{"id":12163,"date":"2021-10-11T19:23:17","date_gmt":"2021-10-11T16:23:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=12163"},"modified":"2021-10-11T19:23:17","modified_gmt":"2021-10-11T16:23:17","slug":"mukemmel-anne-mi-iyi-anne-mi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/mukemmel-anne-mi-iyi-anne-mi\/","title":{"rendered":"M\u00fckemmel anne mi? \u0130yi anne  mi?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-light-blue ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Yaz\u0131 \u0130\u00e7eri\u011fi<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a57aa1645466\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a57aa1645466\"  aria-label=\"A\u00e7\/Kapat\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/mukemmel-anne-mi-iyi-anne-mi\/#Mukemmel_Degil_Iyi_Anneyim\" >M\u00fckemmel De\u011fil, \u0130yi Anneyim<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/mukemmel-anne-mi-iyi-anne-mi\/#Kadin_ne_zaman_kendini_yeterli_bir_anne_olarak_gorur\" >Kad\u0131n ne zaman kendini yeterli bir anne olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcr?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/mukemmel-anne-mi-iyi-anne-mi\/#Mukemmellik_cabasinda_olan_annenin_cocugu_nasil_olur\" >M\u00fckemmellik \u00e7abas\u0131nda olan annenin \u00e7ocu\u011fu nas\u0131l olur?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>Sosyal medya ile beraber bir \u00e7ok anne <strong>&#8220;m\u00fckemmel anne&#8221;<\/strong> olma aray\u0131\u015f\u0131na girdi. M\u00fckemmel anne ya da iyi anne olmak ad\u0131na yap\u0131lan yanl\u0131\u015flar nelerdir? Mutlu aile olmak i\u00e7in nelere dikkat etmek gerekir? \u0130yi anne miyim? Nas\u0131l m\u00fckemmel anne olurum?<strong>\u00a0Uzm. Aile Dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131 Kimya \u00c7if\u00e7i Dumlu, <\/strong>m\u00fckemmel anne mi, iyi anne mi gibi sorular\u0131n cevab\u0131n\u0131 <strong>Anne Bebek Kul\u00fcb\u00fc <\/strong>okuyucular\u0131 i\u00e7in yazd\u0131.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mukemmel_Degil_Iyi_Anneyim\"><\/span><strong>M\u00fckemmel De\u011fil, \u0130yi Anneyim<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>M\u00fckemmel anne olma \u00e7abas\u0131n\u0131n alt\u0131nda yatan sebepler nelerdir? Bu durum teknoloji ve sosyal medya ile ne kadar ba\u011flant\u0131l\u0131?<\/p>\n<p>Son y\u0131llarda sosyal medyan\u0131n da etkisiyle s\u00fcper g\u00f6r\u00fcnmeye \u00e7abalayan her rol\u00fcn\u00fc en m\u00fckemmel \u015fekilde yapmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan bunun yan\u0131nda da m\u00fckemmel \u00f6tesi bir \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftiren ya da b\u00f6yle olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan anne modelleri say\u0131s\u0131 her ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn art\u0131\u015f g\u00f6steriyor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Peki bu \u00e7aba neden? <\/strong><strong>Do\u011fru olan bu mu? M\u00fckemmel anne mi? Mutlu anne mi? Peki \u00e7ocuklar?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>M\u00fckemmellik tak\u0131nt\u0131s\u0131 olan annelerin, m\u00fckemmel olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan proje \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131 gelecekte ne bekliyor?<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>Kad\u0131n<\/strong>; birey olman\u0131n yans\u0131ra evlat, karde\u015f, abla, teyze, hala, gelin, e\u015f ve anne gibi pek \u00e7ok rol\u00fc i\u00e7inde bar\u0131nd\u0131rmaktad\u0131r. Annelik her kad\u0131n\u0131n \u00fcstlendi\u011fi en k\u0131ymetli rold\u00fcr. \u00d6yle ki bir kad\u0131n anne oldu\u011fu zaman hayat\u0131ndaki di\u011fer b\u00fct\u00fcn rolleri geri planda kalmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Toplumda anne olduktan sonra empoze edilen <strong>&#8220;m\u00fckemmel olmak zorundas\u0131n&#8221;<\/strong> bask\u0131s\u0131 ve beklentileri annelerin ruh sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 olumsuz etkilemektedir. Teknolojik geli\u015fmelerle birlikte internetin, sosyal medyan\u0131n ve ak\u0131ll\u0131 telefonlar\u0131n hayat\u0131m\u0131za girmesi bilgiye ula\u015fmam\u0131z\u0131 kolayla\u015ft\u0131rd\u0131\u011f\u0131 gibi birtak\u0131m sorunlar\u0131 da beraberinde getirdi.