{"id":12117,"date":"2021-10-06T12:23:59","date_gmt":"2021-10-06T09:23:59","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=12117"},"modified":"2021-10-06T12:24:54","modified_gmt":"2021-10-06T09:24:54","slug":"akran-zorbaligi-ve-bas-etme-yollari","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/akran-zorbaligi-ve-bas-etme-yollari\/","title":{"rendered":"Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve ba\u015f etme yollar\u0131"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_85 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-light-blue ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Yaz\u0131 \u0130\u00e7eri\u011fi<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a57aa1a657ab\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-6a57aa1a657ab\"  aria-label=\"A\u00e7\/Kapat\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/akran-zorbaligi-ve-bas-etme-yollari\/#Akran_Zorbaligi_Nedir\" >Akran Zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 Nedir?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/akran-zorbaligi-ve-bas-etme-yollari\/#Bir_kisi_nasil_bir_zorbaya_donusur\" >Bir ki\u015fi nas\u0131l bir zorbaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-3\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/akran-zorbaligi-ve-bas-etme-yollari\/#Akran_zorbaligi_yapan_cocugunuz_mu\" >Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 yapan \u00e7ocu\u011funuz mu?<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-4\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/akran-zorbaligi-ve-bas-etme-yollari\/#Anne-baba_olarak_cocugunuzun_bir_magdur_oldugunu_ogrenirseniz_neler_yapmalisiniz\" >Anne-baba olarak \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun bir ma\u011fdur oldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011frenirseniz neler yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar b\u00fcy\u00fcrken sosyal \u00e7evrelerinde baz\u0131 olumsuz davran\u0131\u015flar yapabilir ya da maruz kalabilirler. Bu olumsuz davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n en ba\u015f\u0131nda da akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 yer al\u0131r. Okulda, parkta belki karde\u015fler aras\u0131nda bile g\u00f6zlemlenebilir. Arkada\u015f aras\u0131nda olur, \u00e7ocuktur onlar kendi aralar\u0131nda \u00e7\u00f6zerler diyerek g\u00f6z ard\u0131 edilmemelidir. Ya\u015fan\u0131lan akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne g\u00f6re \u00e7ocuklar \u00fczerindeki etkisi giderek artar.\u00a0<strong>Uzm. Aile Dan\u0131\u015fman\u0131 Kimya \u00c7if\u00e7i Dumlu <\/strong>akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve ba\u015f etme yollar\u0131 ile ilgili<strong> Anne Bebek Kul\u00fcb\u00fc <\/strong>okuyucular\u0131 i\u00e7in yazd\u0131.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Benim \u00e7ocu\u011fum yapmaz m\u0131?<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>Sana vurana sen de vur mu?<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>Ma\u011fdur biziz de zorba kim?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Zorbal\u0131\u011fa maruz kalmak \u00e7ocuk ve ergenlerin geli\u015fim s\u00fcre\u00e7lerini sekteye u\u011frat\u0131r ve \u00f6m\u00fcr boyu devam eden negatif izler b\u0131rak\u0131r.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Akran_Zorbaligi_Nedir\"><\/span><strong>Akran Zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 Nedir?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 tan\u0131mlayacak olursak; k\u0131\u015fk\u0131rtma unsuru olmaks\u0131z\u0131n aralar\u0131nda fiziksel ya da psikolojik a\u00e7\u0131dan g\u00fc\u00e7 e\u015fitsizli\u011fi olan \u00e7ocuklardan g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcn\u00fcn (zorba), kar\u015f\u0131 tarafa (ma\u011fdur) bilerek ve isteyerek, planl\u0131, kas\u0131tl\u0131, sistemli bir bi\u00e7imde; belli zaman aral\u0131klar\u0131 ile uygulad\u0131\u011f\u0131,<br \/>\nzorbal\u0131\u011fa maruz kalan ki\u015fi de korku, endi\u015fe, \u00f6zg\u00fcven d\u00fc\u015f\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc duygular\u0131n\u0131 hissettiren ve sosyal ya\u015fam\u0131n\u0131 ve gelecek planlar\u0131n\u0131 sekteye u\u011fratt\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve ma\u011fdura kar\u015f\u0131 fiziksel, s\u00f6zel, psikolojik sald\u0131r\u0131y\u0131 kapsamaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Zorbal\u0131k iki \u015fekilde uygulanmaktad\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Do\u011frudan uygulanan akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/strong>, hedef olarak se\u00e7ilen ki\u015fiye y\u00f6neltilen a\u00e7\u0131k sald\u0131r\u0131lar\u0131, alay ve hakaret etme gibi s\u00f6zel davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131; <strong>dolayl\u0131 sald\u0131rganl\u0131k<\/strong> ise hedef al\u0131nan ki\u015finin arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkilerini bozma, ki\u015fiyi gruptan d\u0131\u015flama ve g\u00f6rmezlikten gelme gibi davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 kapsamaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_12120\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12120\" style=\"width: 874px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-12120\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-38.png?resize=696%2C494&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile nas\u0131l ba\u015f edilir?