{"id":10459,"date":"2021-04-05T12:02:26","date_gmt":"2021-04-05T09:02:26","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.annebebekkulubu.com\/?p=10459"},"modified":"2021-04-05T12:02:26","modified_gmt":"2021-04-05T09:02:26","slug":"cocuk-gelisiminde-arkadasin-onemi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/cocuk-gelisiminde-arkadasin-onemi\/","title":{"rendered":"\u00c7ocuk geli\u015fiminde arkada\u015f\u0131n \u00f6nemi"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"ez-toc-container\" class=\"ez-toc-v2_0_82_2 counter-hierarchy ez-toc-counter ez-toc-light-blue ez-toc-container-direction\">\n<p class=\"ez-toc-title\" style=\"cursor:inherit\">Yaz\u0131 \u0130\u00e7eri\u011fi<\/p>\n<label for=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-69ea400f67beb\" class=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-label\"><span class=\"\"><span class=\"eztoc-hide\" style=\"display:none;\">Toggle<\/span><span class=\"ez-toc-icon-toggle-span\"><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" class=\"list-377408\" width=\"20px\" height=\"20px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" fill=\"none\"><path d=\"M6 6H4v2h2V6zm14 0H8v2h12V6zM4 11h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2zM4 16h2v2H4v-2zm16 0H8v2h12v-2z\" fill=\"currentColor\"><\/path><\/svg><svg style=\"fill: #999;color:#999\" class=\"arrow-unsorted-368013\" xmlns=\"http:\/\/www.w3.org\/2000\/svg\" width=\"10px\" height=\"10px\" viewBox=\"0 0 24 24\" version=\"1.2\" baseProfile=\"tiny\"><path d=\"M18.2 9.3l-6.2-6.3-6.2 6.3c-.2.2-.3.4-.3.7s.1.5.3.7c.2.2.4.3.7.3h11c.3 0 .5-.1.7-.3.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7zM5.8 14.7l6.2 6.3 6.2-6.3c.2-.2.3-.5.3-.7s-.1-.5-.3-.7c-.2-.2-.4-.3-.7-.3h-11c-.3 0-.5.1-.7.3-.2.2-.3.5-.3.7s.1.5.3.7z\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/span><\/label><input type=\"checkbox\"  id=\"ez-toc-cssicon-toggle-item-69ea400f67beb\"  aria-label=\"A\u00e7\/Kapat\" \/><nav><ul class='ez-toc-list ez-toc-list-level-1 ' ><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-1\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/cocuk-gelisiminde-arkadasin-onemi\/#Cocugun_arkadas_iliskileri\" >\u00c7ocu\u011fun arkada\u015f ili\u015fkileri\u00a0<\/a><\/li><li class='ez-toc-page-1 ez-toc-heading-level-2'><a class=\"ez-toc-link ez-toc-heading-2\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/cocuk-gelisiminde-arkadasin-onemi\/#Arkadaslik_neden_bu_kadar_onemli\" >Arkada\u015fl\u0131k neden bu kadar \u00f6nemli?<\/a><\/li><\/ul><\/nav><\/div>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar neden arkada\u015f edinmeli? Arkada\u015fl\u0131k \u00e7ocuk geli\u015fiminde ne kadar \u00f6nemli? \u00c7ocu\u011fun ki\u015filik geli\u015fiminde kurdu\u011fu arkada\u015fl\u0131klar nas\u0131l bir etkiye sahip? <strong>\u00c7ocuk Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve Hastal\u0131klar\u0131 Uzm. Dr. Zeynep \u0130bi\u015fo\u011flu Ba\u015ftan,<\/strong> merak edilen sorular\u0131 yan\u0131tlayarak<strong> \u00e7ocuk geli\u015fiminde arkada\u015fl\u0131k kurman\u0131n \u00f6neminden bahsetti<\/strong>, ailelere \u00f6nemli tavsiyeler verdi.<\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Cocugun_arkadas_iliskileri\"><\/span><strong>\u00c7ocu\u011fun arkada\u015f ili\u015fkileri\u00a0<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n sosyal geli\u015fimi ailede ba\u015flar ve okul hayat\u0131ndaki arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkileri sayesinde geli\u015fir. Ailede verilen e\u011fitimin yan\u0131 s\u0131ra arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkileri de gerek \u00e7ocu\u011fun karakterinde gerekse sosyal hayata adaptasyonunda b\u00fcy\u00fck \u00f6nem ta\u015f\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Arkada\u015flar\u0131m\u0131zla payla\u015ft\u0131\u011f\u0131m\u0131z