{"id":1105,"date":"2018-04-02T09:15:46","date_gmt":"2018-04-02T06:15:46","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=1105"},"modified":"2018-04-01T12:26:53","modified_gmt":"2018-04-01T09:26:53","slug":"calisan-anne-olmak-daha-mi-avantajli","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/calisan-anne-olmak-daha-mi-avantajli\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7al\u0131\u015fan anne olmak daha m\u0131 avantajl\u0131?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Genel inan\u0131\u015fa g\u00f6re \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan annelerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n di\u011fer \u00e7ocuklara g\u00f6re sorunlu oldu\u011fu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcl\u00fcr. Ancak genel inan\u0131\u015f ger\u00e7e\u011fi yans\u0131tm\u0131yor. <strong>\u00c7al\u0131\u015fan anneler<\/strong> \u00e7o\u011funlukla \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n bak\u0131m\u0131na g\u00fcnde iki saatten daha az zaman harcayabiliyorlar ancak bununla birlikte k\u0131s\u0131tl\u0131 zamanda daha fazla ilgilenerek bu yoksunlu\u011fu telafi edebiliyorlar. \u00d6zellikle aile \u00fcyelerinin hep birlikte oldu\u011fu ak\u015fam saatleri ve hafta sonlar\u0131 zamanlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck b\u00f6l\u00fcm\u00fcn\u00fc ortak faaliyetlerde ge\u00e7irmeleri annenin \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n olumsuz etkisini ortadan kald\u0131r\u0131yor. Birlikte ge\u00e7irilen s\u00fcre k\u0131sa ama nitelikli olabiliyor. B\u00f6ylece\u00a0anne evin ekonomisine katk\u0131da bulunurken, \u00e7ocu\u011fu ve e\u015fiyle de daha kaliteli zaman ge\u00e7irebiliyor.\u00a0 \u0130\u015fte <strong>\u00e7al\u0131\u015fan anne<\/strong> olman\u0131n avantajlar\u0131 ve dezavantajlar\u0131&#8230;<br \/>\n<strong><br \/>\n\u00c7al\u0131\u015fan anneler dikkat\u2026<\/strong><br \/>\nAnnenin \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocu\u011fun ki\u015filik geli\u015fiminde de olumlu etki yapt\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 s\u00f6yleyebiliriz. Annenin \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmas\u0131, \u00e7ocu\u011fun kendi benli\u011fini alg\u0131lamas\u0131nda da \u00f6nemli bir etkiye sahiptir. Bu \u00e7ocuklar <strong>\u201cb\u00fcy\u00fcy\u00fcnce ne olaca\u011f\u0131m\u201d<\/strong> sorusunu daha fazla d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcrler. Hedef belirleyip, bu y\u00f6nde \u00e7aba g\u00f6sterirler. \u00d6zellikle k\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011funda bu olumlu etkiler daha belirgindir. Buna ba\u011fl\u0131 olarak kariyer tutkusu g\u00f6sterirler.\u00a0Bunun yan\u0131 s\u0131ra \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan annelerin i\u015finde ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 memnuniyetsizli\u011fin, stresli ortam\u0131n ve olumsuz \u00e7al\u0131\u015fma ko\u015fullar\u0131n\u0131n aile i\u00e7i ili\u015fkilere yans\u0131d\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6z ard\u0131 edilmemesi gerekir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Kay\u0131n valide\u00a0gelin kavgalar\u0131\u00a0evlilikleri \u00e7\u0131kmaza sokabiliyor<\/strong><br \/>\nEv d\u0131\u015f\u0131nda \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan anneler, \u00e7ocuklar\u0131yla ge\u00e7irdikleri s\u00fcrenin k\u0131sa olmas\u0131 nedeniyle su\u00e7luluk duygusuna kap\u0131labilirler ve bu durum baz\u0131 hatalar\u0131 beraberinde getirebilir.\u00a0 Bunun sonucunda annenin b\u00fcy\u00fck bir \u00f6zveri ile her istedi\u011fini yerine getirme yolunu se\u00e7mesi \u00e7ocu\u011fun \u015f\u0131marmas\u0131na neden olur. Ayr\u0131ca, parasal olanaklar\u0131n\u0131n elverdi\u011fi \u00f6l\u00e7\u00fcde her g\u00fcn eve d\u00f6n\u00fc\u015fte ona hediyeler almak da \u00e7ocu\u011fu maddi \u00e7\u0131karlara y\u00f6neltip, tatminsiz ve bencil bir birey haline getirebilir. Baz\u0131 durumlarda bu su\u00e7luluk duygusu o kadar a\u011f\u0131r basar ki, anne, \u00e7ocu\u011fun t\u00fcm ihtiya\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131 ve g\u00f6revlerini \u00fcst\u00fcne alarak onun ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 bir ki\u015filik geli\u015ftirmesine neden olabilir. Baz\u0131 durumlarda ise \u00e7ocu\u011fun gerekli disiplin ve otoriteden uzak kald\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fclerek, bask\u0131c\u0131 ve a\u015f\u0131r\u0131 disipline dayal\u0131 bir sistem geli\u015ftirilebilir. Oysa ki anne-babadan beklenilen en uygun davran\u0131\u015f, \u00e7ocu\u011fu ile sevgi, \u015fefkat ve g\u00fcven temeline dayanan iyi bir diyalog ve ileti\u015fimin kurulmas\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<div class=\"begenface\">\n<div class=\"etkilesim solda\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Genel inan\u0131\u015fa g\u00f6re \u00e7al\u0131\u015fan annelerin \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n di\u011fer \u00e7ocuklara g\u00f6re sorunlu oldu\u011fu d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcl\u00fcr. Ancak genel inan\u0131\u015f ger\u00e7e\u011fi yans\u0131tm\u0131yor. \u00c7al\u0131\u015fan anneler \u00e7o\u011funlukla \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n\u0131n bak\u0131m\u0131na g\u00fcnde iki saatten daha az zaman harcayabiliyorlar ancak bununla birlikte k\u0131s\u0131tl\u0131 zamanda daha fazla ilgilenerek bu yoksunlu\u011fu telafi edebiliyorlar. \u00d6zellikle aile \u00fcyelerinin hep birlikte oldu\u011fu ak\u015fam saatleri ve hafta sonlar\u0131 zamanlar\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ok b\u00fcy\u00fck [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":80,"featured_media":237,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[632,634,635,636,23,633,631],"class_list":{"0":"post-1105","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aile","8":"tag-bakici","9":"tag-calisan-anne","10":"tag-calisan-anne-haklari","11":"tag-calisan-kadin","12":"tag-cocuk","13":"tag-kavga","14":"tag-kayin-valide"},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/hamile-bebek-is-hayati.jpg?fit=800%2C800&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1105","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/80"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1105"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1105\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/237"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1105"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1105"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1105"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}