\" width=\"696\" height=\"494\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-38.png?w=874&amp;ssl=1 874w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-38.png?resize=300%2C213&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-38.png?resize=768%2C545&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-38.png?resize=696%2C494&amp;ssl=1 696w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 696px) 100vw, 696px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-12120\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile nas\u0131l ba\u015f edilir?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>Zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131n fiziksel, s\u00f6zel, sosyal ve ki\u015fiyi sosyal ortam\u0131ndan d\u0131\u015flama gibi daha belirgin y\u00f6nleri vard\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>Fiziksel zorbal\u0131k<\/strong>, vurma, itme gibi ki\u015fiye fiziksel temas yoluyla zarar veren davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 kapsamaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>S\u00f6zel zorbal\u0131k<\/strong>, ki\u015finin di\u011ferlerine s\u00f6zel olarak rahats\u0131zl\u0131k verdi\u011fi, hakaret etti\u011fi, lakaplar takt\u0131\u011f\u0131 veya ki\u015finin \u00f6zellikleri ve de\u011ferleriyle alay etti\u011fi durumlar\u0131 kapsamaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sosyal akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131<\/strong>, ma\u011fdur hakk\u0131nda dedikodu \u00e7\u0131kar\u0131lmas\u0131 ve sosyal ortamdan d\u0131\u015flanmas\u0131 gibi ki\u015finin sosyal konumuna, ili\u015fkilerine ve ait olma duygusuna zarar vermek amac\u0131yla ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirilen davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 kapsamaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Zorbal\u0131k<\/strong>; ama\u00e7l\u0131 ve planl\u0131 yap\u0131l\u0131r. S\u00fcreklili\u011fi vard\u0131r. Zorba ki\u015fi ma\u011fdurun \u00fczerinde bask\u0131 kurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_12121\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12121\" style=\"width: 1748px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-12121\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-37.png?resize=696%2C494&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile ilgili neler yap\u0131labilir?\" width=\"696\" height=\"494\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-37.png?w=1748&amp;ssl=1 1748w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-37.png?resize=300%2C213&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-37.png?resize=1024%2C726&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-37.png?resize=768%2C545&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-37.png?resize=1536%2C1090&amp;ssl=1 1536w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-37.png?resize=696%2C494&amp;ssl=1 696w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-37.png?resize=1068%2C758&amp;ssl=1 1068w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-37.png?w=1392&amp;ssl=1 1392w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 696px) 100vw, 696px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-12121\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 ile nas\u0131l ba\u015f edilir?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Bir_kisi_nasil_bir_zorbaya_donusur\"><\/span><strong>Bir ki\u015fi nas\u0131l bir zorbaya d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015f\u00fcr?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><strong>G\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fme s\u0131ras\u0131nda:<\/strong><br \/>\n&#8220;\u00c7ocuk k\u0131z\u0131ma, hem annesi hem de babas\u0131 yan\u0131nda oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in ve g\u00fczel bir evi oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in zorbal\u0131k yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yledi.&#8221; Elbette bu ba\u015fkas\u0131na zorbal\u0131k yapmak i\u00e7in bir gerek\u00e7e olamaz, ama zorba \u00e7ocu\u011fun davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n &#8220;a\u00e7\u0131k\u00e7a bir k\u0131skan\u00e7l\u0131k davran\u0131\u015f\u0131&#8221; oldu\u011funu fark etmi\u015f olmaktay\u0131z.<\/p>\n<p>Bazen, zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131n alt\u0131nda derin bir neden yat\u0131yor olabilir, zorbalar\u0131n ev hayatlar\u0131nda sorunlar olabilir, kendileri de zorbal\u0131\u011fa maruz kalm\u0131\u015f olabilir veya m\u00fccadele ettikleri ba\u015fka psikolojik sorunlar olabilir ve b\u00f6ylece kendilerini \u00f6fkeli ve savunmas\u0131z hissediyor olabilirler.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Akran_zorbaligi_yapan_cocugunuz_mu\"><\/span><strong>Akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 yapan \u00e7ocu\u011funuz mu?