her \u015fey ki\u015fisel geli\u015fimimize katk\u0131 sa\u011flar. Hayat\u0131m\u0131zda her zaman yeni fikirlere ve d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelere a\u00e7\u0131k olmal\u0131y\u0131z. Bu sayede hayat\u0131m\u0131z\u0131n \u00e7ok daha iyi ve kaliteli olmas\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flayabiliriz. Tabi t\u00fcm bu payla\u015f\u0131mlar\u0131 ve yeni fikirleri de\u011ferlendirirken hayat\u0131m\u0131za yapacaklar\u0131 katk\u0131lar\u0131 g\u00f6z \u00f6n\u00fcnde bulundurmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmal\u0131y\u0131z.<br \/>\n\u00c7ocu\u011fun ki\u015filik geli\u015fiminde ebeveynler mi yoksa arkada\u015flar m\u0131 \u00f6nemli bir etkiye sahip?<br \/>\nHepimiz merak ederiz ve sorar\u0131z bu soruyu asl\u0131nda. Harris\u2019in <strong>\u201cgrup sosyalle\u015fmesi\u201d<\/strong> teorisine g\u00f6re 3 ya\u015fa kadar olan d\u00f6nemde \u00e7ocu\u011fun ki\u015filik geli\u015fimi tamam\u0131yla onu yeti\u015ftirenlerin elindedir. Ancak 3-4 ya\u015flar\u0131ndan sonra bu etki giderek azalmakta ve ergenlikle birlikte ki\u015finin karakter geli\u015fiminde arkada\u015f \u00e7evresinin etkisi ailenin etkisinden daha fazla rol almaktad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Okumal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z: <span style=\"color: #993300;\"><a style=\"color: #993300;\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/cocuk\/karantina-sureci-cocuklarin-psikolojilerini-nasil-etkiliyor\/\">Karantina s\u00fcreci \u00e7ocuklar\u0131n psikolojilerini nas\u0131l etkiliyor?<\/a><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-10461\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/arkadas2.jpg?resize=696%2C464&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"696\" height=\"464\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/arkadas2.jpg?w=1280&amp;ssl=1 1280w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/arkadas2.jpg?resize=300%2C200&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/arkadas2.jpg?resize=1024%2C682&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/arkadas2.jpg?resize=768%2C512&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/arkadas2.jpg?resize=696%2C464&amp;ssl=1 696w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/arkadas2.jpg?resize=1068%2C712&amp;ssl=1 1068w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 696px) 100vw, 696px\" data-recalc-dims=\"1\" \/><\/p>\n<h2><span class=\"ez-toc-section\" id=\"Arkadaslik_neden_bu_kadar_onemli\"><\/span><strong>Arkada\u015fl\u0131k neden bu kadar \u00f6nemli?<\/strong><span class=\"ez-toc-section-end\"><\/span><\/h2>\n<p>-Aidiyet duygusu, de\u011fer g\u00f6rme hissi kazan\u0131m\u0131na ve \u00f6zg\u00fcveninin geli\u015fimine yard\u0131m eder.<\/p>\n<p>-Ayn\u0131 d\u00f6nemi ve ayn\u0131 sorunlar\u0131 payla\u015fan insanlarla birlikte olmak g\u00fcven ve rahatl\u0131k hissi verir.<\/p>\n<p>-Di\u011ferlerinin ya\u015fant\u0131lar\u0131 onlar i\u00e7in \u00f6nemli bir bilgi kayna\u011f\u0131d\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Di\u011ferlerinin kimliklerini, rollerini, de\u011ferlerini ve anlay\u0131\u015flar\u0131n\u0131 deneyimlemenin yoludur.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Olumlu arkada\u015fl\u0131klar yeti\u015fkinli\u011fe yolculukta \u00f6nemlidir. Sosyal, duygusal becerilerinin kazan\u0131m\u0131n\u0131 sa\u011flamak, ba\u015fkalar\u0131n\u0131n d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcncelerini anlama ve onlara hassas davranmak gibi\u2026<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Akranlar\u0131yla vakit ge\u00e7irirken birbirlerini model al\u0131rlar. Sa\u00e7lar\u0131n\u0131, g\u00f6r\u00fcn\u00fcmlerini ve ilgilerini bulundu\u011fu gruba g\u00f6re de\u011fi\u015ftirebilirler. Bu, bir grup taraf\u0131ndan kabul g\u00f6rme, onaylanma ve g\u00fcven duyma ihtiyac\u0131n\u0131n kar\u015f\u0131land\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131 g\u00f6sterir.