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuk yeti\u015ftirme konusunda internette bilgi kirlili\u011fi artt\u0131. Maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z sosyal medyan\u0131n anneler aras\u0131nda s\u0131k kullan\u0131lmas\u0131 ve m\u00fckemmel \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmenin s\u0131rlar\u0131n\u0131 pop\u00fcler olmak amac\u0131yla kendi hayatlar\u0131n\u0131n en detay\u0131na inerek payla\u015fmalar\u0131 anneler aras\u0131nda <strong>&#8220;Ben iyi bir anne miyim?, Ben neden m\u00fckemmel anne de\u011filim?, Benim \u00e7ocu\u011fum neden bu geli\u015fim \u00f6zelli\u011fine sahip de\u011fil?&#8221;<\/strong> gibi kendine ve ailesine y\u00f6nelik kayg\u0131lar ya\u015famaktad\u0131r. Bunlara ek olarak &#8220;m\u00fckemmel&#8221; olma kayg\u0131s\u0131 da eklenmi\u015ftir.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fckemmellikten anla\u015f\u0131lan, her \u015feyin d\u00f6rt d\u00f6rtl\u00fck olaca\u011f\u0131 y\u00f6n\u00fcnde ilerledi\u011fi zaman, o ki\u015fi i\u00e7in m\u00fcmk\u00fcn olmayan bir m\u00fckemmellik olmaktad\u0131r. Ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i olmayan m\u00fckemmellikler; m\u00fckemmel olam\u0131yorum diyerek hi\u00e7bir \u015fey yapmamaya ba\u015flanmas\u0131na neden olmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Ki\u015fi ben m\u00fckemmel bir anne olam\u0131yorum diye her \u015feyi b\u0131rak\u0131yor ve depresyona giriyor. Oysa ki m\u00fckemmellik elindeki imk\u00e2nlar\u0131 en iyi \u015fekilde kullanmakt\u0131r. Yoksa bir kitab\u0131 al\u0131p ondan &#8220;<strong>m\u00fckemmel<\/strong>i&#8221; i okuyup da m\u00fckemmel olmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmak sadece hayal k\u0131r\u0131kl\u0131\u011f\u0131na neden olur.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fckemmel olan bir ki\u015fi, bir anne <strong>&#8220;Ben m\u00fckemmel anne olmal\u0131y\u0131m.&#8221;<\/strong> derken \u00e7ocu\u011fu da m\u00fckemmel olsun ister. Bu durumda \u00e7ocu\u011fun her hareketinin m\u00fckemmel olmas\u0131n\u0131 ister, \u00e7ocu\u011fun geli\u015fim d\u00f6nemlerini g\u00f6rmezden gelir ve geli\u015fiminin \u00fcst\u00fcnde iealize etti\u011fi \u015fekilde bir olgunluk bekler.<\/p>\n<p>Bu da ger\u00e7ek\u00e7i olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 i\u00e7in b\u00f6yle m\u00fckemmeliyet\u00e7i annelerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131 kendilerini hem herkesten \u00fcst\u00fcn hem de bazen yetersiz hissederler; ayr\u0131ca anneye hem sevgi hem \u00f6fke besleyebilir. B\u00f6yle \u00e7eli\u015fkili duygular ortaya \u00e7\u0131kabilir.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Kadin_ne_zaman_kendini_yeterli_bir_anne_olarak_gorur\"><\/span><strong>Kad\u0131n ne zaman kendini yeterli bir anne olarak g\u00f6r\u00fcr?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u00c7ocu\u011funun yan\u0131ndan hi\u00e7 ayr\u0131lmayan anne mi m\u00fckemmeldir? Yoksa \u00e7ocu\u011funa 2 ya\u015f\u0131nda tuvalet e\u011fitimini veren mi? \u00c7ocuk hen\u00fcz yeni do\u011fdu\u011fu zaman odas\u0131n\u0131 ay\u0131ran anne mi?<br \/>\nYa da m\u00fckemmel anne \u00e7ocu\u011funu hi\u00e7 a\u011flatmay\u0131p istediklerini an\u0131nda yapan mi? Kesinlikle <strong>\u00e7ocu\u011funa hi\u00e7 ba\u011f\u0131rmayan anne m\u00fckemmel annedir!<\/strong><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_12165\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12165\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-12165\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-51.png?resize=696%2C452&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"M\u00fckemmel anne olmak i\u00e7in yap\u0131lan yanl\u0131\u015flar nelerdir?\" width=\"696\" height=\"452\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-51.png?w=1000&amp;ssl=1 1000w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-51.png?resize=300%2C195&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-51.png?resize=768%2C499&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-51.png?resize=696%2C452&amp;ssl=1 696w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 696px) 100vw, 696px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-12165\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">M\u00fckemmel anne olmak i\u00e7in yap\u0131lan yanl\u0131\u015flar nelerdir?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>&#8220;M\u00fckemmel&#8221; kelimesinin ki\u015fiye y\u00fckledi\u011fi ne kadar fazla sorumluluk var de\u011fil mi?