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><strong>Anne-baba olarak \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun bir zorba oldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011frenirseniz neler yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Zorbal\u0131k davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131yla m\u00fccadelede en \u00e7ok ya\u015fanan ve en \u00f6nemli sorun zorbaca davran\u0131\u015f g\u00f6steren \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n ailelerinin bu davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 normal olarak tan\u0131mlay\u0131p m\u00fcdahale etmemesidir. Fakat bilinmesi gereken \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n geli\u015fim d\u00f6nemlerinde, zorbal\u0131k sosyal ili\u015fkilerde ya\u015fanan normal bir durum de\u011fildir.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzla konuyu sakin bir dille ancak konunun ciddiyetine dikkat ederek konu\u015fun, zorbal\u0131k davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n do\u011fal bir davran\u0131\u015f olarak de\u011ferlendirilmedi\u011fini a\u00e7\u0131klay\u0131n.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun bu t\u00fcr davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 asla onaylamayaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 kesin bir dille belirtin.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131 davran\u0131\u015f\u0131 asla savunmay\u0131n.<\/li>\n<li>Sald\u0131rgan davran\u0131\u015flar ile istedi\u011fini elde etmesine izin vermeyin.<\/li>\n<li>Ebeveynler olarak di\u011fer konularda oldu\u011fu gibi bu konuda da \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131za kar\u015f\u0131 tutarl\u0131 ve kararl\u0131 davran\u0131n.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuza bu davran\u0131\u015flara maruz kalan arkada\u015f\u0131n\u0131n duygusunu anlat\u0131n, empati kurmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flay\u0131n. Empati yaparken zorbal\u0131k tutumu sergilemektedir ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131n.<\/li>\n<li>Sorun \u00e7\u00f6zerken daha bar\u0131\u015f\u00e7\u0131l stratejiler izlemesini ve sorunlar\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l \u00e7\u00f6zebilece\u011fi onusunda ona destek olun.<\/li>\n<li>Karde\u015fler aras\u0131nda b\u00f6yle bir durum varsa mutlaka m\u00fcdahale edin, bu t\u00fcr davran\u0131\u015flara izin vermeyin.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Anne-baba_olarak_cocugunuzun_bir_magdur_oldugunu_ogrenirseniz_neler_yapmalisiniz\"><\/span><strong>Anne-baba olarak \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun bir ma\u011fdur oldu\u011funu \u00f6\u011frenirseniz neler yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu dinleyin ve ona g\u00fcven verin bunu hissettirin.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuza zorbal\u0131k davran\u0131\u015f\u0131n\u0131n onun hatas\u0131 olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve bunlar\u0131n sadece onun ba\u015f\u0131na gelmedi\u011fini ifade edin.<\/li>\n<li>Ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 s\u0131k\u0131nt\u0131lar\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131k u\u00e7lu sorular sorarak anlamaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011funuzla s\u0131k s\u0131k sohbet edin.<\/li>\n<li>Empati kurun ve sen neden eziliyorsun gibi ifadelerle \u00f6zg\u00fcvenini sorgulamay\u0131n.<\/li>\n<li>Sen ne yapt\u0131n ki sana b\u00f6yle davran\u0131ld\u0131 \u015feklinde ifadelerle \u00e7ocu\u011funuzu su\u00e7lamay\u0131n.<\/li>\n<li>Ya\u015fan\u0131lan durumu hafifletmeyin Bu durum ile nas\u0131l ba\u015f edebilece\u011fi \u00fczerine birlikte \u00e7\u00f6z\u00fcm aray\u0131n, ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 halinde mutlaka psikolojik destek sa\u011flay\u0131n.<\/li>\n<li>Okul y\u00f6netimi ve rehberlik servisi ile ileti\u015fime ge\u00e7ip, okulda zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 \u00f6nleme \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmalar\u0131n\u0131n yap\u0131lmas\u0131n\u0131 isteyin.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun iyi oldu\u011fu ve onu mutlu eden bir alan ke\u015ffedin.<\/li>\n<li>Zorbal\u0131k d\u00f6ng\u00fcs\u00fcnde yer almayan arkada\u015flar\u0131 ile sosyal ili\u015fkilerini g\u00fc\u00e7lendirmek i\u00e7in okul d\u0131\u015f\u0131 aktiviteler d\u00fczenleyin.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu zorbal\u0131k konusunda do\u011fru bilgilendirin.<\/li>\n<li>Zorbal\u0131kla ba\u015f etmede siz ebeveynlerin deste\u011fi \u00e7ok \u00f6nemlidir.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun bu d\u00f6nemde en \u00e7ok ihtiya\u00e7 duydu\u011fu g\u00fcveni ve deste\u011fi sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in en b\u00fcy\u00fck g\u00f6rev size d\u00fc\u015fmektedir.