015fiminde de \u00f6nemli bir role sahiptir. Erkek \u00e7ocuklar i\u00e7in bu \u00f6nem daha fazlad\u0131r. \u00c7\u00fcnk\u00fc \u00e7ocuk cinsel geli\u015fimini g\u00f6zlem, taklit ve \u00f6zde\u015fim kurma yollar\u0131yla olu\u015fturmaktad\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011fun cinsel geli\u015fiminde ilk ba\u015fvurdu\u011fu yol, kar\u015f\u0131s\u0131ndaki modelin tav\u0131r ve hareketlerini tan\u0131maya ve anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmakt\u0131r. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">K\u0131z \u00e7ocuklar\u0131nda durum bundan farkl\u0131 olsa da, baba kimli\u011fi kar\u015f\u0131 cinsi tan\u0131mas\u0131 ve kar\u015f\u0131 cinse koyaca\u011f\u0131 tav\u0131rlar konusunda ipucu vermektedir. Baban\u0131n k\u0131z\u0131na ilgili davranmas\u0131, kar\u015f\u0131 cinse g\u00fcven duymas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamakta, ayr\u0131ca kendisine olan g\u00fcvenini de artt\u0131rmaktad\u0131r.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Babalar\u0131n k\u00fclt\u00fcr\u00fcm\u00fczdeki rol\u00fc eskiden beri hep en son karar\u0131 veren, zaman zaman korkulan ve annenin enerjisi t\u00fckendi\u011finde bir korkutma arac\u0131 olarak kulland\u0131\u011f\u0131 otorite fig\u00fcr\u00fcd\u00fcr. Elbette babalar disiplin sa\u011flamada olduk\u00e7a \u00f6nemli bir role sahiptirler. Ancak bu, baban\u0131n ba\u011f\u0131rmas\u0131, azarlamas\u0131, cezaland\u0131rmas\u0131, korkutmas\u0131 ya da tehdit etmesiyle olu\u015fturulmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131nda \u00e7ocuk ve baban\u0131n g\u00fcven ili\u015fkisini zedeleyebilir. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Oysaki disiplin kavram\u0131n\u0131 son derece olumsuz olan bu \u00f6rneklerle bir araya getirmek olduk\u00e7a b\u00fcy\u00fck bir hatad\u0131r. Disiplin, baban\u0131n sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ileti\u015fim kurmas\u0131, a\u00e7\u0131k a\u00e7\u0131k evin kurallar\u0131n\u0131 belirlemesi, belirlerken aile \u00fcyelerine dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131, esnek olmas\u0131, g\u00fcvenli olmas\u0131 ve anneyle tutarl\u0131 olmas\u0131ndan ge\u00e7er. <\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_12426\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12426\" style=\"width: 800px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-12426\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T144802.240.png?resize=696%2C494&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Baba ve \u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisi neden \u00f6nemlidir?\" width=\"696\" height=\"494\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T144802.240.png?resize=300%2C213&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T144802.240.png?resize=768%2C545&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T144802.240.png?resize=696%2C494&amp;ssl=1 696w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T144802.240.png?w=874&amp;ssl=1 874w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 696px) 100vw, 696px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-12426\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Baba ve \u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisi neden \u00f6nemlidir?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>\u00c7ocuklar, kurallar\u0131 birisi ona ba\u011f\u0131rmadan, nedeniyle anlatt\u0131\u011f\u0131nda ve i\u00e7selle\u015ftirdi\u011finde daha \u00e7abuk uyum geli\u015ftirir.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00d6zetle, babalar hem annelerin anneli\u011fe al\u0131\u015fma s\u00fcrecine hem de \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n duygusal, zihinsel ve sosyal geli\u015fimine katk\u0131 sa\u011flar. Duygusal g\u00fcvenlik kavram\u0131n\u0131 besler. Anne ve bebek i\u00e7in en temel gereksinimdir. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ebeveynli\u011fin do\u011fas\u0131n\u0131 zenginle\u015ftirenlerdir. Sosyal ya\u015fam\u0131 \u00f6\u011fretendir. Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 cinsel kimlik geli\u015fiminde en \u00f6nemlidir. Kar\u015f\u0131 cins ile kurulacak ileti\u015fimde belirleyicidir. G\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ve destekleyici hissettirir. <\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><strong>Baba ile etkili ileti\u015fimde olan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n<\/strong>; \u00f6zg\u00fcvenlerinin, d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnme becerilerinin, akademik becerilerinin daha y\u00fcksek oldu\u011fu ortaya konmu\u015ftur. \u00d6zellikle ruh sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan de\u011ferlendirildi\u011finde babas\u0131 ile olumlu ili\u015fki i\u00e7inde olan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ruhsal sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n daha olumlu y\u00f6nde geli\u015fti\u011fi de bir ger\u00e7ektir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><strong>Babas\u0131yla iyi ileti\u015fimi olan \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n;<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kendisini ifade etme becerilerinin geli\u015fti\u011fini<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sosyal ileti\u015fim kurabilme yetene\u011finin artt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bireyselle\u015fme s\u00fcrecini tamamlad\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u0130\u00e7g\u00fcd\u00fclerini kontrol etmesini \u00f6\u011frendiklerini<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Sosyal adaptasyonda daha ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 olmalar\u0131n\u0131<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Kendileriyle bar\u0131\u015f\u0131k olduklar\u0131n\u0131<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Akademik ba\u015far\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131n daha y\u00fcksek oldu\u011funu<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Arkada\u015flar\u0131yla uyumlu olduklar\u0131n\u0131<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Liderlik \u00f6zelliklerinin geli\u015fmi\u015f oldu\u011funu<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Ba\u011f\u0131ms\u0131z davranma becerilerinin geli\u015fti\u011fini<\/span><\/li>\n<li style=\"font-weight: 400;\" aria-level=\"1\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Zek\u00e2 geli\u015fimi i\u00e7in de \u00f6nemli bir destek alm\u0131\u015f olduklar\u0131 bilinmektedir.\u00a0<\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Babalar\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funa zaman ay\u0131rarak ve bunu ger\u00e7ekten istedi\u011fini belli ederek, odaklanarak \u00e7ocu\u011fu ile konu\u015fmas\u0131, kitap okumas\u0131, aktiviteler yapmas\u0131, olaylar hakk\u0131nda onun ne d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnd\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc sormas\u0131, oyunlar\u0131nda ona e\u015flik etmesi, \u00e7ocu\u011funu sevdi\u011fini hissettirmesi hatta sar\u0131lmas\u0131 bile, \u00e7ocu\u011fun zek\u00e2 geli\u015fimini olumlu etkilemektedir.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">B\u00fct\u00fcn bu bilgiler \u0131\u015f\u0131\u011f\u0131nda baba olman\u0131n de\u011ferini, \u00f6nemini ve k\u0131ymetini bilmek \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/bebek\/yeni-anneler-icin-bebek-bakim-rehberi\/\"><strong>Anneler<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0burada bulu\u015fuyor! Siz de akl\u0131n\u0131za tak\u0131lanlar\u0131, merak ettiklerinizi veya \u00f6\u011frenmek istediklerinizi bize\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/forum.annebebekkulubu.com\/\"><strong>Forum Anne Bebek Kul\u00fcb\u00fc<\/strong>\u00a0<\/a>\u00fczerinden yazabilirsiniz. Kad\u0131nlar olarak birlikte g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcy\u00fcz!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Baba olmak ve baban\u0131n g\u00f6revleri nelerdir? Baba ve \u00e7ocuk aras\u0131ndaki ba\u011f nas\u0131l olmal\u0131d\u0131r? Gebelikte baba deste\u011fi neden \u00f6nemlidir? Baba ve bebe\u011fi aras\u0131ndaki ileti\u015fimin \u00f6nemi nedir?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":9,"featured_media":12430,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-12412","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aile"},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/11\/Adsiz-tasarim-2021-11-12T151712.205.png?fit=874%2C620&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12412","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/9"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12412"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12412\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12430"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12412"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12412"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12412"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}