<\/strong> Bunlar ve daha fazla sorunun bir tanesine bile olumsuz bir cevap vermek kad\u0131n\u0131n anne rol\u00fcnde kendini yetersiz hissettirmeye yetiyor.<\/p>\n<p>Fark\u0131nda olunmas\u0131 gereken konu annenin mutlu olmas\u0131 \u00e7ocu\u011fun mutlu olmas\u0131 demek oldu\u011fudur. Genel pozitif psikolojideki temel kurallar anne mutlulu\u011fu i\u00e7in de ge\u00e7erlidir. \u00c7ocuk olduktan sonra kad\u0131n genellikle b\u00fct\u00fcn ilgisini ve enerjisini \u00e7ocu\u011fa vermektedir. Erkek ise ilgi ve enerjisini i\u015fine vermektedir. B\u00f6yle olunca kad\u0131n erkek aras\u0131ndaki ilgi, ili\u015fki ve e\u015f olma rol\u00fc zay\u0131fl\u0131yor.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130lgi zay\u0131flamas\u0131 sonucunda da evlilik y\u0131pranmaya ba\u015fl\u0131yor, aradaki ba\u011flar zamanla zay\u0131fl\u0131yor. Zamanla e\u015f olma rol\u00fc kaybolarak sadece anne ve baba rolleri kal\u0131yor; bir m\u00fcddet sonrada krizler ortaya \u00e7\u0131kmaya ba\u015fl\u0131yor. <strong>E\u015fim beni sevmiyor mu?<\/strong> E\u015fim benimle ilgilenmiyor bana zaman ay\u0131rm\u0131yor gibi kendini de\u011fersiz ve ili\u015fkinin t\u00fckenmi\u015flik hissi ya\u015fanmaktad\u0131r. H\u00e2lbuki buna e\u015fler sebep olmaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c7ocuk olduktan sonra yeni rol\u00fcn eski rollerin yan\u0131nda yer almas\u0131 gerekirken; eski rollerin silmesi sorunlara neden olmaktad\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c7\u00f6z\u00fcm olarak;<\/strong> e\u015flerin kendini sadece bir \u015feye adamamas\u0131 gerekir (sadece bebe\u011fe, sadece i\u015fe vb.) e\u015fler birbirlerine mola ile dinlendirme s\u00fcresi ile destek olmal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocuk bak\u0131m\u0131 anne-baba taraf\u0131ndan kar\u015f\u0131lanmal\u0131, yaln\u0131zca anneye bu sorumluluk b\u0131rak\u0131lmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Bebe\u011fi veya yorgunlu\u011fu bahane ederek e\u015fine yeterince zaman ay\u0131rmamak durumu olmamal\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7iftler anne baba olman\u0131n d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda kar\u0131-koca ili\u015fkilerini de devam ettirmeye \u00f6zen g\u00f6stermelidir.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_12167\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12167\" style=\"width: 1000px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-12167 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-49.png?resize=696%2C452&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"M\u00fckemmellik \u00e7abas\u0131nda olan annenin \u00e7ocu\u011fu nas\u0131l olur?\" width=\"696\" height=\"452\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-49.png?w=1000&amp;ssl=1 1000w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-49.png?resize=300%2C195&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-49.png?resize=768%2C499&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-49.png?resize=696%2C452&amp;ssl=1 696w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 696px) 100vw, 696px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-12167\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">M\u00fckemmellik \u00e7abas\u0131nda olan annenin \u00e7ocu\u011fu nas\u0131l olur?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Mukemmellik_cabasinda_olan_annenin_cocugu_nasil_olur\"><\/span><strong>M\u00fckemmellik \u00e7abas\u0131nda olan annenin \u00e7ocu\u011fu nas\u0131l olur?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>M\u00fckemmel anne olmal\u0131y\u0131m diyen bir ki\u015fi \u00e7ocu\u011funun da m\u00fckemmel olmas\u0131n\u0131 ister. \u00c7ocu\u011fun geli\u015fim d\u00f6nemlerini sendromlarla \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcms\u00fczl\u00fck ve \u00e7at\u0131\u015fmalarla ge\u00e7irir. M\u00fckemmel anneler \u00e7ocu\u011fun hata yapma haklar\u0131n\u0131 istemez, mum gibi \u00e7ocuk isterler.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fckemmeliyet\u00e7i bir anne \u00e7ocu\u011funu bir proje gibi yeti\u015ftirmek ister. Halbuki \u00e7ocu\u011fun tek istedi\u011fi \u015fey kabullenildi\u011fini ve sevildi\u011fini hissetmektir. 2 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun temel ihtiyac\u0131 annesiyle g\u00fcvenli ba\u011f i\u00e7erisinde olmakt\u0131r; yabanc\u0131 dil \u00f6\u011frenmek de\u011fildir. 