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<figure id=\"attachment_12122\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-12122\" style=\"width: 874px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-12122\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-39.png?resize=696%2C494&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131na maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l anlars\u0131n\u0131z?\" width=\"696\" height=\"494\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-39.png?w=874&amp;ssl=1 874w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-39.png?resize=300%2C213&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-39.png?resize=768%2C545&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/10\/Adsiz-tasarim-39.png?resize=696%2C494&amp;ssl=1 696w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 696px) 100vw, 696px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-12122\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131na maruz kald\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 nas\u0131l anlars\u0131n\u0131z?<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><strong>G\u00fcven ve deste\u011fi sa\u011flamak d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda hem zorbaca davran\u0131\u015f g\u00f6steren hem de zorbaca davran\u0131\u015ftan ma\u011fdur olan bir \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmemek i\u00e7in uygulayabilece\u011finiz birka\u00e7 \u00f6neri;<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun, \u00f6zellikle sald\u0131rgan davran\u0131\u015flarla istediklerini yerine getirmelerine izin vermemeli, bu t\u00fcr davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 peki\u015ftirmemelisiniz.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuza sosyal olgunluk d\u00fczeyine uygun g\u00f6revler verilerek kendine g\u00fcvenlerinin geli\u015fmesi destek olmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z .<\/li>\n<li>Ebeveynler olarak, \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131 ile ilgili olarak s\u0131kl\u0131kla \u00f6\u011fretmenlerinden bilgi almal\u0131 ve e\u011fer bir alanda sorun belirtilirse, \u00e7ocu\u011funuza nas\u0131l yard\u0131m edebilece\u011finiz konusunda \u00f6\u011fretmenler ve uzmanlar ile i\u015fbirli\u011fi yapmal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuz \u00f6fkeliyken onlarla tart\u0131\u015fmamal\u0131, \u00e7ocuk sakinle\u015ftikten sonra davran\u0131\u015f \u00fczerine birlikte konu\u015fularak de\u011ferlendirmelisiniz.<\/li>\n<li>Seyredilen film ve ya\u015fan\u0131lan ger\u00e7ek olaylar \u00fczerinde mutlaka konu\u015fulmal\u0131, topluma uyan veya uymayan davran\u0131\u015flar birlikte de\u011ferlendirmelisiniz.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzu \u00e7e\u015fitli sosyal ve sportif alanlara y\u00f6neltilmeli, ilgi alanlar\u0131n\u0131 ve hobilerini yapmalar\u0131 i\u00e7in f\u0131rsatlar vermelisiniz.<\/li>\n<li>Aileler \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla payla\u015f\u0131mda bulunma amac\u0131yla sohbetler etmeli, aile toplant\u0131lar\u0131 yap\u0131larak \u00e7ocu\u011fun da g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fleri al\u0131nmal\u0131 ve ya\u015f\u0131na uygun sorumluluklar verilmelidir.<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocu\u011funuzun seyretti\u011fi TV programlar\u0131, filmler ve oynad\u0131\u011f\u0131 bilgisayar oyunlar\u0131 takip etmelisiniz .<\/li>\n<li>\u00c7ocuk geli\u015fiminin her basama\u011f\u0131nda ebeveynler beraber tutarl\u0131 ve kararl\u0131 ad\u0131mlar almal\u0131d\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n benlik ve duygusal ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131 da g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcne al\u0131narak gereken de\u011fer ve ilgi g\u00f6sterilmelidir.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/bebek\/yeni-anneler-icin-bebek-bakim-rehberi\/\"><strong>Yeni anneler<\/strong><\/a>\u00a0burada bulu\u015fuyor! Siz de akl\u0131n\u0131za tak\u0131lanlar\u0131, merak ettiklerinizi veya \u00f6\u011frenmek istediklerinizi bize\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/forum.annebebekkulubu.com\/\"><strong>Forum Anne Bebek Kul\u00fcb\u00fc<\/strong>\u00a0<\/a>\u00fczerinden yazabilirsiniz. Kad\u0131nlar olarak birlikte g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fcy\u00fcz!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocuklar b\u00fcy\u00fcrken sosyal \u00e7evrelerinde baz\u0131 olumsuz davran\u0131\u015flar yapabilir ya da maruz kalabilirler. Bu olumsuz davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n en ba\u015f\u0131nda da akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131 yer al\u0131r. Okulda, parkta belki karde\u015fler aras\u0131nda bile g\u00f6zlemlenebilir. Arkada\u015f aras\u0131nda olur, \u00e7ocuktur onlar kendi aralar\u0131nda \u00e7\u00f6zerler diyerek g\u00f6z ard\u0131 edilmemelidir. Ya\u015fan\u0131lan akran zorbal\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n b\u00fcy\u00fckl\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne g\u00f6re \u00e7ocuklar \u00fczerindeki etkisi giderek artar.\u00a0Uzm. 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