{"id":1103,"date":"2018-04-01T12:15:18","date_gmt":"2018-04-01T09:15:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=1103"},"modified":"2018-04-01T12:15:18","modified_gmt":"2018-04-01T09:15:18","slug":"saglikli-anne-cocuk-iliskisi-nasil-olmali","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/saglikli-anne-cocuk-iliskisi-nasil-olmali\/","title":{"rendered":"Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 anne \u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisi nas\u0131l olmal\u0131?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocu\u011fun bir yeti\u015fkin oldu\u011funda ki\u015filik \u00f6zelliklerini olu\u015fturan ve kendi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 tutumlar\u0131n\u0131 belirleyen son derece kritik ve \u00f6nemli bu \u00f6zel\u00a0ileti\u015fim\u00a0\u00e7ocu\u011fun karakterini de belirliyor.\u00a0 Uzmanlar sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir <strong>anne \u00e7ocuk<\/strong> ili\u015fkisinin \u00e7ocu\u011fun karakterini belirledi\u011fini vurguluyor ve annelere tavsiyelerde bulunuyorlar..<\/p>\n<p><strong>Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun ilk sevece\u011fi ve ileti\u015fim kuraca\u011f\u0131 ki\u015fi annesidir<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Uzmanlar, annenin \u00e7ocu\u011funu beslemesinin, ilgilenmesinin ve onu hayata haz\u0131rlamas\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ocukta sevgi ve g\u00fcven duygusunu olu\u015fturdu\u011funu belirtiyor. \u00c7ocu\u011fun yeti\u015fkin oldu\u011funda bu iki temel duygu arac\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131yla ili\u015fkilerine y\u00f6n verece\u011fini s\u00f6yleyen uzmanlar, hayat\u0131 yorumlarken ilk olarak annenin \u00f6rnek al\u0131nd\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 vurguluyor.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 ili\u015fki \u00f6zg\u00fcveni art\u0131r\u0131yor&#8230;<\/strong><br \/>\n\u00c7ocu\u011fun anadilini ke\u015ffetmesi, ya\u015fad\u0131\u011f\u0131 d\u00fcnyay\u0131 anlamland\u0131rmas\u0131 ve davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 kontrol etmesinin anneyi \u2018\u2019taklit\u2019\u2019 y\u00f6ntemiyle geli\u015fir. Soyut ve somut kavramlar\u0131 yine anneden\u00a0\u00f6\u011frenilir.\u00a0 <strong>Anne-\u00e7ocuk<\/strong> ili\u015fkisinde fiziksel temas\u0131n son derece \u00f6nemlidir. Annenin kokusu, v\u00fccut \u0131s\u0131s\u0131, sesi ve bak\u0131\u015flar\u0131 \u00e7ocukla aralar\u0131ndaki ba\u011f\u0131 g\u00fc\u00e7lendirir. Bu duygulardan yoksun b\u00fcy\u00fcyen \u00e7ocuk, bir yeti\u015fkin oldu\u011funda \u00e7e\u015fitli ruhsal sorunlarla kar\u015f\u0131la\u015fabilir. \u00d6zellikle 0\u20133 ya\u015f aras\u0131 anne-bebek ili\u015fkisi, \u00e7ocu\u011fun ruhsal hayat\u0131n\u0131n ve \u00f6zg\u00fcven duygusunun temelini olu\u015fturur.<\/p>\n<p>\u2018Her \u00e7ocuk biyolojik ve genetik yap\u0131s\u0131, zeka, duygusal ve sosyal geli\u015fimi a\u00e7\u0131s\u0131ndan ba\u015fkalar\u0131ndan, hatta \u00f6z karde\u015flerinden bile farkl\u0131d\u0131r. Bu nedenle \u00e7ocuk yeti\u015ftirmenin en \u00f6nemli noktas\u0131, her \u00e7ocu\u011fa farkl\u0131 tutumlarla yakla\u015fabilmek ve i\u00e7inde bulunulan \u015fartlara g\u00f6re hareket etmektir. \u00d6zellikle ilk 18 ay i\u00e7indeki e\u011fitim bi\u00e7imi, \u00e7ocu\u011fu yeti\u015ftirme \u015fekli ve onunla kurulan duygusal etkile\u015fimin \u00e7ocukta g\u00fcven veya g\u00fcvensizlik duygular\u0131n\u0131 olu\u015fturur.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Anne-\u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisinde bunlara dikkat!