3 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun ihtiyac\u0131 ke\u015ffetmenin \u00f6zg\u00fcrl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde oyun oynamakt\u0131r; yaz\u0131 yazmas\u0131 de\u011fil.<\/p>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n geli\u015fim ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 anlamak as\u0131l \u00f6nemli oland\u0131r. \u00c7ocu\u011funuza verece\u011finiz en de\u011ferli \u015fey bir kafeye gitti\u011finizde personelin &#8220;ka\u00e7 ki\u015fisiniz efendim&#8221; sorusuna \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu da bir birey olarak cevap vermenizdir. Yani \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun ayr\u0131 bir birey oldu\u011funu kabul ederek sevginizi hissettirip g\u00fcven vermenizdir.<\/p>\n<p>M\u00fckemmel anne olaca\u011f\u0131m derken hayat\u0131 \u0131skalamay\u0131n; anneli\u011finize izin verin..<br \/>\nBir \u00e7ocu\u011fun en \u00f6nemli ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131n &#8220;<strong>mutlu bir anne<\/strong>&#8221; oldu\u011fu ger\u00e7e\u011fini akl\u0131n\u0131zdan \u00e7\u0131karmay\u0131n. Bu do\u011frultuda a\u015fa\u011f\u0131daki \u00f6nerilere uymak iyi gelecektir:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Hi\u00e7bir \u015feyin m\u00fckemmel olamayaca\u011f\u0131 ger\u00e7e\u011fini g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde bulundurarak; anneli\u011finizin tad\u0131n\u0131 \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131n.<\/li>\n<li>\u0130\u00e7inden \u00e7\u0131kamad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131z durumlarda uzman yard\u0131m\u0131 al\u0131n.<\/li>\n<li>Kendinize mutlaka zaman ay\u0131r\u0131n.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocuk geli\u015fim ve bak\u0131m\u0131 konusunda e\u015finizle beraber hareket edin ve t\u00fcm sorumlulu\u011fu \u00fcst\u00fcn\u00fcze almay\u0131n.<\/li>\n<li>Hay\u0131r demeyi \u00f6\u011frenin. Herkese ve her \u015feye yetemeyece\u011finizi unutmay\u0131n. Baz\u0131 durumlarda &#8220;hay\u0131r&#8221; demenin konforuna ba\u015fvurun.<\/li>\n<li>Hata yapmaya, seni mutsuz eden \u015feyleri b\u0131rakmaya, k\u00f6t\u00fc g\u00fcnlerinin olmas\u0131na, fikirlerinin<br \/>\nde\u011fi\u015fmesine, kendine \u00f6zen g\u00f6stermeye ve bilmeme hakk\u0131n\u0131n olmas\u0131na izin ver..<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/bebek\/yeni-anneler-icin-bebek-bakim-rehberi\/\"><strong>Anneler<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0burada bulu\u015fuyor! Siz de akl\u0131n\u0131za tak\u0131lanlar\u0131, merak ettiklerinizi veya \u00f6\u011frenmek istediklerinizi bize\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/forum.annebebekkulubu.com\/\"><strong>Forum Anne Bebek Kul\u00fcb\u00fc<\/strong>\u00a0<\/a>\u00fczerinden yazabilirsiniz. Kad\u0131nlar olarak birlikte g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcy\u00fcz!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Sosyal medya ile beraber bir \u00e7ok anne &#8220;m\u00fckemmel anne&#8221; olma aray\u0131\u015f\u0131na girdi. M\u00fckemmel anne ya da iyi anne olmak ad\u0131na yap\u0131lan yanl\u0131\u015flar nelerdir? Mutlu aile olmak i\u00e7in nelere dikkat etmek gerekir? \u0130yi anne miyim? Nas\u0131l m\u00fckemmel anne olurum?\u00a0Uzm. Aile Dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131 Kimya \u00c7if\u00e7i Dumlu, m\u00fckemmel anne mi, iyi anne mi gibi sorular\u0131n cevab\u0131n\u0131 Anne Bebek Kul\u00fcb\u00fc [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":169,"featured_media":12166,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-12163","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","category-aile"],"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-50.png?fit=1000%2C650&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12163","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/169"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=12163"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/12163\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/12166"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=12163"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=12163"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=12163"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}