<\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Ailelerin ve arkada\u015flar\u0131n rolleri birbirinden farkl\u0131d\u0131r. Arkada\u015fl\u0131klarda k\u0131sa vadeli se\u00e7imler \u00f6nem kazan\u0131rken, ebeveynler uzun vadeli se\u00e7imlere odaklanmaktad\u0131rlar. \u00c7ocukla kurulan g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc ba\u011f ve gencin arkada\u015fl\u0131klar\u0131yla elde etti\u011fi sosyal becerilerin dengeli uyumu onu yeti\u015fkinlikte g\u00fc\u00e7l\u00fc, ba\u015far\u0131l\u0131 ve sosyal becerileri y\u00fcksek bir birey haline getirir.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Okumal\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z: <span style=\"color: #993300;\"><a style=\"color: #993300;\" href=\"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/cocuk\/cocuklarda-sorumluluk-duygusunu-gelistirebilmek-icin-ipuclari\/\">\u00c7ocuklarda sorumluluk duygusunu geli\u015ftirebilmek i\u00e7in ipu\u00e7lar\u0131<\/a><\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p><strong>\u00c7ocuklar\u0131n sa\u011fl\u0131kl\u0131 sosyal ili\u015fki kurma becerisi sa\u011flayabilmesi ad\u0131na birka\u00e7 \u00f6neri<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>-\u00c7ocu\u011funuzla konu\u015fun.<\/p>\n<p>-Uygun davran\u0131\u015flar i\u00e7in net kurallar koyun.<\/p>\n<p>-Arkada\u015flar\u0131yla birlikte vakit ge\u00e7irmeleri i\u00e7in f\u0131rsatlar yarat\u0131n.<\/p>\n<p>-Olumsuz duygularla ba\u015f etmelerini sa\u011flay\u0131n ve sorunlar\u0131 \u00e7\u00f6zmelerine yard\u0131m edin.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00c7ocuklar neden arkada\u015f edinmeli? Arkada\u015fl\u0131k \u00e7ocuk geli\u015fiminde ne kadar \u00f6nemli? \u00c7ocu\u011fun ki\u015filik geli\u015fiminde kurdu\u011fu arkada\u015fl\u0131klar nas\u0131l bir etkiye sahip? \u00c7ocuk Sa\u011fl\u0131\u011f\u0131 ve Hastal\u0131klar\u0131 Uzm. Dr. Zeynep \u0130bi\u015fo\u011flu Ba\u015ftan, merak edilen sorular\u0131 yan\u0131tlayarak \u00e7ocuk geli\u015fiminde arkada\u015fl\u0131k kurman\u0131n \u00f6neminden bahsetti, ailelere \u00f6nemli tavsiyeler verdi. \u00c7ocu\u011fun arkada\u015f ili\u015fkileri\u00a0 \u00c7ocuklar\u0131n sosyal geli\u015fimi ailede ba\u015flar ve okul hayat\u0131ndaki arkada\u015fl\u0131k ili\u015fkileri [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":149,"featured_media":10460,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"jetpack_post_was_ever_published":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_access":"","_jetpack_dont_email_post_to_subs":false,"_jetpack_newsletter_tier_id":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paywalled_content":false,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[3],"tags":[],"class_list":{"0":"post-10459","1":"post","2":"type-post","3":"status-publish","4":"format-standard","5":"has-post-thumbnail","7":"category-cocuk"},"jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"jetpack_featured_media_url":"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/04\/arkadas1.jpg?fit=1280%2C853&ssl=1","jetpack-related-posts":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10459","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/149"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=10459"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/10459\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/10460"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=10459"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=10459"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/annebebekkulubu.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=10459"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}