<\/strong><br \/>\nBebeklik d\u00f6neminde anneye ba\u011f\u0131ml\u0131 olan \u00e7ocuk, 4\u20135 ya\u015flar\u0131ndan itibaren \u2018\u2019birey\u2019\u2019 olmay\u0131 ke\u015ffeder ve bu d\u00f6nemde annenin davran\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131n da de\u011fi\u015fmesi ka\u00e7\u0131n\u0131lmazd\u0131r. Bu sanc\u0131l\u0131 d\u00f6nemde ili\u015fkinin sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 devam etmesini sa\u011flamak i\u00e7in annelerin yapmas\u0131 gerekenleri \u015fu \u015fekilde\u00a0s\u0131ralayabiliriz;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Dinleyin ve cevaps\u0131z b\u0131rakmay\u0131n:<\/strong> D\u00fcnyaya g\u00f6z\u00fcn\u00fc a\u00e7ar a\u00e7maz size g\u00fcvenen \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun anlatt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 sab\u0131rla dinleyin ve sorular\u0131n\u0131 kesinlikle cevaps\u0131z b\u0131rakmay\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Sayg\u0131 s\u0131n\u0131r\u0131n\u0131 netle\u015ftirin:<\/strong> \u00c7ocu\u011funuzun odas\u0131na girerken kap\u0131y\u0131 \u00e7alman\u0131z, onun da ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde davranmas\u0131 konusunda size s\u00f6z hakk\u0131 sa\u011flar. B\u00f6yle k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck detaylara dikkat ederek \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun \u00f6zel hayata sayg\u0131 kavram\u0131n\u0131 geli\u015ftirebilirsiniz.<br \/>\n<strong><br \/>\nYumu\u015fak ama kararl\u0131 bir anne olun: <\/strong>\u00c7ocu\u011funuz <strong>\u201chay\u0131r\u2019\u2019<\/strong> dedi\u011finizde sinir krizleri ge\u00e7iriyorsa sakin, yumu\u015fak ama kararl\u0131 bir bi\u00e7imde ona a\u00e7\u0131klama yap\u0131n.<br \/>\n<strong><br \/>\nBaba ile ileti\u015fimine dikkat edin: <\/strong>Evet, onu 9 ay karn\u0131n\u0131zda siz ta\u015f\u0131d\u0131n\u0131z ve do\u011fumundan itibaren onunla siz ilgilendiniz. Ama \u00e7ocu\u011funuzun geli\u015fiminde \u201cbaba\u2019\u2019 kavram\u0131n\u0131n \u00e7ok \u00f6nemli bir nokta oldu\u011funu ve baba-\u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisine zaman ve zemin yaratman\u0131n da yine sizin g\u00f6reviniz oldu\u011funu unutmay\u0131n&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocu\u011fun bir yeti\u015fkin oldu\u011funda ki\u015filik \u00f6zelliklerini olu\u015fturan ve kendi \u00e7ocuklar\u0131na kar\u015f\u0131 tutumlar\u0131n\u0131 belirleyen son derece kritik ve \u00f6nemli bu \u00f6zel\u00a0ileti\u015fim\u00a0\u00e7ocu\u011fun karakterini de belirliyor.\u00a0 Uzmanlar sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 bir anne \u00e7ocuk ili\u015fkisinin \u00e7ocu\u011fun karakterini belirledi\u011fini vurguluyor ve annelere tavsiyelerde bulunuyorlar.. Bir \u00e7ocu\u011fun ilk sevece\u011fi ve ileti\u015fim kuraca\u011f\u0131 ki\u015fi annesidir Uzmanlar, annenin \u00e7ocu\u011funu beslemesinin, ilgilenmesinin ve onu hayata haz\u0131rlamas\u0131n\u0131n [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":80,"featured_media":1046,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[630,139,341,629,305,628],"class_list":{"0":"post-1103","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-aile","8":"tag-anne-baba-cocuk-arasinda","9":"tag-anne-bebek","10":"tag-anne-cocuk","11":"tag-anne-cocuk-sagligi","12":"tag-anne-ve-bebek","13":"tag-anne-ve-cocuk"},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2018\/03\/anne-kiz-cocuk.jpg?fit=626%2C417&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1103","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/80"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1103"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1103\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/1046"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1103"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1103"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1103"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}